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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/26/2008 8:42:34 AM

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Somehow, I thought she would notice that comment.... pass the popcorn, Angel.

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/26/2008 10:07:31 AM

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no problems, wyld. butter or extra butter?

c'mon bsb, show us what you're made of!

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/26/2008 10:39:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

lastly.. a more personally comment... I think some of the more beautiful things of the human body... Is the imperfections!

I think this way, too.

My Master and I are at a point where we playfully joke about imperfections. We know where our imperfections are. We accept them in ourselves and in each other. I've gained a lot of weight in the last year as a result of a ton of stress. Just the other night he said, "That ass is becoming quite the target, girl. I mean, I could blindfold myself and still not miss it." Bah! I told him I'm just trying to make things easier for him in his old age. We tease each other. No harm meant or taken. Personally I love the blemishes on his body. I love his extra weight. I love his surgical scar.

Much like what Michael said, the heart sees the person we love as a beautiful being whom we long for. The imperfections just contribute to what makes them so unique.

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/26/2008 11:17:30 AM

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I just had another abdominal surgery. The first was my partial hysterectomy 17 months ago where a bikini cut was made. That scar is in the fold of skin that happens when your tum tum gets a tad..... fluffy.

This surgery had to have an up/down incision that runs from my belly button down to my hysterectomy scar, so I now have an upside down "T" intersection on my lower belly.

When my Master and I were talking about this, He said He had never even noticed my hysterectomy scar!

Yea, I think we sometimes make too much of our imperfections. Love is blind.

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/26/2008 11:26:30 AM

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When my Master and I were talking about this, He said He had never even noticed my hysterectomy scar!

Yea, I think we sometimes make too much of our imperfections. Love is blind.

Last year I had a sizable tumor removed from my breast. They cut along the areola and while the scar is now hardly noticeable, it took several months for it to stop looking like a dog bite with a big crater in my breast. I was horrified, and one day I presented my ta ta's to Mr. Wonderful with tears in my eyes and asked if he can ever enjoy them again like he used to. He took 'em both in his hands, observed, and said, "Huh. They look the same to me" and kissed me on my forehead.

*sigh*

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/26/2008 11:56:58 AM

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I'm always very self concious about my body as I'm considered BBW. A small one, but still BBW. I have stretch marks and scars and a flabby belly from having children. I do let my potential lovers know that I feel self-concious but have never been rejected because of it. I do feel self concious at times. The Dom I'm with now makes no comment about me and only seems to find pleasure in me so I am happy with that..

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/26/2008 12:10:49 PM

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I have been finding it very heartening to read the responses on this thread and have been following it from the start.

The brain is so bizarre.... logically I know that my scars are a symbol of how close I came to death, emotionally I still avoid looking at them whenever possible and I fear that people will literally cringe or do a double take when they see them (I have had doctors look at it and say "wow it is so big" ..... not quite the comment you want them to say

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I haven't had a chance to road test them with anyone yet so time will tell.

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/26/2008 12:11:57 PM

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I think as we get older most of us change our expectations for ourselves and our mates. I find my Daddy to be one the the sexiest men I have ever known, and I can't think of anything that could change my mind about that.

Very true, julia. One's body will wax and wane and acquire "battle scars" .. the spirit and personality will always remain.

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/26/2008 12:15:20 PM

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Pssst, Wandersalone - your new profile picture is beautiful!!!

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/26/2008 12:26:36 PM

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BSB isn't perfect either, I could list any number of flaws that my eyes see.<snip>

Any number of flaws huh?

Even the most perfect of diamonds has flaws but in my eyes no gem is more perfect than you woman.

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/26/2008 12:34:05 PM

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smiles.... thankyou so much Ownedgirlie and I hope that maybe one day I will meet my own Mr Wonderful.

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Pssst, Wandersalone - your new profile picture is beautiful!!!

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/27/2008 6:02:05 AM

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no problems, wyld. butter or extra butter?

c'mon bsb, show us what you're made of!

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Even the most perfect of diamonds has flaws but in my eyes no gem is more perfect than you woman.

Angel, darling...
Need I say more?

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/27/2008 6:44:05 AM

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Personally, I think we tend to look at ourselves with a very critical eye. I know for myself I can see all my physical imperfections and I am a BBW. All Master sees is someone who is beautiful and sexy in his eyes. Because that is what he sees, I try not to be so hard on myself and try to remember he likes the whole package.

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/27/2008 7:13:35 AM

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Angel, darling...
Need I say more?

no....

does he have a brother?

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/27/2008 8:29:47 AM

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Actually,

I do have a younger brother but we are worlds apart. Imagine Grizzly Adams but more disheveled and "out there". My brother lives just south of Yosemite National Park and is so far out into the country that there is bear scat all over the trail that runs past his cabin.

He is however, perfect fodder for this thread. He was always the hip one, tended bar, hung with the in crowd, etc. Could have any chick he wanted. He lives with a woman nearly 15 years older than he is and by most conventional standards of commercial beauty, isn't attractive. However, he adores her.

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/27/2008 12:49:34 PM

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You know... it's damn near impossible to find out what someone finds an "imperfection" about themselves, and what they find a "positive feature". And annoyingly enough, I've lost an equal number of opportunities because I was turned on by someone's feature that they couldn't stand, as I have because I was turned off by a feature they liked or couldn't stand, as I have because I didn't notice or didn't comment on a feature they liked or couldn't stand.

I understand that sometimes you can't win for losing, but people should be giving each other a little slack, I think.

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/27/2008 3:59:36 PM

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Actually,

I do have a younger brother but we are worlds apart. Imagine Grizzly Adams but more disheveled and "out there". My brother lives just south of Yosemite National Park and is so far out into the country that there is bear scat all over the trail that runs past his cabin.

He is however, perfect fodder for this thread. He was always the hip one, tended bar, hung with the in crowd, etc. Could have any chick he wanted. He lives with a woman nearly 15 years older than he is and by most conventional standards of commercial beauty, isn't attractive. However, he adores her.

damn. let me know when they clone you, please, michael. though two of you in this world.....

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/27/2008 4:14:26 PM

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The Dom who deserves you will see only your mind - The rest is merely wrapping, whose
imperfections would be irrelevant. If that's not how they feel, find someone better.

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/27/2008 4:15:36 PM

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Hm. I prefer lights off, myself. The thought of being seen naked in full light is terrifying to me, and in fact I do all I can to get men to NOT look , even clothed. :) My biggest "deal breaker" fear is my ass/thighs. Hell, I even avoid walking up stairs if there's someone behind me. I'd really much prefer that men don't look at me at all now that I think about it, because that way they won't find something wrong with me. *headscratch*

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RE: Body Imperfections - 7/28/2008 5:27:46 PM

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And That... is perfection...

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The Dom who deserves you will see only your mind - The rest is merely wrapping, whose
imperfections would be irrelevant. If that's not how they feel, find someone better.

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