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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 7:03:14 PM

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OK, OK, I have been slapped on the wrist by mod 11 for calling "someone" a pompous arsehole after I was called pond scum. Fairy nuff. I can't help it if I like to poke at the monkeys.

I think we have someone with "white knight syndrome", aka enabling. No matter how ridiculous the situation, a white knight will defend to the death someones "honour", even those who will clearly be encouraged to continue with self destructive behaviour by such "defense". It encourages the "poor me" mentality and hinders any actually positive action.

In line with TOS, I suggest that we all email photo's of our arseholes to the OP (none in the thread please), so that comparisons can be made. If it turns out that the OP's bumhole differs in any way to the 100,000 "average" arsehole types, she may consider herself abnormal and still refuse to go to the doctor. But at least she will know for sure that she has a different bumhole from the rest of the planet!!

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 7:15:20 PM

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perhaps instead of a gynocologist you need a proctologist since that is the doctor who is deals in the anally retentive....

bout darn time someone said it.....what's her anus have to do with a gyno anyway? a procto is what she needs....sheesh. I was wondering if I was going to read a full five pages and then have to say it myself....

er um..make that EIGHT pages...crazy.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 7:43:36 PM

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Maybe they are afraid the proctologist will slip his finger in the wrong place and turn into a gynecologist!

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 7:49:38 PM

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perhaps instead of a gynocologist you need a proctologist since that is the doctor who is deals in the anally retentive....

bout darn time someone said it.....what's her anus have to do with a gyno anyway? a procto is what she needs....sheesh. I was wondering if I was going to read a full five pages and then have to say it myself....

er um..make that EIGHT pages...crazy.

Earthy, having just reviewed your photo, I'd like to say in front of God and everyone....you're the only woman I ever truly loved.

(And I mean that...no really I do).

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/6/2007 7:53:22 PM

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Yes one 'should' learn. But I think we have all not done something we 'should' have at some point. I think the attitudes and things said were not proportionate to her post, she was asking for help on something that scares the crap (yes I said that on purpose ) out of her and there could have been a slightly kinder push to tell her to see a doctor anyway. This one is very personal to me because I too have a genuine fear of gynos, it is totally irrational and something I should get past but I can't. Not even my dom can.

People got frustrated when she kept stubbornly refusing to accept the very advice she asked for ... I don't think they were out of line to start dishing it right back at her. Especially when she started trying to insult and manipulate someone into giving her different advice because the sound advice wasn't what she wanted to hear.

She didn't ask for advice, she asked for information - people just assumed she hadn't considered her options and which would be best for her. Yes, she knows seeing a doctor is the best thing she could do, but she is also terrified of it, and will have to do it alone. If at all possible she wants to avoid that. Your 'advice' while sound, was essentially useless. Certainly not an excuse for the majority of you to turn into rude and abusive haridans, and humiliate her publically. If you're frustrated and unable or unwilling to help, why bother replying? Why bother going to the effort to insult and abuse someone. Just keep your trap shut, go read another thread. I also did not see her once do more than defend herself towards the end of the conversation, so "dishing it right back at her" doesn't hold water. Fortunately calmer heads have prevailed.

How exactly does one give another "information" over the internet about their asshole having never seen said asshole or having met said person? One doesn't. One tells the person they probably need to see a physician. If in response, the people offering advice get chastised by a tantrum, they're most likely going to respond in kind. If you missed the part where she nonchalantly skipped over another poster's information about a very seirous medical condition until I pointed it out to her, I suggest you read again.
You can excuse her rude behavior if you want and even reward it. I chose not to.
Obviously she's an intelligent girl with alot of issues, as per my previous posts to her, she needs to get help. I highly doubt your sage advice via internet is going to do much for this girl other than reinforce her fear that she really doesn't need to seek out professionals. How helpful is that? Honestly, the person doing harm here is most likely you.
Personally, I have a problem with extreme anxiety around needles due to a very bad childhood physician. I understand how hard it can be to follow through with medical/dental appointments that involve this fear very intimately. That doesn't mean I don't still have the responsibility as an adult to care for myself. I do, and I wouldn't pitch a bitch at those that said something that was obviously true in this regard.
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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/7/2007 5:38:19 AM

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Maybe they are afraid the proctologist will slip his finger in the wrong place and turn into a gynecologist!

