ownedgirlie
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub I think this may be starting to get into the different ways you can have a *insert your prefered dynamic here* relationship. In our relationship I am expected, even required, to tell him if I can not service him because I need to get sleep. This is simply because he would rather have me be well-rested and accomplishing more during the day than if I were exhausted from getting up at 3 AM for a blow job, something we consider to be very minor as far as service goes. If he woke me and I mumbled at him "Need sleep for class" he would be pleased with me for making him aware of the situation and would leave me alone. Yes, it has to do with the expectations of that dynamic. In my dynamic as my Master's slave, I am expected to provide whatever service he wants, whenever he wants. That expectation has been made clear to me, as your expectation has been made clear to you. The OP made it clear he expects TPE, which to me means he has all the authority and decides when he wants what. To me this means he gets to decide when he wants a blow job, and whether it is a "minor" service or not. She doesn't get to decide that for them. It appears, however, that either he has not yet made this expectation clear to her, or she does not care about it. Mostly, however, I was offering a different way of looking at things, since there were so many opinions which expressed shock and awe (my exaggeration) that he would even think of waking her. To some of us, it's really not that big a deal, and even a privilege. To others, it is. As you said, it depends on dynamics and preferences. quote:
I do agree with you that punishment probably isn't the solution here. Provided I don't need the sleep to be awake for class, meetings, long drives, etc., even I enjoy being woken up to serve when done so pleasently and am met with his wicked smile. We agree about the punishment. But having survived a semester of little sleep while working full time while servicing my Master during the night while dealing with some other major life issues, you might be amazed at what people enjoy doing. Servicing him at night was my one place of respite. I never once feared for my sleep deprived life, although several days in a row of this did make me quite tired so he held off for awhile.
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