hermione83 -> RE: Not a 'true' Dom\sub because your a switch. (11/17/2007 10:51:21 PM)
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I'm going to try to be open minded here. I really would like to be talked out of my, well, deep belief that someone who has a deep submissive and a deep dominant streak is not a true dominant. I know that's really not popular, and I'm willing to listen - but I just still don't get it. Sorry to those who feel they're beating their head against the wall, I'm just clueless. It's like this to me - Let's say I want to a find a Christian. I find one, he goes to church, loves God, knows everything and we have a great time doing all of this together. THen I find out he goes to a satanist group just as much, and loves satan, and bows down and worships him. Obviously, I would feel betrayed because loving satan is opposed to loving God, according to everything I believe in and everything I thought he did, saying he was a Christian. Or let's say he believes deeply in being a vegan, and yet is a butcher for a living. I can't reconcile it in my head. I can't imagine trusting and submitting to a man who ever desired to submit to someone else. It physically makes me nauseous imagining the guy doing all this stuff to me taking the same from some other person. He's supposed to want to be dominant in every situation and love that. I would be more than insecure and would not be able to believe that he really liked what he was doing if he could go and do the absolute opposite.. It's like thinking a guy is masculine manly manly and then seeing him up on stage shaking his stuff ta-ta's in drag. They'd both do crazy numbers to my head.
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