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WisconsinOwner -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:03:33 AM)

Thank you Miss Magnolia...I've been thinking the same thing for the last ten minutes but you worded it much better than I ever could have.




hermione83 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:07:06 AM)

I really can't believe you all being so vicious to me just because I'm a virgin and don't want to go to the doctor. I really see no reason for it. I've seen long drawn out helpful answers with details to other people here.. It would be a big help. I don't see what my stance on that is, or how it relates, but I am not looking for anything less than marriage, here, just on the off chance it's possible, and this is the sort of relationship I would have with him. And, I would be able to talk to him about such things, and only such things. My ex found labs on me for kits for taking pap smears and stuff and sending them in, and he said he would help me that after we get married, so I wouldn't have to go to the doctor. So I'll do those kinds of things if I can. And, I have had an ultrasound of my lower abdomen once when I was having some ovarian problems. Scientists came out with frogs with clear skin so students didn't have to cut open real frogs in school, and likewise, I try to find my way around things, if possible.




breatheasone -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:08:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hermione83

I have an IQ of 144, actually, and I'm not going. So please, any advice you can give me. There's nothing I can do for it if there is something wrong anyway, and I don't have the money to visit the doctor, even if I wasn't mortified. No one is looking at my naked parts. I'm completely serious. I would die or bleed to death first.

If something IS wrong no one could fix it for you online..and your above statement pretty clear states your position so seriously.....what is it you want?




hermione83 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:08:37 AM)

Mistoferin, I saw an endocrinologist for that, not a gynecologist.




Estring -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:09:01 AM)

This has got to be in the running for the most bizarre thread ever on Collarme.




hermione83 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:10:25 AM)

I'd like to know if I am or am not abnormal and find the truth. Whether I need to continue to worry about this anymore, or not, and what kind of problems this will cause for me in the future... If I'll ever be able to have anal sex with my future husband if I have one.. if anyone else has torn anything there.... if my shape is abnormal or normal...




MissMagnolia -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:13:05 AM)

I know Estring, but tiz tremendously funny isn't it? PMSL[:D]

OP, you're abnormal. Trust me, you are.[8|]




Estring -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:15:03 AM)

She seems to be a bit anal about this. [:D]




laurell3 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:15:10 AM)

how the hell could we possibly know that?  you do realize you're talking to pervs on a sex site at 3 am right????????????
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hermione83 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:15:46 AM)

MissMagnolia, maybe I'm very abnormal in your circles, but most of the women I'm close with first went to a gynecologist soon *after* they were married. If I have to go, I will at least wait til then. And if that doesn't happen, I'm not sure what I will do, but I'm not ready or secure enough to at this time. Maybe when I get older I will feel comfortable going.




hermione83 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:19:03 AM)

Well, apparently MissMagnolia is in the 99.9999992699% percentile for her IQ, why would I expect anything less than to know if the average anus is perfectly round or if it is more of an elongated oval towards the back and slightly slit like as you feel back?? That should be a question that REALLY doesn't require THAT much thought here.




breatheasone -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:19:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hermione83

I'd like to know if I am or am not abnormal and find the truth. Whether I need to continue to worry about this anymore, or not, and what kind of problems this will cause for me in the future... If I'll ever be able to have anal sex with my future husband if I have one.. if anyone else has torn anything there.... if my shape is abnormal or normal...

G-O.....T-O....A...... C-L-I-N-I-C.......G-E-T........ C-H-E-C-K-E-D......B-Y.....A....... P-R-O-F-E-S-S-I-O-N-A-L....or you can do what you said before ....
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No one is looking at my naked parts. I'm completely serious. I would die or bleed to death first.




mistoferin -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:21:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hermione83

MissMagnolia, maybe I'm very abnormal in your circles, but most of the women I'm close with first went to a gynecologist soon *after* they were married. If I have to go, I will at least wait til then. And if that doesn't happen, I'm not sure what I will do, but I'm not ready or secure enough to at this time. Maybe when I get older I will feel comfortable going.


If you are not ready or secure enough (or mature enough) to see a gynecologist, you certainly aren't ready to be in an adult relationship.




MissMagnolia -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:21:13 AM)

My circles? You mean the haggard old witches at the coven sabbats who had sex before marriage and/or needed medical help before marriage and therefore must be thrust in the pits of hell? Yes, perhaps.

You asked if you were abnormal, I answered you. If you don't want answers, don't ask questions.[:D]




Estring -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:22:32 AM)

Gives new meaning to "I know my ass like the back of my hand". Who even pays that much attention to their ass? You need a hobby.




laurell3 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:22:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hermione83
Well, apparently MissMagnolia is in the 99.9999992699% percentile for her IQ, why would I expect anything less than to know if the average anus is perfectly round or if it is more of an elongated oval towards the back and slightly slit like as you feel back?? That should be a question that REALLY doesn't require THAT much thought here.
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LOL yeah that will work, insult a Dominant into giving you what you want.....rofl
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WisconsinOwner -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:24:14 AM)

Not sure who you are hanging out with.  According to almost any other source, and I'll quote on here:

In fact, after you begin your period, you should begin the habit of having an annual (yearly) exam with a gynecologist: all women should, as part of their normal preventative healthcare, just like everyone should ideally go to the dentist once a year and their general doctor for a yearly checkup.

Maybe you should be doing a little more research on taking care of yourself instead of finding so many reasons not to.





georgejames68 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:25:28 AM)

quote  "They will break your hymen if you get an examination" Yup if your going for a vaginal examination, but unless I cannot read anymore, your problem is with your anus!!!! Last time I checked, an anus is on the opposite side of the body from the vagina. So much for your IQ and your research! Oh, And by the way, My IQ is 147!!!! I find that a great many of the people on this site are pretty damn intelligent.

Just to keep you happy, I checked, mine is nice and round, reasonably tight and firm all around!!!! So... I doubt it but maybe you did break your arse!!!!! Now take all these nice people's advice and visit your gynecologist, beg nicely for her not to "Rape" your vagina...or curl up and die!!!!!




breatheasone -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:27:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: WisconsinOwner

Not sure who you are hanging out with.  According to almost any other source, and I'll quote on here:

In fact, after you begin your period, you should begin the habit of having an annual (yearly) exam with a gynecologist: all women should, as part of their normal preventative healthcare, just like everyone should ideally go to the dentist once a year and their general doctor for a yearly checkup.

Maybe you should be doing a little more research on taking care of yourself instead of finding so many reasons not to.



This was worth repeating...but since your IQ is so high you already knew that right hermione?




hermione83 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:28:21 AM)

No, that's not what I said at all. Most of my friends tend to live very different lives thatn I do, but most of the ladies in my family and some of my frends are more like me. I'm kind of pointing out that you seem to be really aggressive and close-minded about my way of life, so that you can't comprehend that there'd actually be more people out there that chose to live as I do, and that I must need psychiatric help for being this way. I don't think that way about you all, or I wouldn't be comfortable enough to hang here, with people so much different than me. But I would think that you all would return the favor for acceptance of me, but I was wrong. Mistoferin - I don't see what it has to do with being mature or being in a relationship, but there is no reason at all that you all should dispense advice and criticism about me, and not about the only thing I did ask about... I would not be like that to someone else. Nothing I asked was insulting to any of you all. I think what *is* really immature is how I've been treated, just because I'm not the same as the rest of you. I don't post my opinions on people's lives and choices here, or tell people how to live, and you all really shouldn't do that to me, either.




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