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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 11:49:57 AM

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When you think about it, yeah thats true.

I didn't really think about it when I picked it. I just though, oh how cute and thats so me too!

Maybe I should pick a diff one ... *ponders*

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 12:09:37 PM

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If they have it available they approve it, for whatever reason.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 12:10:04 PM

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CM offers that one?.... all i have to say to that is one big fat WOW.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 12:13:33 PM

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Firstlesson, do not assume people here are not going to be judgmental. I've seen some of the most judgmental assholes be in this "lifestyle"

Second don't go forcing things up your ass if you're not willing to get medical help when things go wrong, and eventually yes something is going to go wrong when you play.

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If you all were really so open and understanding and non-judgemental as it always seems,

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 12:17:46 PM

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Just to keep you happy, I checked, mine is nice and round, reasonably tight and firm all around!!!! So... I doubt it but maybe you did break your arse!!!!! Now take all these nice people's advice and visit your gynecologist, beg nicely for her not to "Rape" your vagina...or curl up and die!!!!!

ROFLMAO - i was wondering if anyone was going to check their asshole for her.

To the OP:

i understand a fear of going to the doctor - trust me on this. i let my gallbladder burst and could have died - very STUPId of me, so i do empathize with you on that.

You probably are not going to die from whatever aberation there is on your asshole. You probably tore it a little by yanking the plug out on an angle. If it was in for a long time and the lube dried up the plug adheres to the walls of the rectum and you can pull the tissue out when you pull. Try pushing like you have to go to the bathroom next time you pull one out and not leave it in for a long time. Also use tons of lube so it won't get dry. Give it time to heal, clean it if there is any bleeding with hydrogen peroxide and stop anal play for a while. See how it feels when you pass a stool. Your body at 24 is not falling apart because you hurt your hiny hole.

Before i had kids mine was tight as a pin hole - round. All i can say is it's still round but its puffy - the harder i strain to go poo poo the puffier it gets. More fiber and i am tight again. If i birthed an almost 11 lb baby with a 4th degree perineal laceration that required over 200 stitches (i was one big hole) you're going to be fine from one little plug being yanked out.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 12:21:57 PM

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If i birthed an almost 11 lb baby with a 4th degree perineal laceration that required over 200 stitches (i was one big hole) you're going to be fine from one little plug being yanked out.

Yeoooooowwwwtch! Dear gods I'm glad I didn't give birth. *gulp* All you women that had the courage for it kudos to you. And jeez I think some of you were really harsh, she was in a scared situation dealing with a phobia. She is young and sounds pretty inexperienced with things.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 12:27:18 PM

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Honestly, before I went to a gyn for the first time ... I was scared to death too.

My first visit, I took a stuffed lion. I was scared to death. The doctor was cool though.

She sat down and asked if it was my first time. I said yes and she smiled and said it was ok. She talked about every step BEFORE she did it and made sure I said "yes, I'm ready" before she moved on.

I have also been to a gyn when I could not go through the whole exam. I was extremely sore and swollen down there. She didn't force me. She just took a quick peek, no touching and went on with the rest of the exam.

The point is, if you're too scared to get medical help, you shouldn't be playing grown up games. I was concerned when she said she had to "force" things in because her arms are too short. I thought the first rule of anal play was never force anything? In any event, you should learn your body BEFORE you start messing around with it. Then you don't have to wonder if something got changed or broken.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 12:31:48 PM

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Yes one 'should' learn. But I think we have all not done something we 'should' have at some point. I think the attitudes and things said were not proportionate to her post, she was asking for help on something that scares the crap (yes I said that on purpose

) out of her and there could have been a slightly kinder push to tell her to see a doctor anyway. This one is very personal to me because I too have a genuine fear of gynos, it is totally irrational and something I should get past but I can't. Not even my dom can.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 12:31:50 PM

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hey now, becareful you're not seen as impuning the good name of such fine hobbies!

