RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master?

Join Our Community

Collarchat.com

Home Login Search

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master?

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master >> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master?

Page: << < prev 8 9 [10] 11 12 next > >>

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 2/4/2008 8:06:23 PM

PrizedPosession

Posts: 1209
Joined: 11/2/2007
Status: offline

Aw, that's a little pessimisstic.

(in reply to Alumbrado)

Profile

Post #: 181

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 2/4/2008 8:18:10 PM

Alumbrado

Posts: 5560
Status: offline

I hold Great Grandmaster rank in Pessimism-Do, Cynic-Fu, and Skepti-chuan.

(in reply to PrizedPosession)

Profile

Post #: 182

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 2/4/2008 8:20:13 PM

PrizedPosession

Posts: 1209
Joined: 11/2/2007
Status: offline

lmao.
My dad is an expert in Sarcism if you want to trade ideas

_____________________________

It's so hard to beat the Chicago Sausage King :)

http://www.myspace.com/bluecmew

(in reply to Alumbrado)

Profile

Post #: 183

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 2/4/2008 8:21:06 PM

Alumbrado

Posts: 5560
Status: offline

Very Kewl...

(in reply to PrizedPosession)

Profile

Post #: 184

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/2/2008 7:15:45 PM

dom4sub86

Posts: 11
Joined: 2/25/2008
Status: offline

I am a 22 year old Dom. You talk about wisdom and life experience. I am more mature than most men in there 30s. There are people born with a Dominant personality. It is not a choice for them it is just natural.

(in reply to Justme696)

Profile

Post #: 185

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/2/2008 7:19:26 PM

Kirren

Posts: 580
Joined: 9/5/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze

How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master?
I find it hard to understand how one so young could have the understanding, wisdom and life experiance which is needed to be a Master.

From what age do you take them serious?

Thanks for your answers.

GoddezzT`

The exact same way that a submissive can be a 19 year old girl....

What right does any one have to judge?

We all started some where...and we werent always old when we did it.

Frankly, Im glad to see younger people getting into the life style, just because I know then that it wont die out like so many other things in our cultures.

_____________________________

Everything has been said before
There's nothing left to say anymore
When it's all the same
You can ask for it by name

Did I fail to mention...I am a BITCH?

(in reply to GoddessTeaze)

Profile

Post #: 186

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/2/2008 7:20:07 PM

Leatherist

Posts: 5149
Joined: 12/11/2007
Status: offline

No one knows more than a teenager.

_____________________________

My shop is currently segueing into production mode.

I'm not taking custom orders.

(in reply to Kirren)

Profile

Post #: 187

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/2/2008 7:47:13 PM

bleusparkles

Posts: 168
Joined: 2/11/2008
Status: offline

I was 16 when I first got interested in BDSM and at that point, those 21 yr old Masters were lookin' good to me ...

Its all relative. Now that I'm 26, I'm more interested in guys in their 30s and 40s. I still take those 20-somethings seriously though ...

_____________________________

bleu's a bit whimsical in the brainpan ...

(in reply to Leatherist)

Profile

Post #: 188

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/2/2008 8:03:04 PM

Sunnyfey

Posts: 1436
Joined: 9/21/2007
From: OK
Status: offline

Blah, forgove my blantent distaste for this conversation Ive just finished a 3 day long argument over this, so GoddezzT, this is just my personal beef and nothing towards you respectively.

My Dom is 25, Im 22 come the 19th. He gives me what I need from our relationship, I give him what he needs in return. Im not saying anyone has said this yet, but Im makeing my stand and my point right now.

We're both young, yes in the years we have been on this earth is pratically the blink of an eye. But in our short lifetimes we have both learned alot, traveled alot, seen a bit of the way this life supposedly "works" And this is the aspect we have chosen of the exsistence to express ourselves and feelings and impulses in. BDSM is OUR lifestyle,we live for this, its what we do. There is nothing more special then the times we come together. I never feel more alive then when I am with and submitting to him. And the same goes for his role towards me. Even our year and half long seperation never changed that. Yes We are always learning, watching and experienceing new things. New situations, new people, everything. As ALL people do reguardless of age. We infact look forward to the many many more years we have on this earth together.We may not be together the rest of ourlives, but we have each other for this space of time, and we can be finally be ourselves, no pretenses, no fronts, no acting. We are Us respectively during our scenes. And nothing, not age, not religion, or our positions in life can change what We have together. This is my stand and my promise to him, My and His age have nothing to do with WIIWD, And I am his, and he is mine and thats all there needs to be.

(in reply to LivingForce)

Profile

Post #: 189

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/2/2008 8:05:07 PM

Griswold

Posts: 2739
Joined: 2/12/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze

How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master?

(He went to the Evelyn Wood school of Dom's?)

