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laurell3 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:30:40 AM)
No hermione you need psychiatric help because of your prior posts in which you acknowledged this and because of your obvious need to only seek attention instead of real professional help for yourself. She's not commenting on your choices, you commented on hers. If you don't want someone to confront you, I would suggest insulting a Dom/me on this site would be a good thing to avoid. l

MissMagnolia -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:35:19 AM)
K, I am getting kinda bored with this and a good movie is on TV shortly and this thread, hilarious as it is, is feeding the attention whore mentality. However, before I go I will say this. What is an "average" anus? What is an "average" penis? What is an "average" breast? ALL averages are exactly that, averages. Some boobs are enormous, some little, some floppy, some firm, some have huge nipples, some have little nipples, some are engorged with milk, some are not, etc., etc. The other things are the same (apart from the nipples on a penis or anus, which is a scary thought). You may just have a loose arse from fiddling about with it constantly (I recommend taking up embroidery or crochet, or perhaps scrapbooking). Everyones arsehole is different. It depends on what, how big and how often, things have been going in or out of there. Some people can take a fist up there, others can't. Now for god's sake (yes, I went there, I took the name of the lord in vain. Hells gates, here I come!!!) shut up and stop acting like a 5 year old who has just discovered where babies come from.

Estring -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:35:55 AM)
I keep picturing an indignant girl furiously typing at her pc while half of her ass is hanging off of the chair. Not a pretty picture.

hermione83 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:36:53 AM)
I did realize that that is the medical rec, yes. I go to the dentist 2x a year, and most of the people I know don't bother going that often. I would say most females have penetrated their vagina with a tampon or other object in their liftetime, and that preserving their hymen would be of no concern to them. And I seriously doubt a gynecologist would be able to stand the fact that I do not come in for examinations and they would try to force me into it. And, I think its fairly odd, that I'm criticized by people for that choice, if they know about it, considering the will power it takes, and yet almost every guy I talk to says they want to be the one's to pop a girl's cherry and that it's a huge deal to them, despite that almost no one waits until then to give it the guy anymore.

WisconsinOwner -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:41:01 AM)
My final comment, as this is simply becoming too far fetched to be believable: There's no cherry to pop if one is dead from cervical cancer or something equally resolvable by a simple test done by a professional ... and for the record, I saw a gyn once a year since I was twelve and still had my hymen for the coveted wedding night ... you aren't going to find much sympathy here, those who refuse to take care of themselves rarely do.

breatheasone -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:41:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Did I actually just read that you have PCOS???? How exactly did you get that diagnosed if you can't see a doctor? Damn...you beat me to it....[;)]

hermione83 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:44:57 AM)
PCOS is usually detected first from symptoms, ie absent menses, etc. And then from blood tests that show high insulin, and male hormones. Generally, the "cysts" cannot be felt in an exam, and often times, they cannot even be seen with an ultrasound, so it is not required to get a diagnosis.

mistoferin -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:45:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hermione83 I did realize that that is the medical rec, yes. I go to the dentist 2x a year, and most of the people I know don't bother going that often. I would say most females have penetrated their vagina with a tampon or other object in their liftetime, and that preserving their hymen would be of no concern to them. And I seriously doubt a gynecologist would be able to stand the fact that I do not come in for examinations and they would try to force me into it. And, I think its fairly odd, that I'm criticized by people for that choice, if they know about it, considering the will power it takes, and yet almost every guy I talk to says they want to be the one's to pop a girl's cherry and that it's a huge deal to them, despite that almost no one waits until then to give it the guy anymore. You should know that I used to work in a gynecologists office and we often had virgins come in for exams. There are special speculums used to examine women who have not yet become sexually active and care is taken to not tear the hymen....so you don't lose your virginity during a pelvic exam. Even if your hymen was torn, as many young women have had happen during the normal course of day to day life, you are still considered a virgin until you have vaginal intercourse.

