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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 1:26:43 PM   
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Well, I was gonna go off on a big sub-referencing rant, like I did with the goddess that was gonna open a national clearinghouse and registry for deviants,  but I figure Eleven has had hands full all day with the server prob on this side....   sooooooooooooooo.




I missed a goddess rant??? Damn, I always miss the good stuff...........


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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 1:31:50 PM   
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I think there are some people who get a huge rush from being mindfucked and/or tricked into agonizing and scary situations.  But without knowing "the sub" any opinions we (the people on this board) give would be uninformed ones.

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 1:35:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lilabbotsfordgrl
But without knowing "the sub" any opinions we (the people on this board) give would be uninformed ones.


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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 1:40:55 PM   
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Uh no, our opinions are not uninformed.  There is no mention of consent by the sub.  The situation is clearly blackmail. Don't read into it more than it is.

Unless like so many others, there really are MORE details that he has chosen not to divulge.

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 1:51:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Well, I was gonna go off on a big sub-referencing rant, like I did with the goddess that was gonna open a national clearinghouse and registry for deviants,  but I figure Eleven has had hands full all day with the server prob on this side....   sooooooooooooooo.




I missed a goddess rant??? Damn, I always miss the good stuff...........



no, that was the one where they were going to -----

This one......

http://www.collarchat.com/m_697669/mpage_12/key_unsuck/tm.htm#702728


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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 1:59:18 PM   
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I guess what we are trying to say, is the you should be slow roasted, castrated, hung while slowly strangling, but not quite dead..... and then drawn and quartered. And those are just the fun parts.


Leatherist..sigh you are much, much too gentle and kind. He would have succumbed far too quickly and that would have been a murder charge

Now..If you had proposed that masked persons..
  • Slowly peeled 1/2 inch wide strips of skin from 1 leg and then bath the raw flesh in Tiger Balm
  • Added agitated fire ants to his groin via a glass tube and duct tape
  • Sealed his anal aperture with insulating foam (it expands to fit the space)
  • Branding Blackmailer or Slave on his chest.

Releasing him to contemplate his sins, while trying to explain to the cops and the doctors why this happened to him and who did it. All of this is survivable..and leaves a lasting impression, especially the colostomy bag.

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 2:02:01 PM   
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Why blackmail her to get at her husband? There are probably many more people like her, without being attached, that i'm sure you can find to possess. My personal opinion though, i would run.

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 2:03:53 PM   
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I'd pass on the wonderful opportunity for the angry husband doing shotgun play with me. Call me chicken.


Amen...

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 2:10:10 PM   
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To me, this would be very hot, but I happen to have a blackmail fetish.  Unless you know that the girl would enjoy something like this, I would lay off of the idea completely, and just have the patience to wait for her to get through this. Divorce is a very emotional time in someone's life. (been there, done it, have the T shirt)  In my opinion, it's not the right circumstances to play out Ds desires, unless of course you both want that, but I would think it'd be a recipe for disaster in the longrun, even if there's some instant gratification in it at the moment. 

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 2:21:27 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackPhx

quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist

I guess what we are trying to say, is the you should be slow roasted, castrated, hung while slowly strangling, but not quite dead..... and then drawn and quartered. And those are just the fun parts.


Leatherist..sigh you are much, much too gentle and kind. He would have succumbed far too quickly and that would have been a murder charge

Now..If you had proposed that masked persons..
  • Slowly peeled 1/2 inch wide strips of skin from 1 leg and then bath the raw flesh in Tiger Balm
  • Added agitated fire ants to his groin via a glass tube and duct tape
  • Sealed his anal aperture with insulating foam (it expands to fit the space)
  • Branding Blackmailer or Slave on his chest.


Releasing him to contemplate his sins, while trying to explain to the cops and the doctors why this happened to him and who did it. All of this is survivable..and leaves a lasting impression, especially the colostomy bag.

poenkitten



Forgive my flight of fancy. It's much easier to just insert a glass rod up the urethra,and then break it into tiny shards with a claw hammer.

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 2:49:04 PM   
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Nothing to forgive...I just like lasting sadistic evil when it comes to certain types of lowlifes. They don't learn if they are dead.

poenkitten

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 2:57:07 PM   
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Leatherist, you just made me coooo
OP you are a fumb duck
Lucy
who is going to sleep

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 3:20:15 PM   
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Nevermind! 

