juliaoceania
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Joined: 4/19/2006 From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Invictus754 quote:
ORIGINAL: juliaoceania Dude, I do not know why you have such issues with this submissive you do not know, you sound very angry. I sound angry because my print is so large. It does amaze me, however, that no one thinks the woman involved has made a unsound decision to be in this lifestyle with a mental disorder. And I was also astounded that someone would suggest a "safe" word to get out of waking up early. That dilutes the use of safe words so much it is just unfathomable. "Dude"? LOL! Im Californian..Dude is rather a common term here. If she had a sleep disorder, would you think she should not have some sort of respect for her issue? Sleep disorders are more common than you think. Did you know that a valid defense in court is that a person is awakened and goes balistic, injurying or killing someone under these circumstances is a legal defense.. because some people do not wake up right away, even though they seem "awake". Sleep walking is common in my family, I have done it once myself. I used to have conversations with people while asleep, eyes open and everything. The last time this occurred was when my son was first born. My son would awaken, I would feed him and not remember having done so. My husband would get very angry with me the next day... I guess I said terrible things to him that I have no recollection of... should I be held responsible for that? He held me responsible, even though to this day I have no memory of it. So before we go unloading on someone, we should make sure we have all the important facts. Mental illness is something that can be controlled, and if I loved someone that was mentally ill I would do all I could to help them get well. I do not think my loved ones are easily discarded. Perhaps a submissive is not that valuable to you, that is cool, but I would hope that I was valued more dearly than no attempt made at all on my behalf... He surely should have known this information before getting involved with her, and if she kept it from him, that is unfortunate. I have one family member that has suffered from mental illness, and it is a very sad disease.. but it is a disease.
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