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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 11:44:37 AM

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Mwah Jeffff -
Yeah - I am always objective - unless it's about me
Seriously, I do understand that the thread is restrained. My question before wasn't really based only on this thread, but was a general observation and you know me, I like to ask up front if I make an observation to make sure I'm not second guessing.
I also have worked with councillors as well as Samaritians - and believe me - they are not particularly more able peeps when it comes to themselves.

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 11:47:50 AM

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~~~do you really believe you speak for everyone here?~~~

of course i dont, sheesh. and i have no beef w you, i really do hope you get this figured out. but youve been going everywhwere with it, im only now beginning to see you starting to make sense of it for yourself and its taken a lonnnnngggggggg time.
i know you dont wanna hear from me anymore and thats cool, i just hope youre able to get it together soon and dont wind up blowing it for yourself.

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 12:01:41 PM

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~~~I also have worked with councillors as well as Samaritians - and believe me - they are not particularly more able peeps when it comes to themselves. ~~~

LOL! this is 100% true
too long to go into, but sooo true
the.dark. rocks

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 12:07:32 PM

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The woman seated herself in the psychiatrists office. "What seems to be the problem?" the doctor asked.

"Well, I, uh," she stammered. "I think I, uh, might be a nymphomaniac."

"I see," he said. "I can help you, but I must advise you that my fee is $80 an hour."

"That's not bad," she replied. "How much for all night?"

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 12:07:32 PM

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a few posts ago you claimed to be a counselor, now you are claiming to be a therapist.
there no way you can work in the mental health field and not know the difference so which is it?

Outside of specific disciplines (e.g., Occupational Therapy, Physical Therapy, etc....) the terms "counsellor" and "therapist" can be used somewhat interchangeably.

In fact, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy accreditation makes specific reference to "counsellors/psychotherapists".

Cursory examination of how the terminology is used in the UK gives greater credence to her command of the argot than yours, based on your statement above.

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 2:36:41 PM

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i know you dont wanna hear from me anymore and thats cool, i just hope youre able to get it together soon and dont wind up blowing it for yourself.

But there you go again making assumptions. I never said that i didn;'t want to hear from you again. i don't shut down, i rarely exclude and both submissive insight and dominant insight is particulalrly interesting to me. I learn from other's solutions.
As for therapists being able to solve their own sht....Freud and Jung had breakdowns lasting years....(I know hisstory) but Ronnie Lainge's life was no exemplar.
Jack Rinella takes a reader down between the sheets and into the minutia of his life in order to make a broader point and teach a wider lesson.
Pat Califia puts another's skin into our hands as readers........
Dossie Easton communicates not from theory but powerfully from scenes she has had reality.
If i keep my dowwn time off the boards then i will be accused of neing arrogant.
maybe stay off the forums altogether who knows...but certainly i didn't imply not wanting to hear from you....

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 2:39:56 PM

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a few posts ago you claimed to be a counselor, now you are claiming to be a therapist.
there no way you can work in the mental health field and not know the difference so which is it?

Outside of specific disciplines (e.g., Occupational Therapy, Physical Therapy, etc....) the terms "counsellor" and "therapist" can be used somewhat interchangeably.

In fact, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy accreditation makes specific reference to "counsellors/psychotherapists".

Cursory examination of how the terminology is used in the UK gives greater credence to her command of the argot than yours, based on your statement above.

Here in the UK it would really come down to what a person was both qualified and insured to practice as and yes as far as public liability goes the classification is counsellor/psychotherapist
it's ok though.....i'm thivk skinned enough by those who don't understand what a switch is.......

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 2:43:36 PM

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The woman seated herself in the psychiatrists office. "What seems to be the problem?" the doctor asked.

"Well, I, uh," she stammered. "I think I, uh, might be a nymphomaniac."

"I see," he said. "I can help you, but I must advise you that my fee is $80 an hour."

"That's not bad," she replied. "How much for all night?"

Question: How many psychotherapists does it take to change a light bulb?
Answer: It depemds if the light bulb is willing to change or not.

Sense of humour and irony returned. It must mean i am in recovery.

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 2:49:33 PM

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The woman seated herself in the psychiatrists office. "What seems to be the problem?" the doctor asked.

"Well, I, uh," she stammered. "I think I, uh, might be a nymphomaniac."

"I see," he said. "I can help you, but I must advise you that my fee is $80 an hour."

"That's not bad," she replied. "How much for all night?"

Question: How many psychotherapists does it take to change a light bulb?
Answer: It depemds if the light bulb is willing to change or not.

Sense of humour and irony returned. It must mean i am in recovery.

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 2:53:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

The woman seated herself in the psychiatrists office. "What seems to be the problem?" the doctor asked.

"Well, I, uh," she stammered. "I think I, uh, might be a nymphomaniac."

"I see," he said. "I can help you, but I must advise you that my fee is $80 an hour."

"That's not bad," she replied. "How much for all night?"

Question: How many psychotherapists does it take to change a light bulb?
Answer: It depemds if the light bulb is willing to change or not.

Sense of humour and irony returned. It must mean i am in recovery.