Either hole sounds like a good date to me.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/7/2007 11:02:40 AM

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An appointment with a specialist, like a proctologist, usually takes longer to get, and costs more. First logical step would be a family practice or general practitioner (whatever they are called in your locale). They have certainly seen enough ailing anuses to know what is normal and what isn't; they won't examine the vaginal area without specific request or permission, and she can get an overall health screening, such as blood pressure, heart, lungs, etc. Best value for the money, in my opinion.

Then, if it is just hemorrhoids, he can reassure her and offer care advice (usually no specialist needed). If there has been damage to sphincter muscle, he can refer her to a specialist. If she is not in pain, not bleeding, and not having accidents involving gas or poop escaping involuntarily, then she is probably fine.

Since this injury was caused (from what she said) by her arms being too short to reach around and insert the dildo straight, then for safety she might consider securely mounting the device (no pun intended) on something like a post where she can back up to it gradually and not need to use her hands at all.

As far as the rest of the varied discussion....I will only say, each of us is expected to be mature enough to care for ourselves, both routine maintenance and emergency care when needed. If she is too afraid of doctors to go for exams and care, then she needs to seek treatment for this fear.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/7/2007 6:31:30 PM

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To me this sounds like just another hard day at the orofice

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/8/2007 5:16:32 AM

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I took the time to read through this entire thread and I'm going to try to answer your question and respect your concerns regarding medical care. As I understand it you are concerned that you may have damaged yourself during anal play. Believe it or not, you are probably the best person to address your concern. If you were to see a doctor, the first thing they are going to do is get your assessment of the problem. So, what do you think? On a scale of 1 to 10, how bad does it hurt? Is there any blood? What do your gut feelings tell you? If you are in extreme agony or bleeding a lot, I think you know what you must do - seek immediate medical care. If you feel like this is a wait and see how it feels tomorrow or in a few days, then you should go with how you feel. The key is that you are the best first judge of how to proceed.

Is it possible that you did some damage? Sure. But I doubt that you did anything overly serious since you were still able to post numerous times to this thread. I know every time that I have been seriously injured, I was in no condition physically or mentally to post messages on a message board. Again, you are probably the best judge of what is going on with your body.

As for what a "normal" anus looks like in a "typical" situation - they are round, tight and puckered. That is what mine looks like. I think you are probably more interested in what a "normal" anus looks like after anal play that ended up being a bit rough and probably a bit too long without activity (causing the plug to stick to the internal tissue). In that case, I think that slightly oblong and bulged on one side is what I'd expect to see. I will admit that I'm guessing as I've never actually seen an anus in that situation. But I have seen in person and on video how much an anus can change in shape when things are inserted into it.

I think that the most likely situation is that the plug got stuck to the tissue from being left in too long without activity and the lube dried up. Then the tissue got irritated when you pulled the plug out. And you probably caused your anus to be temporarily misshaped because you pulled the plug out violently and at an angle. If it feels right to you, I'd suggest you wait and see how you feel in a few days.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/8/2007 9:51:55 AM

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I suggest that we all email photo's of our arseholes to the OP

aiiight, sending her a pic of my ex-husband, his head kinda oval.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/8/2007 11:58:49 AM

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If this had been a male asking people to people to please describe in detail their anuses because he had really short arms and can't really examine it himself and he can't go to a doctor, and we have to give detailed descriptions of what a 'normal' anus looks like so he can compare it to his own bunghole.... what would the reaction be and would the thread last 8 pages? So..... females can't be all about seeking wank material? Just asking.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/8/2007 12:39:32 PM

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I'm still puzzed how the OP got the plug in her a$$ if her arms are as short as she claims.