hermione83 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:48:30 AM)
WisconsinOwner - sometimes you'd rather die from losing something anyway, so I'd rather take the risk. Besides: "I am Dr. Ronald O. Valdiserri, Deputy Director of the National Center for HIV, STD, and TB Prevention at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). Thank you for the opportunity to present what we know about the relationship between human papillomavirus (HPV) infection and cancer of the cervix which was one of the most common cancers among women in this country prior to the introduction of Pap smear screening and remains one of the most common cancers worldwide. For more than a century, there have been suspicions that cancer of the cervix is caused by an infectious agent and behaves like a sexually transmitted disease (STD). For example, epidemiologic studies have consistently shown that cervical cancer is rare in virgins but much more common in women who are sexually active and at risk for other STDs especially so in women who became sexually active at a young age, who have multiple sexual partners, or who have sexual contact with a man who has had multiple partners." http://www.hhs.gov/asl/testify/t990316c.html I don't have much to worry about, which is another reason I don't see the need to put myself through it.

mommydomme4fem -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:49:30 AM)
Wow - New to the board and all but here is some really sound advice. Get a grip and get your butt to a doctor. Gynecologist can do an examination on your womanly parts without breaking your hymen. There is stilll a small opening that if you find a professional with training and you tell her can and will preserve yout intactness. She can also tell you if it is intact. Most woman fail to see that if they have ever ridden a horse, done gymnastics or fallen hard on a bicycle seat that they can break their own hymen without having sex. Sorry if I am harsh but that is the truth.

Estring -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:50:44 AM)
You think once your future husband gets a look at your mess of an ass on your wedding night he will even care if your hymen is broken or not? What the hell are you thinking?

laurell3 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:51:44 AM)
damn it, now I have to clean the pop I was drinking off my monitor Estring! l

hermione83 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:52:53 AM)
mistoferin - I appreciate that. I have heard that.... that the plastic ones help .. but I don't understand how that wouldn't break it?? It looks like it is just past the opening.. I know that it can break doing other activities. I'm lucky, I guess. I don't want to tempt fate anymore than I have to. I had a friend who went in high school, who was a virgin, it did break, and she said she felt "raped" and it was a concern of hers for months. And she had nothing wrong with her, and there was no real cause for it. Do you remember anything like that ever happening where you worked? My mom never took me, and never said I should go, and said the first time she went was after she got married, to get birth control pills. Would someone go to a gynecologist for the, er, issue in this thread, or another kind of doctor?? I would have to imagine such an exam request would have to be ridiculously uncommon???

hermione83 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:54:46 AM)
Estring - thanks a lot, you're too kind.

mommydomme4fem -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:55:37 AM)
perhaps instead of a gynocologist you need a proctologist since that is the doctor who is deals in the anally retentive....

Estring -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:57:15 AM)
Just trying to slap some sense into you. By the way, a proctologist deals with that part of the body and I don't think they would get anywhere near your hymen.

mistoferin -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:57:42 AM)
No, the doctor never took anyone's virginity with a speculum. And trust me, this is far, far from ridiculously uncommon.

hermione83 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 1:59:24 AM)
Estring, I even seriously looked them up before but there aren't any in my rural area, even though I know you all are joking with me. Gah, I cannot imagine a more horrible day. I would rather have 15 root canals than anal surgery. If I'm this fragile I don't see how its going to be even functioning by the time I'm 40...

hermione83 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 2:02:29 AM)
Mistoferin, really? I really don't want to be the one the doctor laughs about to the co-workers as soon as I leave because of the area I'm having issues with. For some reason a gynecologist sounds more friendly than a proctologist. At least when you go, everyone in the office wouldn't know the kind of issues you were having, exactly. ><

Jill805 -> RE: Did I break my.... (10/6/2007 2:02:55 AM)
Wow, what a thread. I have recently been diagnosed with bone cancer and it has cheered me up no end to find out that someone has more serious medical problems than me! Get over yourself and get to the doctor............. Why ask here for advice and then denigrate those who give you some?

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