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Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 2:58:47 PM

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Ok, so many of you helped me realize mine and my masters plan was not thought out as well as it should be. I want to thank you all for that!

But now I have a new question... What semi public tasks have you been made to do, or would like to try. I am looking for new ideas. Hope to hear from everyone soon!

RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 3:13:06 PM

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once when I was having a phone session with a Dom, he had me stand naked in front of my living room window......didn't really care for that. Another Dom, (who is a friend of mine) had me take off my shirt and bra, and dash outside and press my nipples to the car window next to us. that was kindof a turn on.

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 3:40:43 PM

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once when I was having a phone session with a Dom, he had me stand naked in front of my living room window......didn't really care for that. Another Dom, (who is a friend of mine) had me take off my shirt and bra, and dash outside and press my nipples to the car window next to us. that was kindof a turn on.

Was there anyone in the car?

Personally, we don't do much in the way of public - asides from at dungeons and parties specifically set up for sexual play. The most I've had to do is walk from a car to the house with my shirt pulled up in the middle of mountainous bum-fuck-nowhere. I prefer using play parties to scratch my itch for public play.

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 4:43:24 PM

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1. Totally naked in the car giving a BJ.

2. Humping in host's bathroom.

3. No panties

4. No panties, and thigh high stockings with a skirt that BARELY covers the tops of the stockings, so if you drop something, you're SOL.

And...my favorite...Halloween at the Palms in Las Vegas dressed as a school girl in a super short skirt that showed a little bit of butt cheek, white g-string, shirt unbuttoned to reveal a black velvet bra, and a very obvious collar with d-ring. YOu shoulda seen the look on people's faces when we left the Stratoshpere. You shoulda seen the look on the cab driver's face. Ahhh, the things you can get away with on Halloween!

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 5:33:24 PM

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I was working in a public place, constant contact with clients, and i've got considerable breasts hidden underneath my shirts. The Dominant I was collared to called right before the shop was to open and had me remove my bra and leave it off for the entire morning. I wasn't happy about it, but I did it just the same.

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 5:48:39 PM

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i always walk behind my Mistress in public
At the mall i carry her purse and all her packages. It's not an "in your face" public scene, but it works for us.

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 6:27:36 PM

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I wear a thick stainless chain with a lock on it. At the park, ren fairs, street fairs and such, I pull milady in a special rickshaw carriage customized special for her.

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 6:36:29 PM

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there is no way I would engage in nonconsensual kink.

I did not post on the other thread because others stated everything I had to say about it....

I will say here that in my opinion taking chances of exposing others to our kink is repulsive to both of us... this is a hard limit for him and it is outside of his ethical boundaries... while it isn't rape exactly, it is still possible to be forcing someone to take part in your scene without their consent.

Part of the thing about semi public (and to be honest I do not even know what "semi-public"means, it is either public or it isn't. It is a word game to make it seem better than it is. It is like saying "she is a little pregnant") is the risk of being caught is the actual thrill of it... I just do not play games with other people that did not agree to them...

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 7:04:25 PM

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I think you can do some things in public as long as you are not engaging in sexual acts or public nudity. Wearing SLAVE and MISTRESS T shirts is not going to hurt anyone. Exposed genitalia on a city street is asking for trouble.

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 7:14:19 PM

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I think you can do some things in public as long as you are not engaging in sexual acts or public nudity. Wearing SLAVE and MISTRESS T shirts is not going to hurt anyone. Exposed genitalia on a city street is asking for trouble.

Or giving blow jobs in a theater. I read the other thread she posted, and I get the distinct impression her master would like to do something titilating in public involving an orgasm.

And the t-shirts may work for you, but my Daddy would not even want to go that far. He is very adament about flauntng what we do in public. He has reservations about sex in the woods because someone might walk up on us... even if we hiked into the wilderness for an hour or so... and I have some twisted fantasies involving tree bondage

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 7:34:40 PM

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I understand, but even if it is not your cup of tea, the T shirts and things like that are not putting sexual things in people's faces. Blowjobs in a theatre is just a bad idea. All risk and no reward.

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 8:33:22 PM

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All risk and no reward.

I think the reward is all for the dominant that wants this fantasy lived out, but if I were the submissive sort he was using for this adventure that he was planning I would just have to ask myself these questions...

1) Is what he is asking going to jeopardize other people?
2) Is what he is asking going to jeopardize me?

If the answer to the first question is "yes", I probably wouldn't get to the second question. At the very least I would not think much of my dominant's judgment if he discussed a scenario with me that so blatantly may impact others, and I do not think I could respect that or follow such a person.

