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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 12/11/2007 8:31:07 AM

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Good stuff!

Technology can be your friend - if you can harness its mysterious powers!

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 12/11/2007 9:00:38 AM

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If you were one of the satanists----why nothing would be easier.

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 12/11/2007 9:15:52 AM

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*gasps*

the OP's wearing white shoes with a black skirt....

methinks that i have common sense and a good gut instinct to know whether or not someone's just being a fuckwad. but that's just me.

OMG!!! You are so right...and here I was just wondering why she has not come back to see all the answers to her question.

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 12/11/2007 9:24:52 AM

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If I believed every bad thing anyone said about anyone else-I'd be afraid to leave the house.

I think we can all make our own choices. And not rely on the bitterness of others to do it for us.

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 12/11/2007 9:35:14 AM

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It is a little known fact that most technology was invented by Satan, Thats why the List is kept on paper............with a pencil.........gratuities CAN impact a persons appearance on said List

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 12/11/2007 9:35:24 AM

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But of course - that is why I settle for a slow 999MHz processor...it helps conjure the evil quantum leaps from satan right into my hard-drive.

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 12/11/2007 9:54:00 AM

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Oh, no question about it, the days of waltzing around in a robe, getting the kiss of shame on the ass and all that cloven shit......long gone.......

You need a PDA and all kinda gagetry to snag a soul nowadays, and descend into the ninth ring of hell with them.....

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 12/11/2007 10:03:01 AM

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Recruiting the proper help is essential too! Why do you think I have a dead gum snake slithering around my feet anyway? Sometimes, low-tech can be good, too!

But then again, tech-heads take pride in every soul they can catch in their PDA-cast net matrix!!

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 12/12/2007 6:00:08 AM

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Put me at the top of Santas list. I've been a very good boy in a evil sorta way.

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 7/22/2008 2:26:57 AM

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all i can think about is all the doms i've had "ohhhh yo'ure not a true sub" because i won't have phone sex with them or something stupid like that.

i'd hate to end up on a list for stupid shit like that

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 7/22/2008 5:17:17 PM

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Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 7/24/2008 12:53:45 AM

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You know, I get that everyone has their opinions and poo poo's the notion that the OP raised. But why do the responses (not all, but many) have to be so damn snotty? I see it over and over again in these forums. Instead of offering an intelligent response, there is sarcasm beyond what is really necessary to get one's point across. And then someone decides to say something "witty" and the thread takes on an entirely different flavour. It's really discouraging.

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 7/24/2008 9:53:27 AM

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The responses that you are calling snotty are in some cases 4 years old. This is an old thread that the one before you tried to resurrect. I daresay half the posters if not more are not even here anymore.

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 7/24/2008 10:13:17 PM

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The responses that you are calling snotty are in some cases 4 years old.

The OP started this thread on December 10th, 2007, which is just over 7 months ago, not 4 years old.

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This is an old thread that the one before you tried to resurrect. I daresay half the posters if not more are not even here anymore.

There are actually 2 posters prior to mine that made recent posts.

Of those posters who first responded (on the first page), all but two have been online this month, so probably are still active members. Regardless of the number of still present members, this is not the first thread where I have encountered this sort of commentary and I stated this in my post.

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 7/24/2008 11:09:25 PM

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Ok, mister meticulous, the two before you were the only ones since around December, give or take a month. Better? It's still an old thread.

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 7/25/2008 7:35:38 AM

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Who are you to decide who is and isnt a predator? Its like someone getting angry at their ex and yelling rape after the fact. He said She said and thats all it is.

Master's ex told everyone she could get a moment with that Master was a sex addict, a liar, and dangerous because he's a hard core sadist.

The reality was" Months after they broke up she bought him an expensive single tail for his bday, tried to cheat on her new Dom with my Master, and tried to break up our relationship. When that didn't work she tried to get him fired and tried to get him arrested. Seriously, three years later she was still popping up in our lives. I actually considering getting a restaining order against her.

So, accordining to the OP, Master is a predator because is ex says so. According to me Master's ex should have the word "psycho" tattooed on her forehead as a public service announcement. Who is right?

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 7/26/2008 8:11:08 AM

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After typing out a long drawn out response.. it comes down to this. He said/ She said. When does it stop? Allowing it to start opens up to large a can of worms.

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 8/7/2008 2:11:34 AM

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The people I refer to are the ones who have left scars on others, endangered life and showed a blatant disregard for the safety of others. If you were new, would you truly want to think that someone knew what a person like this was capable of and knowingly chose to keep it from you?

Could someone be so callous as to not care about another's safety when a known predator is amoung them???

As a new-ish sub, I'd be inclined to take an even closer look at the "predator". You say s/he is a bad, bad person. How did you find this out? Did you personally play with the person? If you didn't how can you know that the danger is real. I'd be more inclined to look upon you disfavourably for spreading gossip and rumors.

Secondly, I like scars. Getting them, having them. I have a scar on the middle of my right forarm from the hot tip of a knife. Third degree. Zero sensation. Nerve damage. But I don't regret it. Even when it got infected and I had to get IV therapy. I don't regret it. Thirdly, who defines "life endangerment"? Mummification has high risks of death if done improperly. Breath play is obviously dangerous. Knife play as well. Hell, sex can kill you. Who knows what diseases the "predator" is hiding from you. Who is to decide who should and should not be welcomed into our wild crazy world?

If you look at history and the modern era, anytime blacklisting of suspected predators is used, it gets blown out of proportion, people get hurt, and lives are possibly ruined. i for one do not want to be involved in that kind of practice.

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 8/7/2008 5:04:36 PM

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I think it's great that you try and help new and inexperienced people, but there is a potential problem, which I suppose is unavoidable: what is to prevent a personality clash from resulting in a bad rep for a Dom/me who doesn't in any other way deserve one?

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RE: Why the Administrators cannot allow blacklists, but... - 8/13/2008 7:59:21 AM

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If you were new, would you truly want to think that someone knew what a person like this was capable of and knowingly chose to keep it from you?

No, I wouldnt. I wouldnt want to hear about what someone's exgirlfriends or exboyfriends may or may not have really gone through with them. I would ot want to hear the compiled horror stories of someone who pissed off the popular girl ad then had her and all her frinds say they did bad things. If soeone had a verifiable police record, maybe. But thats the extent of it. Beyond that, no one's opinion should be presented to a new person. You should not go out of your way to make sure the newcomers are not goig to be happy with someone who has had a few failed matches.

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