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juliaoceania -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 8:59:26 PM)

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The counter question: Would it matter to your slave if their Dom was an insecure, judgemental bastard?


I have a hard limit with those



MadRabbit -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:03:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

Damn that Seinfield and his "Any time a nipple makes an appearance it's sex" BS.



Anyone with a profile on Alt.com must have sexual experiences numbering in the millions then.




hisannabelle -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:10:28 PM)

greetings openmindedslave,

He and i both had many partners before we got together. neither of us know each other's exact numbers (or probably our own). He loves that i'm "easy" and encourages me to be as slutty as possible ;) (not being a whore would be disobeying the rules. actually, right now i'm in trouble for only having one other partner.)

respectfully,
annabelle.

p.s. having a lot of sexual partners doesn't make one a whore or easy, though, in my opinion. i just happen to be slutty, easy, AND have had a lot of sex partners. LOL.



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:10:59 PM)

LOL..ok..this should be based on what year one was born..so ..say you were born in the 30's..then more than 2 made you a whore...born in the 50's more than 10 made you a whore..born in the 70's more than 50 made you a whore...born in the 2000's if you are a virgin after the age of 18..then you are just simply a freak!.( I am actually being fascetious here folks)....so with saying all of that...the term whore or easy or whatever is IMO a defunct word..it simply has lost its descriptive terminology in today's society....Tempting



LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:13:20 PM)

its not how many have before but how many you have during the time your with someone that makes you a whore



MissHarlet -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:16:28 PM)

 for the record I have no use for a whore or slut in my life ... and that is defined by the number of  partners in there life while with me.



MadRabbit -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:19:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

born in the 2000's if you are a virgin after the age of 18..then you are just simply a freak


But...

If your 56 with a lifetime of many many sexual experiences with your right hand, you can be a successful and powerful online Master.....



weneedyourhelp -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:21:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

its not how many have before but how many you have during the time your with someone that makes you a whore

I totally agree with this..someone's past is just that past. Over and done. It is what you do with the present that affects your "standing".
If you are in a monogamous relationship, and you are having multiple partners, IMO you are a whore. If you are in an open relationship where many partners are considered as ok, and you have lots of them, then you are ......fun? [;)]

Cougar



chaos9071 -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:21:32 PM)

I am a total whore and extremely easy. I don't care about anyones sexual past so long as they were safe...



PanthersMom -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:23:13 PM)

i would not want to be involved with someone who had so little respect for themselves that they could be called a whore/slut whatever.  i don't want the village bicycle, thank you.  i would hope that the person didn't bedhop like a flea.  how could i trust that person to remain faithful to me if they'd never been faithful to anyone else?  i got lucky with hubby.  he's a good man and shares my views.

PM



ownedgirlie -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:31:36 PM)

I'm a little confused by your post.  How do you equate someone who had many (however one defines "many") partners in their past with infidelity?  And how do you equate someone who enjoys their body with having little respect? 



CalifChick -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:37:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PanthersMom

i would not want to be involved with someone who had so little respect for themselves that they could be called a whore/slut whatever. 


How about you define "whore/slut whatever".  Hard to take your judgment seriously when based on a nebulous supposition.

Cali





weneedyourhelp -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:40:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PanthersMom
i would hope that the person didn't bedhop like a flea.  how could i trust that person to remain faithful to me if they'd never been faithful to anyone else? 

PM

No one ever said that they had'nt been faithful, it wasn't a question of infidelity. But if you are in a monogamous relationship and you have many, that would make one a whore. Sleeping around while unattatched, while constreued as easy, IMO does not make one a whore.

Cougar



sexyred1 -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:44:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

Well first define whore.

He didn't care.  He wanted to know about all of them and I gladly told him.  Now I am his whore, so what does it all matter?

I don't care how many he has had before me.  It never dawned on me to ask.  My care, when first talking to him, was about the manner in which he would dominate me.


Great answer.



weneedyourhelp -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 9:47:07 PM)

If everyone cared as much as we'd like to think about the number of partners we've each had before we allowed ourselves to be involved with another......most of us would probably never get laid again.

Cougar



MasterBandAngel -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:02:07 PM)

Again define whore. A man is with 50+ women and he is a god; a woman is with 50+ men and she is a whore. Isn't a shame that society judges in this manner. It shouldn't matter what is your past but what is your present and future. And doesn't a slave have no opinions but what her Master wants, but a sub has the power the power to say no. Rules of society should not be confused with those of the lifestyle. But then again this is just my humble opinion.
Written by angel, sanctioned by Master B. 



CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:02:39 PM)

I tend to enjoy unspoiled, intelligent slaves.  This said, my ideal partner has not whored it out.

At my age, a girl who has had 10+ partners is not one I would find desirable.  The three-to-nine range would probably be points against them, but not necessarily damning.  A virgin would get bonus points.

My attraction is likely influenced by my Catholic no-sex-until-marriage upbringing.  While I no longer believe in abstainance, I am powerfully turned off by a female I preceive as easy and/or slutty.



CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:05:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterBandAngel

A man is with 50+ women and he is a god; a woman is with 50+ men and she is a whore.


This isn't true for people my age.  "Studs" are now "man whores".  ("Whores" are still "whores".)

Being a whore is no longer gender biased, or at least not as much so as people keep telling me it was for older generations.



AquaticSub -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:07:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

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ORIGINAL: MasterBandAngel

A man is with 50+ women and he is a god; a woman is with 50+ men and she is a whore.


This isn't true for people my age.  "Studs" are now "man whores".  ("Whores" are still "whores".)

Being a whore is no longer gender biased, or at least not as much so as people keep telling me it was for older generations.


I have yet to see a man be ashamed of this title though. The term may be different but it's still a mark of pride.



CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:11:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

This isn't true for people my age.  "Studs" are now "man whores".  ("Whores" are still "whores".)

Being a whore is no longer gender biased, or at least not as much so as people keep telling me it was for older generations.


I have yet to see a man be ashamed of this title though.


True.  I've been called a man whore before.  Probably deserved at that point.  I didn't care.. but it was more because I rarely find the grave interest in the opinions of others that my female acquantiances might.

In a way, I suppose it's still less of an insult; the double standard is still alive, even if in decline.

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Edit:  To "The term may be different but it's still a mark of pride."..

It wasn't for me.  I simply didn't care what the girls who said it thought.  They did, however, mean it as an insult, as did their male pets.

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PS- Actually, thinking of it.. "whore" wasn't such an insult, either.  As a matter of fact, "whore" and "man whore" were about equally insulting.. 



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