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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/11/2008 4:37:59 PM   
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Domiguy's off moderation and all the women are focusing on Chaze.  Jeesus.  I'm sharpening my mousearrow to hit the block button and y'all are giving him the time of day.  Babes are nuts.

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/11/2008 4:38:31 PM   
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Oh sure get off moderation and get all cocky why don't ya domi...hey welcome back!

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/11/2008 4:39:19 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

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ORIGINAL: Chaze

Understand women:  What is there to understand. They either know which fork to use or not? They either maintain proportionate weight to height or not, they either submerge themselves in screaming sweating clawing multiple orgasmic sex or they cloak themselves in the emotionally bankrupted title "domme."  Nothing more needs to be understood.


You'd probably be safer crawling back into your cave.  Just be careful when you rub the rocks together (it makes fire).
judging from his posts..i'm pretty sure he's familiar with "rocks" of a different kind, entirely.  i refuse to think a sober person could think as he does....

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/11/2008 4:41:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff
Back OFF!!!...... she's mine
Jeff

But........... doesn't she think you're "an ass"?

I'll never understand women.



Apparently thats part of my charm


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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/11/2008 4:42:44 PM   
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When LaT finally decides to embrace the "pen-ess" which she undoubtedly will, she will be appropriately graced by a lovely Domidonging....As I "take her" from behind, I wouldn't be surprised if we are both overcome by our emotions. Perhaps we might spontaneously weep or speak in poetic rhyme before she orders my pizza.
Decided to do away with the sensitive angle, eh???  Btw...glad we don't have to wait for your posts to ship the next business day...

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/11/2008 4:47:45 PM   
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I wonder how long it will last?

Behavioral disorders when combined with the lack of a heavily scrutinized medication regime usually spells moderation.


I'm going to attempt to behave...It would be nice if you fucking a-holes would just get the fuck off of my back!


(Domiguy takes a few deep breaths into a brown paper bag) "It's okay..They aren't real...they aren't real."

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/11/2008 4:48:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

When LaT finally decides to embrace the "pen-ess" which she undoubtedly will, she will be appropriately graced by a lovely Domidonging....As I "take her" from behind, I wouldn't be surprised if we are both overcome by our emotions. Perhaps we might spontaneously weep or speak in poetic rhyme before she orders my pizza.
Decided to do away with the sensitive angle, eh???  Btw...glad we don't have to wait for your posts to ship the next business day...


LaT's one of my favorite posters...She will be mine.


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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/11/2008 8:35:50 PM   
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Rotsa ruck, Elroy

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/12/2008 1:26:17 AM   
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I read these posts since I posted last and ...er... I dont understand any of you.

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/12/2008 1:27:45 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy


quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

When LaT finally decides to embrace the "pen-ess" which she undoubtedly will, she will be appropriately graced by a lovely Domidonging....As I "take her" from behind, I wouldn't be surprised if we are both overcome by our emotions. Perhaps we might spontaneously weep or speak in poetic rhyme before she orders my pizza.
Decided to do away with the sensitive angle, eh???  Btw...glad we don't have to wait for your posts to ship the next business day...


LaT's one of my favorite posters...She will be mine.



Dont you mean, you will be HERS if she chooses???

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/12/2008 7:08:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: domiguy

LaT's one of my favorite posters...She will be mine.



Saddly..... you are too late...:)

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/12/2008 7:19:42 AM   
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I read these posts since I posted last and ...er... I dont understand any of you.


I'm pretty sure that's probably a good thing!   

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/12/2008 7:19:46 PM   
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Not a hope in hell! At times I'm convinced that men and women are two entirely different species because they think so differently. However (there's always a 'however' isn't there) men and women can understand that the other sex will react differently to stimuli than they themselves would, or that they themselves would understand.

Our brains are wired differently and our hormones are different. These are not insignificant differences, they are monumental and colour our perspective of everything around us. The best we can do is to recognise these differences and be prepared for the unexpected. I'll give you a for instance.

Along time ago, I was in an intimate situation with my girlfriend and I found a lump in her breast; it was malignant. Long story cut short, she had a lumpechtomy (sp), chemo and all the other treatments, plus some absolutely amazing support from her girl friends ('girl' and 'friends' deliberately separated). My concern was for her health and her well being and I rejoiced when the surgeon advised us that 'they got it all'. She was distraught, not by the cancer or the possibility of her death, but that now she had one breast that looked different to the other... her 'womaness' was somehow diminished. Needless to say, I tread lightly during this difficult time even though I was having difficulty with her reasoning and emotions.

Several months later we were again being intimate and I caressed her breasts, both of them. She burst out crying! FFS girl, what did I do wrong? It turns out that I did nothing wrong and in fact did everything right. She was scared shitless that her diminished womaness would guarantee that no man would ever be intimate with her again. My touching her breast was, in her words, 'the best therapy she could have received'. From my perspective, I didn't care if she had two boobs, one, or none. I was ecstatic she was alive and well. But from her perspective, it was much deeper than that, much more psychological and much more emotional.

