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Do you ever - 1/6/2008 10:13:55 PM

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get the feeling that some Dominants and couples are just looking for someone to clean, do the launbdry and cook when they ask for submissives. This way they don't have to pay someone. Some of these profiles give me the feeling that they are just looking for cheap labor. i could be wrong.

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RE: Do you ever - 1/6/2008 10:15:42 PM

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Absolutely. And some subs want that also.

The difference is the ones who are open and direct about it and the ones who aren't.

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RE: Do you ever - 1/6/2008 10:18:34 PM

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Thanks. i thought maybe it was just me.

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RE: Do you ever - 1/6/2008 10:20:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

get the feeling that some Dominants and couples are just looking for someone to clean, do the launbdry and cook when they ask for submissives. This way they don't have to pay someone. Some of these profiles give me the feeling that they are just looking for cheap labor. i could be wrong.

Well... yes some are looking for exactly that. They are looking for service submissives/slaves and there are submissives and slaves out there who are more than happy to come to their houses and clean with no scening or emotional attachments. In fact they want to.

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 4:39:38 AM

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I met a Domme who called me every day to bring her take-out lunch & dinner [my treat]. It didn't last.

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 5:24:51 AM

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yes i've met couples who were looking for that black servant submissive/slave fantasy for household duties. i simply replied i'm not Hattie McDaniels and i don't work for free

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 5:33:45 AM

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well for everyone this can be something that does have different implications.seeing as such if my Lord and Mistress just wanted a cook and housekeeper they could have hired someone for that again.

part of what sparked their interest in me was that i was seeking a 24/7 O/s,C. Also what added to that spark is i had experience as a cook, and have also had experience as a housekeeper on steamboats.it was just part of the "package" so to speak. i didn't ask for any "payment" nor did they offer any payment and not paying me in money had/has nothing to do with that "typical slave" as mentioned in another post.(a slave doesn't have to be the sterotype we all know from history).

in return for being their slave and also their housekeeper they provide for me in all manners that i would need.even today we are finalizing my health care.they give me a roof over my head,food in my belly,a bed in my chamber,a warm home. in return i give them my services both sexually when they call upon me and also keep their home clean and meals ready when expected to be ready for them.

to myself,my Lord and my Mistress this is all just part of the life we all have together.

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 5:36:43 AM

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We can pay someone to do those things for us and we do have someone come and care for our lawn year round. What Master and I seek is another female or sub couple to come and join us as part of the family in ALL aspects from A to Z.

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 2:39:26 PM

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I've known of some submissives who will pay to come clean someone elses house. They pay for the pleasure of dressing in the little maid outfit and being ordered about. I don't see anything wrong with someone doing this or wanting this.

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 2:45:29 PM

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i am a sub and even i have been offered the services by male slaves to come and clean for me, one even offered me money to let him do it. of course some wanted to also play. but hey, who am i to turn away a slave who wants me to sit on his face! although i have yet to let one come to my house or i to his. i see nothing wrong with it as long as every body involved knows what is expected up front. its all about honesty and communication.

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 2:49:24 PM

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I know it is some people's kink and I am all for whatever floats your boat. Also, I love the idea of someone else cleaning my house.

However, there is no amount of money a guy could give me that would want me to watch him clean my house dressed in a skimpy french maids outfit. Hairy legs, 5 oclock shadow, and lace just don't do it for me...........

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 2:52:05 PM

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However, there is no amount of money a guy could give me that would want me to watch him clean my house dressed in a skimpy french maids outfit. Hairy legs, 5 oclock shadow, and lace just don't do it for me...........

I could endure it---getting paid for a clean house might make me want to be a 'switch'. If I take my glasses off I can't see that great anyways

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 3:01:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I know it is some people's kink and I am all for whatever floats your boat. Also, I love the idea of someone else cleaning my house.

However, there is no amount of money a guy could give me that would want me to watch him clean my house dressed in a skimpy french maids outfit. Hairy legs, 5 oclock shadow, and lace just don't do it for me...........

Well gosh, when ya put it that way, it IS unsexy. Ya gotta squint your eyes, dim the lights, put on sun glasses that have lenses covered in paint and maybe, poke yourself in the eye. It should be a lil easier to stomach then, eh?

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 3:08:18 PM

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greetings takenbyjohn,

sometimes - but that's only because i seek a submissive because i want somebody to snuggle with and give me massages (although i promise to love them and hug them and call them george and everything). so i can't blame other people for having ulterior motives. in my experience, though? i tend to get far more from my own dominant than i give. so they can't be all bad.

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annabelle.

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 3:21:40 PM

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Exactly.
For me, I am kept fairly sane because I keep a lid on my need to care for someone by giving out massages. No strings attached, no sex involved, not even any play, just simple massage, will allievate the need for more for a short time.
Sometimes that is all we want.
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Absolutely. And some subs want that also.

The difference is the ones who are open and direct about it and the ones who aren't.

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 3:22:48 PM

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quote:

get the feeling that some Dominants and couples are just looking for someone to clean, do the launbdry and cook when they ask for submissives.

Yep! been there done that

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 3:26:01 PM

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Yes, I have service only slaves. They like it, I like it, whats your problem with it?

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 3:33:07 PM

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Yes, I have service only slaves. They like it, I like it, whats your problem with it?

Excuse me?
The OP asked if anyone ever gets a feeling some Doms or couples only want someone to clean, cook
I said yep been there done that-because I have .

Please show me where I say I have a problem with it?

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 3:36:54 PM

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You are excused. I was refering to the question.

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RE: Do you ever - 1/7/2008 3:41:44 PM

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At the risk of starting a serious flame war here -

It was asked, and I paraphrase. "If all a dom wants is someone to clean their house, why don't they just hire a maid?"

I must counter with "If all a dom wants is sex or play, why don't they just hire a prostitute?"

The answer is, some people have such a desire to do it, and enjoy it so much that they are willing do it for free. And they don't see any shame and belittlement in doing so.

So why is one acceptable to some people on this site and the other not?

Kinda puts things in perspective I think.

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