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You may just have a loose arse from fiddling about with it constantly (I recommend taking up embroidery or crochet, or perhaps scrapbooking).

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 12:39:19 PM

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Yes one 'should' learn. But I think we have all not done something we 'should' have at some point. I think the attitudes and things said were not proportionate to her post, she was asking for help on something that scares the crap (yes I said that on purpose ) out of her and there could have been a slightly kinder push to tell her to see a doctor anyway. This one is very personal to me because I too have a genuine fear of gynos, it is totally irrational and something I should get past but I can't. Not even my dom can.

People got frustrated when she kept stubbornly refusing to accept the very advice she asked for ... I don't think they were out of line to start dishing it right back at her. Especially when she started trying to insult and manipulate someone into giving her different advice because the sound advice wasn't what she wanted to hear.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 1:00:47 PM

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FR: You can't help people, who won't help themselves.
To the OP: as Hamlet said to Ophelia: "Get thee to a nunnery" if you're so worried about your virginity and privacy. You can serve the ultimate master, and not have to worry about him or anyone else ever wanting to see your private parts.
Glad to hear the sugar pills from India work so well. A perfect example of the placebo effect in action.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 1:25:19 PM

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Yes one 'should' learn. But I think we have all not done something we 'should' have at some point. I think the attitudes and things said were not proportionate to her post, she was asking for help on something that scares the crap (yes I said that on purpose ) out of her and there could have been a slightly kinder push to tell her to see a doctor anyway. This one is very personal to me because I too have a genuine fear of gynos, it is totally irrational and something I should get past but I can't. Not even my dom can.

People got frustrated when she kept stubbornly refusing to accept the very advice she asked for ... I don't think they were out of line to start dishing it right back at her. Especially when she started trying to insult and manipulate someone into giving her different advice because the sound advice wasn't what she wanted to hear.

She didn't ask for advice, she asked for information - people just assumed she hadn't considered her options and which would be best for her. Yes, she knows seeing a doctor is the best thing she could do, but she is also terrified of it, and will have to do it alone. If at all possible she wants to avoid that. Your 'advice' while sound, was essentially useless. Certainly not an excuse for the majority of you to turn into rude and abusive haridans, and humiliate her publically. If you're frustrated and unable or unwilling to help, why bother replying? Why bother going to the effort to insult and abuse someone. Just keep your trap shut, go read another thread. I also did not see her once do more than defend herself towards the end of the conversation, so "dishing it right back at her" doesn't hold water. Fortunately calmer heads have prevailed.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 1:28:06 PM

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Why bother going to the effort to insult and abuse someone. Just keep your trap shut, go read another thread.

This is the best bit of advice so far. I suggest you take it.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 1:41:58 PM

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Your 'advice' while sound, was essentially useless. Certainly not an excuse for the majority of you to turn into rude and abusive haridans, and humiliate her publically. If you're frustrated and unable or unwilling to help, why bother replying? Why bother going to the effort to insult and abuse someone. Just keep your trap shut, go read another thread. I also did not see her once do more than defend herself towards the end of the conversation, so "dishing it right back at her" doesn't hold water. Fortunately calmer heads have prevailed.

But where would the entertainment value be in doing that? You mean actually give someone what they ask for, information and not advice? People have stated over and over again on these forum threads they do not take issues here seriously and are here for pure entertainment value, so OP's like this one is like throwing a juicy bone to a hungry dog. i don't like it, you don't like it but that's the way the CM cookie crumbles.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 2:30:01 PM

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To the OP:

I am telling you, as a primary care provider...you need to get it checked out in person to be SURE everything is okay. I; myself, would never put my licence at stake just to tell you that you seem okay from your description. I couldn't risk being sued. Any other responsible health professional will most likely feel the same way.

However; I will tell you that if you did have a 3rd or 4th degree tear, you would most likely be haemmoraging and be at the hospital. The pain is unbelievable.