Now I consider myself to be fairly astute and perhaps understanding of women, certainly better than most males... but this girl's reactions sent me for a loop and in hindsight I don't think her reactions were out of the norm for any girl in her position.

The thing is, understanding a reaction after the even IS possible, however predicting a reaction prior to an event/stimuli is not so certain. Ahhh grasshopper, life and women are mysteries. Just paddle their butts and get on with it!

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/12/2008 7:23:14 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheMinder

Not a hope in hell! At times I'm convinced that men and women are two entirely different species because they think so differently. However (there's always a 'however' isn't there) men and women can understand that the other sex will react differently to stimuli than they themselves would, or that they themselves would understand.

Our brains are wired differently and our hormones are different. These are not insignificant differences, they are monumental and colour our perspective of everything around us. The best we can do is to recognise these differences and be prepared for the unexpected. I'll give you a for instance.

Along time ago, I was in an intimate situation with my girlfriend and I found a lump in her breast; it was malignant. Long story cut short, she had a lumpechtomy (sp), chemo and all the other treatments, plus some absolutely amazing support from her girl friends ('girl' and 'friends' deliberately separated). My concern was for her health and her well being and I rejoiced when the surgeon advised us that 'they got it all'. She was distraught, not by the cancer or the possibility of her death, but that now she had one breast that looked different to the other... her 'womaness' was somehow diminished. Needless to say, I tread lightly during this difficult time even though I was having difficulty with her reasoning and emotions.

Several months later we were again being intimate and I caressed her breasts, both of them. She burst out crying! FFS girl, what did I do wrong? It turns out that I did nothing wrong and in fact did everything right. She was scared shitless that her diminished womaness would guarantee that no man would ever be intimate with her again. My touching her breast was, in her words, 'the best therapy she could have received'. From my perspective, I didn't care if she had two boobs, one, or none. I was ecstatic she was alive and well. But from her perspective, it was much deeper than that, much more psychological and much more emotional.

Now I consider myself to be fairly astute and perhaps understanding of women, certainly better than most males... but this girl's reactions sent me for a loop and in hindsight I don't think her reactions were out of the norm for any girl in her position.

The thing is, understanding a reaction after the even IS possible, however predicting a reaction prior to an event/stimuli is not so certain. Ahhh grasshopper, life and women are mysteries. Just paddle their butts and get on with it!


very insightful. Welcome to the forums.

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/12/2008 8:23:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TheMinder

Our brains are wired differently and our hormones are different.



I was going to chime in, but that's what I was going to say. I may just be young and naive but I, also, agree that men and women are two totally different species. In my experience, which is all of 23 years, women like to talk things out, doesn't matter who it's with as long as you can talk. Men just don't seem to share that desire. So, how can you understand the opposite sex when you can't even get into their head, not possible. Not to mention, women like to change the rules, so there is no possibility of figuring us out.

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/13/2008 1:51:33 AM   
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i told my son that to understand women all he needed to remember is that women deep down want a sense of security....and for things to match.

Although i know it's probably more complicated than that LOL.

i love this one!  Some of the comments are: "Women have the If you need to be told I am not going to tell you gene" and "Women can use sex to get what they want. Men cannot, as sex is what they want."
Enjoy!
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/3002946.stm

For a more scientific view:
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2005/03/050323124659.htm

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/13/2008 4:25:55 AM   
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love/friendship can be also to accept certain things with out understanding them fully....
(mm think some one else already mentioned it...but it was nice enough to repeat)

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/13/2008 4:44:56 AM   
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I found it interesting that I asked this question and got such negativity from some. Alot of you were great. A few thought I was on a fishing expedition to get the answer I chose. This is not the case. I like this idea of not having to fully understand someone to appreciate them. I do have trouble with some who say, "How dare you say that we dont undertsand or how dare you generalize." It is the humaness in all of us that leads us to categorize. Some dont fit neatly into the categories, but how else does life make sense to humans if we dont organize things in our brain?

I accept similarities but I accept differences in opinions also. Just as I accept all POV and try to learn from them. Maybe we are like different species? We can not say there are no differences. Our differences doesnt mean we cant be close nurturing and appreciative of those differences. Do we need to try to understand? yes and no. I guess we need to understand that we arrive at things from a different process. We process things in emotionally different ways. If we can remember and understand this and not get frustrated by our differences but appreciate what each side brings to the table, we can learn and grow so much together.

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/14/2008 9:19:19 PM   
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I don't think i even understand myself

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RE: Do Men understand Women? - 2/15/2008 7:10:32 AM   
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The answer is simple:


No, No, No........but, at the same time we understand men:  all they think about and want is: sex, sex sex...LOL

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