That is hilarious! And if you never lose your sense of humor even when everything is falling apart (believe me, I know) you will always come out on top.

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 3:01:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

The woman seated herself in the psychiatrists office. "What seems to be the problem?" the doctor asked.

"Well, I, uh," she stammered. "I think I, uh, might be a nymphomaniac."

"I see," he said. "I can help you, but I must advise you that my fee is $80 an hour."

"That's not bad," she replied. "How much for all night?"

Question: How many psychotherapists does it take to change a light bulb?
Answer: It depemds if the light bulb is willing to change or not.

Sense of humour and irony returned. It must mean i am in recovery.

That is hilarious! And if you never lose your sense of humor even when everything is falling apart (believe me, I know) you will always come out on top.

What do they say?
"laugh and the whole world laughs with you, Cry and you cry alone"

Well, I hope thats not true, but in someways, maybe? Anyway, send in the clowns, thats what I always say!

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 3:06:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

The woman seated herself in the psychiatrists office. "What seems to be the problem?" the doctor asked.

"Well, I, uh," she stammered. "I think I, uh, might be a nymphomaniac."

"I see," he said. "I can help you, but I must advise you that my fee is $80 an hour."

"That's not bad," she replied. "How much for all night?"

Question: How many psychotherapists does it take to change a light bulb?
Answer: It depends if the light bulb is willing to change or not.

Sense of humour and irony returned. It must mean i am in recovery.

That is hilarious! And if you never lose your sense of humor even when everything is falling apart (believe me, I know) you will always come out on top.

oh no please i beg not always on top?

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 3:19:31 PM

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It's lovely to see that you have bounced back Prinsexx, perhaps it was the thought of the stick of rock in a ditch that did it!

I'm sure everything will turn out just right - you are a lovely lady and deserve loads of happiness x

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 3:46:33 PM

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It's lovely to see that you have bounced back Prinsexx, perhaps it was the thought of the stick of rock in a ditch that did it! I'm sure everything will turn out just right - you are a lovely lady and deserve loads of happiness x

Well the thought of you in a ditch always helps.............

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 4:31:20 PM

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pack your shit and go already

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 4:52:20 PM

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pack your shit and go already

BadOne

thanks for the attention

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 9:20:12 PM

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But for the most part I have been given feedback at least that makes me feel less like a freak; you know as seriously strong career woman and single mom who sexually and emotionally simply also wants to 'belong' to someone who can master the rest of her.
Maybe it's the 'slave' types who don't come out on the forums enough, aren't allowed to or are controlled in a way where air time is a priviledge.
Maybe there are only slaves who have courteous, loving and thoughtful masters (this we both know is lalaland).
And yes maybe it's a simple case of incompatibility.....but I am not ignoring or discouting anyone's input.

It's got nothing to do with being a slave- that's just a convenient distraction for you so you don't have to actually work on the issues within yourself.

I don't know a single person who hasn't struggled with how to balance being true to who they are versus what the external world expects of them- again, being a slave is irrelevant.

You've been told as blatantly and as directly as possible what you need to ask yourself and what you can do to REALLY effect change within yourself and to start to seek your real sense of fulfillment. It will be interesting to see if you choose to actually put them into action.

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 1/31/2008 10:56:25 PM

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Prinsexx, you mentioned about counting, and waiting for someone to come parent you, among other things you would wait for. I have a friend who I have heard use the words, 're-parent', 're-parenting ourselves'. You could come to your own rescue here, you could be the loving, understanding and accepting parent you may crave at times. Sometimes we can feel no one is listening and that sort of thing. The thing is we can listen to ourselves, we can be there for ourselves the way we wish someone else would be.

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 2/1/2008 12:07:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx
But for the most part I have been given feedback at least that makes me feel less like a freak; you know as seriously strong career woman and single mom who sexually and emotionally simply also wants to 'belong' to someone who can master the rest of her.
Maybe it's the 'slave' types who don't come out on the forums enough, aren't allowed to or are controlled in a way where air time is a priviledge.
Maybe there are only slaves who have courteous, loving and thoughtful masters (this we both know is lalaland).
And yes maybe it's a simple case of incompatibility.....but I am not ignoring or discouting anyone's input.

It's got nothing to do with being a slave- that's just a convenient distraction for you so you don't have to actually work on the issues within yourself.

I don't know a single person who hasn't struggled with how to balance being true to who they are versus what the external world expects of them- again, being a slave is irrelevant.

You've been told as blatantly and as directly as possible what you need to ask yourself and what you can do to REALLY effect change within yourself and to start to seek your real sense of fulfillment. It will be interesting to see if you choose to actually put them into action.

NEENER NEENER NEENER, I am not listening to you...

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RE: is there a protocolfor leaving a Master - 2/1/2008 12:45:38 AM

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He's leaving for a week and you're calling it "abandonment"?

John who is biting his tongue so hard that it's bleeding

Let's not forget that he actually called and TOLD her he was leaving for a week...

and that's ABANDONMENT???!!!

juliet (who is biting her tongue AND shaking her head)

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