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weneedyourhelp -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:17:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousLord quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousLord This isn't true for people my age. "Studs" are now "man whores". ("Whores" are still "whores".) Being a whore is no longer gender biased, or at least not as much so as people keep telling me it was for older generations. I have yet to see a man be ashamed of this title though. True. I've been called a man whore before. Probably deserved at that point. I didn't care.. but it was more because I rarely find the grave interest in the opinions of others that my female acquantiances might. In a way, I suppose it's still less of an insult; the double standard is still alive, even if in decline. --- Edit: To "The term may be different but it's still a mark of pride.".. It wasn't for me. I simply didn't care what the girls who said it thought. They did, however, mean it as an insult, as did their male pets. --- PS- Actually, thinking of it.. "whore" wasn't such an insult, either. As a matter of fact, "whore" and "man whore" were about equally insulting.. Double standards are very much alive....you admit to being a man whore but you expect your partners to be untainted? I don't understand the logic there. Cougar

CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:26:17 PM)
Heh. Too many things wrong with your analysis to even hit them all. So, let's go for one. Does "Probably deserved at that point" not convey to you the idea that it was a temporary, perhaps-no-longer-true condition?

AquaticSub -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:26:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousLord Edit: To "The term may be different but it's still a mark of pride.".. It wasn't for me. I simply didn't care what the girls who said it thought. They did, however, mean it as an insult, as did their male pets. It may not have been for you, but I see it tossed around the same way "stud" has been previously and men taking great pride in the term.

CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:31:21 PM)
I'm sure many different people take it many different ways, particularly varying with cultures. Did you know some people would expell you from their presense if you accused them of being a "stud"? Particutarily Catholics in Latin America can be rather up-in-arms about that one.. As for everyone, my observations of personal interaction will be biased dependent on my particular culture; I'm not liable to associate amiably with people who invest time in indiscriminate sexuality. So, for those I know, being a "whore" is negative regardless of gender.

AquaticSub -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:34:05 PM)
Yet you were a man whore yourself. Interesting.

weneedyourhelp -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:35:11 PM)
Yes, I do comprehend rather well, thank you. The fact remains that you were/are (makes no bearing) a self admitted man whore. How can you expect, without it being a double standard, your partners to be "unspoiled" as you put it, when you, yourself are "spoiled" already? Cougar

CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:35:25 PM)
Did you actually read it this way or are you just being silly?

AquaticSub -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:38:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousLord Did you actually read it this way or are you just being silly? No. I honestly think it's interesting that someone who was a man whore does not "associate amiably" with people who engage in sex liberally.

CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:39:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: weneedyourhelp Yes, I do comprehend rather well, thank you. The fact remains that you were/are (makes no bearing) a self admitted man whore. How can you expect, without it being a double standard, your partners to be "unspoiled" as you put it, when you, yourself are "spoiled" already? So, I said "I've been called a man whore before. Probably deserved at that point", did I not? Did you never learn the difference between acting in a manner and being one of such a manner?

CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:41:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub No. I honestly think it's interesting that someone who was a man whore does not "associate amiably" with people who engage in sex liberally. Then you're also misreading it. If I said I acted stupid at a time, but then said that I didn't like stupid people.. would you be able to discern the difference between having acted in such a manner for a finite and negliable duration, or will you associate such an act with a life-long mannerism? Edit: Bad typo. Stupid of me to have made it, eh?

weneedyourhelp -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:43:06 PM)
Fine, let's sum it uplike this......How many partners have you had?

