Jayxkes
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Good point...I saw that first hand when I used to be a plus size model. I was amazed at the manufacturers who could have easily made larger sizes that would have looked good, sometimes even better, on the larger ladies. It was not so much that size 8 (actually it is a bit smaller now) made the clothes look good (although one could say that lack of breasts, hips, butt, etc. would make runway garments fall properly, according to the fashion press), but more so that the retailers had decided that they would not carry larger sizes thinking that all larger size women hated their bodies, therefore would not spend the money on designer clothes. So the fit models are all size 8. I can tell you first hand, that all the models, skinny or plus size, had body imperfection issues, eating disorders, etc. even though they were considered beautiful and being paid well for it. The media and advertising world has created unreal expectations of women and so many women fall into the self hating mode. I despaired this past holiday when my 8 year old brilliant, incredibly beautiful, THIN niece asked me if she was too fat. I asked her why she thought this. She said, "well the worst thing you can be is fat, everyone at school said so". THAT was a sad commentary. YES! I do despair at the irresponsible way children especially are fed this rubbish! But that's a very long rant for another day! My photography has bought me into contact with many women of all shapes and sizes, professional models, amateur models and clients. You are absolutely right, just about all of them had some 'imperfection'. I've worked with some stunningly attractive, (in the physical sense), models, but the one that stands out and gives me a great deal of pleasure and pride still was a friend I'd got to know via a BDSM chatroom. She wanted some specific images of herself and it took over 2 years of talking and reassuring her, for her to pluck up the courage to actually do them. In her words she was 'mid 40s, fat, not at all pretty and never took a good photo'. We did the photos after I had promised that we would destroy any she wasn't happy with. I did them on a digital camera and printed them myself, so no-one, (not even my wife), saw them before she did. The look on her face as she looked through them was the best reward I've ever had. And we didn't have to destroy a single one. She even agreed to let me use a couple in my portfolio. Although she would never be a model, she was and still is a truly beautiful woman.
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