(in reply to GoddessTeaze)

Profile

Post #: 190

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/2/2008 8:37:47 PM

SixFootMaster

Posts: 829
Joined: 9/27/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze

How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master?
I find it hard to understand how one so young could have the understanding, wisdom and life experiance which is needed to be a Master.

From what age do you take them serious?

Thanks for your answers.

GoddezzT`

~FR~

Age is no guide to dominance. Skill, perhaps, breadth of horizon, perhaps, but not whether or not they are or are not dominant, or are or are not a Master. Likewise, age is no guide to submission or slavery. It's not the length of time that has passed, but the amount of growth that has occurred in that time.

Six.

Edited to clarify: Being dominant or a Master is not something that has anything to do with time, it's a personality trait. It either exists or it does not, to a lesser or greater degree. It's the quality of the dominant I'm referring to above.

< Message edited by SixFootMaster -- 3/2/2008 8:39:37 PM >

_____________________________

How-so oft fresh injurious deed
Doth turn Janus' petulant gaze
'pon the rocks and storm rift sea
And littered wood of broken days
disregard for toil shown
no ground broken, no seed sewn.

(in reply to GoddessTeaze)

Profile

Post #: 191

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/3/2008 3:09:10 AM

snarkisms

Posts: 3
Joined: 2/26/2008
Status: offline

quote:

...consider a 20 year old submissive completely new to this lifestyle, he/she might go looking for somone his/her age and experience level to start out.

I disagree. When I first came on this site, I wasn't even paying attention to guys my age. I wanted the supposed "experience" that comes with age.

(in reply to collaredncontent)

Profile

Post #: 192

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/3/2008 6:56:37 AM

CelticPrince

Posts: 3613
Joined: 4/15/2005
Status: offline

Goddess,

I agree with you. In my opinion, at least 40 to provide the range of experience and other factor that makes a successful D.

CP

(in reply to GoddessTeaze)

Profile

Post #: 193

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/3/2008 9:42:32 AM

CalifChick

Posts: 10717
Joined: 10/28/2007
From: California
Status: offline

You mean we didn't beat the hell out of this topic already that it was resurrected yet again??

Cali

_____________________________

AKA "The Undisputed Goddess of Sarcasm", "Big Bad Cali" and "Yum Bum". Advisor to the Subbie Mafia, founding member of the W.A.C. and the Judgmental Bitches Brigade, member of the Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's and Team Troll

(in reply to CelticPrince)

Profile

Post #: 194

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/3/2008 5:27:32 PM

thornhappy

Posts: 8596
Joined: 12/16/2006
Status: offline

....seems to be a run on ye olde threads....

* wanders off whistling *

(in reply to CalifChick)

Profile

Post #: 195

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/3/2008 5:56:51 PM

Openpatient1

Posts: 6
Joined: 1/26/2008
Status: offline

The question answers itself. If the question is made, then why waste your time with a 21 year old. The truest sense of Master is in essense, not age. Though I would like to believe an older Dom and younger sub have a primal setup which may faciliate the relationship.

Lets look at this a different way. If the person asking the question is young as well....then maybe she or he does not feel the other is a Master. So why bother. See, it is not all of that!

(in reply to Justme696)

Profile

Post #: 196

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/4/2008 3:26:07 AM

TaintedEyes

Posts: 25
Joined: 2/21/2008
From: World Citizen
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

You guys are seriously responding to someone who had a misspelled signature line for a long time and who regularly uses the term "chucklz"?

I believe English is a second language for her... so when I learn to write in Dutch as well as she writes in English, I will judge her

Be that as it may, it actually takes longer to learn "slang" and commonly used abbreviations of words than it does textbook English

_____________________________

I am the White Rabbit. So if you dare and if you please, follow me and you shall see just how adventurous my thoughts can be.

(in reply to juliaoceania)

Profile

Post #: 197

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/4/2008 7:52:35 AM

colouredin

Posts: 4279
Joined: 2/2/2007
Status: offline

FR

If you discover your interest in BDSM at 30 you have no more experiance than someone who discovers it at 18 age is a number, it is the mentality that is important.

_____________________________

Resident Lime(y) Tart
There would be no gossip without secrets
I don't want to be anything other than what I've been trying to be lately

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ELvfMJoKDAk

(in reply to TaintedEyes)

Profile

Post #: 198

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/4/2008 8:19:52 AM

CalifChick

Posts: 10717
Joined: 10/28/2007
From: California
Status: offline

_____________________________

AKA "The Undisputed Goddess of Sarcasm", "Big Bad Cali" and "Yum Bum". Advisor to the Subbie Mafia, founding member of the W.A.C. and the Judgmental Bitches Brigade, member of the Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's and Team Troll

(in reply to colouredin)

Profile

Post #: 199

RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? - 3/4/2008 10:10:24 AM

Dnomyar

Posts: 7933
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline

Chicky is there a food shortage in California. A 22 year old with lots of wisdom. Mmmm He may be smarter than a fifth grader.

(in reply to CalifChick)

Profile

Post #: 200