AquaticSub -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:43:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousLord quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub No. I honestly think it's interesting that someone who was a man whore does not "associate amiably" with people who engage in sex liberally. Then you're also misreading it. If I said I acted stupid at a time, but that I didn't like stupid people.. would you be able to decern the difference between having acted in such a manner for a finite and negliable duration, or will you associate such an act with a life-long mannerism? Of course not. However, I find it interesting when people used to be "man whores" and then change to the point of no longer getting along well with those who still are. It's not an insult, I just do. The same as I find it interesting when a person with the "wait for marriage" frame of mind decides to engage in rampent sex and decides to stop speaking with all the rest of the virgins. Edited for too many typos

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:44:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit quote: ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub born in the 2000's if you are a virgin after the age of 18..then you are just simply a freak But... If your 56 with a lifetime of many many sexual experiences with your right hand, you can be a successful and powerful online Master..... LOL.... If one is 56 and has had a lifetime of sexual experience with the right hand then, is he/she a virginal whore as well as a powerful on line Master??..:0)...Tempting

CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:44:57 PM)
Not yet. I'm curious to see how long until you understand my point, if at all.

CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:50:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Of course not. However, I find it interesting when people used to be "man whores" and then change to the point of no longer getting along well with those who still are. It's not an insult, I just do. The same as I find it interesting when a person with the "wait for marriage" frame of mind decides to engage in rampent sex and decides to stop speaking with all the rest of the virgins. Ah, but you see.. I said: I've been called a man whore before. Probably deserved at that point. You see, one day, a couple of girls begged me to be my slaves. (Yes, I think they were stupid, too.) After a couple of hours of them doing just about every not-too-illegal humilating thing I could think of, I said "sure". However, I never did have sex with them. Those girls and I belonged to a larger social group which witnessed much of this. They called me a "man whore", which, as I said, was probably deserved at this point. However, does this strike you as actually being a man whore in my life- or do you believe it might be that I simply played one for a day? Point being, you misread me and thought I admitted to being a man whore. This wasn't the case; I simply acted like one for an afternoon.

AquaticSub -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:52:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousLord quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Of course not. However, I find it interesting when people used to be "man whores" and then change to the point of no longer getting along well with those who still are. It's not an insult, I just do. The same as I find it interesting when a person with the "wait for marriage" frame of mind decides to engage in rampent sex and decides to stop speaking with all the rest of the virgins. Ah, but you see.. I said: I've been called a man whore before. Probably deserved at that point. You see, one day, a couple of girls begged me to be my slaves. (Yes, I think they were stupid, too.) After a couple of hours of them doing just about every not-too-illegal humilating thing I could think of, I said "sure". However, I never did have sex with them. Those girls and I belonged to a larger social group which witnessed much of this. They called me a "man whore", which, as I said, was probably deserved at this point. However, does this strike you as actually being a man whore in my life- or do you believe it might be that I simply played one for a day? Point being, you misread me and thought I admitted to being a man whore. This wasn't the case; I simply acted like one for an afternoon. You said you probably deserved it and gave no more details. I could only work with your words that you did probably deserve it. In the situation you describe I would have never agreed that you probably deserved the title since you never had sex with them. If I misread, it's because you didn't provide further information.

CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:55:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub You said you probably deserved it and gave no more details. I could only work with your words that you did probably deserve it. In the situation you describe I would have never agreed that you probably deserved the title since you never had sex with them. If I misread, it's because you didn't provide further information. I'd disagree; I said say "at that point". The rest was an assumption on your part.

celticlord2112 -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:55:12 PM)
Fast Reply to no one in particular: Every woman who would be my slave starts out as a virgin, regardless of how many kids she has or how many penises have penetrated her in the past.

weneedyourhelp -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:55:15 PM)
I understand the point you are trying to make. All i am saying is that just because you are of the male gender, and all your parts are external, jumping in the shower and washing yourself, does not cleanse you of any of the partners you had been with prior. You can't just say "Ok I'm not a man whore anymore", and not be.

CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/19/2008 10:56:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: celticlord2112 Every woman who would be my slave starts out as a virgin, regardless of how many kids she has or how many penises have penetrated her in the past. I sort of consider it that way with rapes. Sadly, a lot of girls I've known have been raped. Some of them, several times over a period of time by the same person. So those never count against a person. Not that.. it's attractive to consider, by any means, just.. it doesn't seem right to hold that against someone.

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