Did she prop it, then sit on it? (thumb up like Fonzerelli!)

Did she back into it, like a truck pulling in to a loading dock?

BEEP BEEP.

that reminds me, I love that show 'Lil people, small world'. The Roloffs rock!

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/8/2007 2:39:16 PM

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All I'm saying is if she or "he" had been working out with a driveshaft outta say a 63 dodge, then she or "he" could still have t-rex arms and enjoy anal. I'm just saying

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/8/2007 2:40:05 PM

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Did she back into it, like a truck pulling in to a loading dock?

BEEP BEEP.

Thanks... Forevermore that visual will pop into my head every time i hear that sound.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/8/2007 11:44:20 PM

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um...you don't have to go to a gyno to get your butt checked.

That's why proctology is its own specialty. See a proctologist. Or even a GP/family doctor. Trust me they won't need to look at your front side if they're checking for a torn anus.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/9/2007 12:17:12 PM

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Earthy, having just reviewed your photo, I'd like to say in front of God and everyone....you're the only woman I ever truly loved.

It does get the full five stars, yeah.

The question being, how can one compete with e01n?

Health,
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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/9/2007 12:49:32 PM

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Well this beats all the whining "should I stay with my drama dom" posts..so..

Have you looked at your ass with a mirror? Maybe you just irritated the tissues and have a hemorrhoid? Not the end of the world. At age 24, virgin or not you should be getting regular pap smears. Your hymen being intact has nothing to do with your virginity, seriously. If you haven't had a real live penis rammed in there, you are a virgin, honest. You can get cervical cancer, uterine cancer, ovarian cancer, vaginal cancer, cancer of the rectum...without ever having sex and you can get them at age 24...seriously you need to look into your states healhcare program. If you have lupus and other medical conditions you can probably get medicare disability or given your posts here perhaps disability based on mental illness..either way you should look into getting some insurance.

Why don't you have insurance? If its because you can't afford it why are not on medicaid or medicare or whatever your states health insuance program for people at or under the poverty level?

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/9/2007 12:55:41 PM

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I suggest that we all email photo's of our arseholes to the OP

aiiight, sending her a pic of my ex-husband, his head kinda oval.

now THAT was funny!!

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/9/2007 2:12:59 PM

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GeorgeJames, I'm aware, and have seen the small hole in the center of the barrier, and felt it. It's not enough to get a tampon, or a finger through, and if you stick forceps or a plastic ring inside, that stretches one open, it would break right through the fragile barrier that has a perforation. As stated above, it can be broken doing the splits or riding a horse. Having something stuck inside and opened can't be a good way to hang-on to your hymen.

Not to ditract from what George said, but there is all variety of of personal situations. Regarding Hymens, I know that they are not the same. Not because I'm a doctor, etc, but regarding a woman who couldn't have sex with her Boyfriend (my best friend), because her hymen was too strong ( envision a knight with a spear like in that one movie trying to get thru her chastity belt, came to mind). I asked my dad about it and he did impart what little knowledge I'm about to share: yes, some women cannot have sex unless they go see a doctor to surgically get it removed/opened because its too strong to break normally.

Perforation and covering, etc, all varies.

You are not the only person who rather die than get medical treatment, think of the AMISH and their beliefs. Makes me wonder what their life expectancy is....

If GOD has a sense of humor he gave you a extremely strong hymen so you won't be able to break it with a spear, you'll have to go to a doctor before you can enjoy your honeymoon.

I hate to disagree with you GeorgeJames, but I live near an Amish community. The Amish do go to doctors, and their life expectancy is as long as ours is.

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RE: Did I break my.... - 10/9/2007 3:15:25 PM

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GeorgeJames, I want to apologize to you. I'm very sorry, I thought from hermiones post that you had written about the Amish. I was trying to keep my on 2 um's, as well as post. Please forgive me.

As for this thread, I agree with everyone else. See a doctor, or quit yer bitching.

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