Now we have the same person asking for us to come up with common sense ways her master can get his rocks off nonconsensually without risking her... it gets better all the time, don't it? I would seriously begin to wonder if I had to design the scenes because my dominant did not have the common sense to do it without possibly putting me in peril.. but that is just me

I agree that there are things that a dominant could have a sub do that might embarass them without making it apparent that the two were involved in a scene... but getting each other off in a so-called "semi-public" place isn't one of them

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 11:12:23 PM

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I would consider a semi-public place to be something like the back of a panel van parked down by the beach late at night. Or in the back row of the drive in. Or on the top level of a parking lot. You are in the seclusion of the back of your own vehicle, nobody can see in, nobody knows what you are doing, the only risk of exposure is if somebody opens the door of your property to peer in. And vanilla people do stuff like that all the time, I don't believe it is a BDSM act of "non consentually exposing others to your kink" at all.

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/11/2007 11:50:20 PM

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I definitely agree with you littewench. In my past vanilla relationships I had sex in neumerous semi-public places. All different levels of the Universal City Walk, LA parking structure, pulling off random dark roads for quickies, sex on my ex's car hood in his drive way, im sure there are plenty others places i could list. And like I said this was a vanilla relationship!

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/12/2007 12:02:57 AM

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To suggest one never commits a non consensual act in public is a slight exaggeration isn't it?
I have a 'feeling' you will disagree with me julia, but there is no such thing as 'consensual' relationships and that includes the acts you commit, the clothing you wear, even down to holding hands or a small kiss in public.

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/12/2007 12:47:54 AM

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I don't make out in public, and I certainly don't do scenes of any kind in public. That said, there are ways... the no panties and don't cross your legs, text message my whereabouts, run errands for Him.

I had to go to work with words written all over me once but I'd forgotten I was going to the acupuncturist - my FIRST visit, so I didn't realize they put those little needles all over you, so when they tried to pull up my shirt to put some in my belly!! oh i pulled it down soooooooooo fast.... noone was the wiser, but I think the doc may have gotten a glimpse. He certainly smiled - maybe my reaction, maybe he saw, but either way.... I have been rethinking that whole thing.

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/12/2007 1:06:35 AM

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juliaoceania wrote: to be honest I do not even know what "semi-public"means, it is either public or it isn't. It is a word game to make it seem better than it is. It is like saying "she is a little pregnant"

`Semi-public' gets used in two ways. One is that it's in public but there's no way that anyone's ever going to know, such as wearing a butt plug in a public place; the other that it's technically a public place but the chance of anyone else being there is very low, such as doing something in a deserted place. I've absolutely no problem with the first and actually rather enjoy it; the second I'm personally less comfortable with (sod's law has a way of making low-probability events take place) but it would depend on what was being done and where.

And I don't think the original suggestion of blow-jobs in cinemas is `semi-public' in either sense.

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/12/2007 5:32:39 AM

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question - what is your definition of "semi-public"? are you in public and hiding what you're doing? because i don't see a grey area between public and private ...it's either or.

publicly, i have had sex on the beach, in a public park with Chicago's finest watching from the squad car, given bjs inside the glass elevators of 2-5 star hotels (sorry won't name the places), out in the open at a forest preserve, did erotic public display of affection in the back of a famous Chicago club, in the men's bathroom at a restuarant, and restuarant stockroom.

now that i'm older and wiser, i don't do public tasks anymore ...it's better private with my imagination going wild.

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/12/2007 7:25:20 AM

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I've done things in parks, in school yards.. in the middle of the night of course... Want to have fun in a grave yard... When I met Master we had fun in the car while he would pick me and drop me off. He would have me undo my pants so he can have his fun with me.. I've given him blow jobs while going down the road. He says that its fun to watch people as they look over. Obviously they can't do anything about it because well, we are on the road.. what can they do... We'll tease eachother when we are out shopping and running errands.

There's a lot you can do... i love the thrill of possibly getting caught. In fact I have gotten caught in a park before. Didn't get arrested at the time.. which was a good thing because the dude I was with was well over my age and would have gone to prison... But.. yea.. got off with just a warning. Telling us that the park was closed. lol.

So far it's pretty fun to go down the freeway or whatever with his hand down my pants.. or me giving him a blow job. More often than not we are fairly caustious about it. When there are fewer cars on the road. We don't do it doing rush hour or anything.

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RE: Semi-public task part 2! - 12/12/2007 7:30:24 AM

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To suggest one never commits a non consensual act in public is a slight exaggeration isn't it?
I have a 'feeling' you will disagree with me julia, but there is no such thing as 'consensual' relationships and that includes the acts you commit, the clothing you wear, even down to holding hands or a small kiss in public.

the.dark.

We can split hairs on this issue, but this is one issue I remain steadfast on, it is wrong to use other people that did not consent to help you orgasm...

Now we can talk about kissing and hand holding, but I am not going to go there. To me it is no different than going up to a woman on the street and flashing her because it makes a guy hot, and having sex in a place where one "might" get caught. Both are fetishes, both involve having sexual pleasure from others nonconsent. And I think it is wrong

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