ETA: Have you thought about supplementing with Chasteberry (aka Vitex) for your PCOS? There is some good evidence of hormonal balancing with daily supplementation.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 2:40:35 PM

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Your 'advice' while sound, was essentially useless. Certainly not an excuse for the majority of you to turn into rude and abusive haridans, and humiliate her publically. If you're frustrated and unable or unwilling to help, why bother replying? Why bother going to the effort to insult and abuse someone. Just keep your trap shut, go read another thread. I also did not see her once do more than defend herself towards the end of the conversation, so "dishing it right back at her" doesn't hold water. Fortunately calmer heads have prevailed.

But where would the entertainment value be in doing that? You mean actually give someone what they ask for, information and not advice? People have stated over and over again on these forum threads they do not take issues here seriously and are here for pure entertainment value, so OP's like this one is like throwing a juicy bone to a hungry dog. i don't like it, you don't like it but that's the way the CM cookie crumbles.

Somewhat of a sad indictement then, is it not?

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 2:41:17 PM

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Yes one 'should' learn. But I think we have all not done something we 'should' have at some point. I think the attitudes and things said were not proportionate to her post, she was asking for help on something that scares the crap (yes I said that on purpose ) out of her and there could have been a slightly kinder push to tell her to see a doctor anyway. This one is very personal to me because I too have a genuine fear of gynos, it is totally irrational and something I should get past but I can't. Not even my dom can.

People got frustrated when she kept stubbornly refusing to accept the very advice she asked for ... I don't think they were out of line to start dishing it right back at her. Especially when she started trying to insult and manipulate someone into giving her different advice because the sound advice wasn't what she wanted to hear.

She didn't ask for advice, she asked for information - people just assumed she hadn't considered her options and which would be best for her. Yes, she knows seeing a doctor is the best thing she could do, but she is also terrified of it, and will have to do it alone. If at all possible she wants to avoid that. Your 'advice' while sound, was essentially useless. Certainly not an excuse for the majority of you to turn into rude and abusive haridans, and humiliate her publically. If you're frustrated and unable or unwilling to help, why bother replying? Why bother going to the effort to insult and abuse someone. Just keep your trap shut, go read another thread. I also did not see her once do more than defend herself towards the end of the conversation, so "dishing it right back at her" doesn't hold water. Fortunately calmer heads have prevailed.

I think I've just been chastised.

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I *did* take the time to her what *MY* booty is like and I also mentioned that other booties are different too. I also wasn't the only one. Its not like everyone set out to pick on her or anything but the truth is, she makes me think of myself several years ago. I'd go around posting weird random issues and then soak up the attention; positive and negative. Eventually some dominant would come along, feel sorry for me and give me a little nurturing. It felt good.

And then I grew up.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 3:15:27 PM

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She didn't ask for advice, she asked for information - people just assumed she hadn't considered her options and which would be best for her. Yes, she knows seeing a doctor is the best thing she could do, but she is also terrified of it, and will have to do it alone. If at all possible she wants to avoid that. Your 'advice' while sound, was essentially useless. Certainly not an excuse for the majority of you to turn into rude and abusive haridans, and humiliate her publically. If you're frustrated and unable or unwilling to help, why bother replying? Why bother going to the effort to insult and abuse someone. Just keep your trap shut, go read another thread. I also did not see her once do more than defend herself towards the end of the conversation, so "dishing it right back at her" doesn't hold water. Fortunately calmer heads have prevailed.

Why do you assume that people assumed the op hadn`t considered her options ? She clearly stated that in the first post, as a matter of fact she asked for neither advice or information, but for help, and people did. They pointed her to the people that will know best, doctors. Just because that advice wasnt what she wanted to hear, it doesn`t make it useless, now does it ?

To the OP..... Trust me, the anguish you are suffering about getting checked far outweighs a visit to the doctor. You could spend years worrying yourself silly, and in the end still need treatment. If there is nothing wrong, you are worrying for nothing, if there is something wrong, it needs looking at sooner rather than later. Maybe phone a few GYN`s and find one who treats nervous patients.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 3:19:38 PM

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