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 4:15:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: want2try1

Question:
I am in a position that would allow Me to use her situation to My advantage. I want to know Your opinion on whether or not to as to what would You do, threaten her with telling her husband so she will do everything I say and more or let the opportunity slip by and possibly lose her for good? Some will think that I am a total bastard for thinking of being so cruel and some would relish to be in My shoes. That's why I ask here and am curious to see what everyone has to say. If you want more details to help with an answer, just pm Me and I will get back to you.


And that's exactly what I think. If you do that, you will be untrustworthy. Why should she ever trust you to do anything in her best interest, trust you with her dark desires, trust you not to hurt her physically... basically, if you do this, why should she continue to bother with you? And you may want to consider this: If I found out that a potential owner had considered that, even for a minute, with someone else I'd move on right away. I can do much better than someone I can't trust.

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 4:21:28 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: want2try1

Question:
I am in a position that would allow Me to use her situation to My advantage. I want to know Your opinion on whether or not to as to what would You do, threaten her with telling her husband so she will do everything I say and more or let the opportunity slip by and possibly lose her for good? Some will think that I am a total bastard for thinking of being so cruel and some would relish to be in My shoes. That's why I ask here and am curious to see what everyone has to say. If you want more details to help with an answer, just pm Me and I will get back to you.

Edited to add this above quote . my response is to this not Aquatic

If you go to her husband or try to blackmail her into doing as you want you have no integrity and are untrustworthy in my opinion and I would never want anything to do with anyone that did that nor would I want anyone I know to have anyone like that in their lives

Your integrity and trustworthiness is all you really have .. why destroy them .. for any reason .... ??  Nothing you would gain is worth that in my opinion

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 4:22:29 PM   
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I am in a position that would allow Me to use her situation to My advantage. I want to know Your opinion on whether or not to as to what would You do, threaten her with telling her husband so she will do everything I say and more or let the opportunity slip by and possibly lose her for good? Some will think that I am a total bastard for thinking of being so cruel and some would relish to be in My shoes. That's why I ask here and am curious to see what everyone has to say. If you want more details to help with an answer, just pm Me and I will get back to you.


Blackmail is against the law, first off.

Blackmail for sex play could constitute sexual assault--that little inconvenience called "consent".

So.....assuming the husband does NOT give you a 12-gauge enema, you get to explain how much fun she was to your new cellmate as he trains you on how to serve him.

I say go for it....bubba's lonely.


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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 4:26:14 PM   
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That does not sound like a besm area at all.
Its low and will create a sence of distrust..
No do not go there

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 6:21:53 PM   
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Some will think that I am a total bastard for thinking of being so cruel 


Bingo!

My Daddy said this is how he would respond... and  I agreed

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 6:31:41 PM   
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~FR~ and with tongue firmly in cheek:

Ah hell, OP, why don't you just take them both?  She can be your sub, he can be the cuckold...shit, they don't have to get along for that.  In fact, it may make their divorce go a lot smoother...you know, the ol' adultery thang an' all.  Hell, then you get 2 for the price of 1.  Blackmail gone wrong can become the new and improved scene for 2008.  You could even write a book:  "Blackmail reversed...The New Cuckoldry".

You are right in one thing though:  you are a complete bastard for even thinking of it.

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 6:41:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: want2try1

Background:
I have been considering a "very good" married sub for the last month or so that enjoys similar areas as I do, even some darker ones too. They are some of the reasons I decided to consider her as My sub in the first place. she has just recently told Me that she is getting a divorce and has to "lay low" until she can get on her feet and then be able to resume her consideration. I feel for her situation and the pain she is going to experience.
Question:
I am in a position that would allow Me to use her situation to My advantage. I want to know Your opinion on whether or not to as to what would You do, threaten her with telling her husband so she will do everything I say and more or let the opportunity slip by and possibly lose her for good? Some will think that I am a total bastard for thinking of being so cruel and some would relish to be in My shoes. That's why I ask here and am curious to see what everyone has to say. If you want more details to help with an answer, just pm Me and I will get back to you.


You realize that if this sub has children, your game will cost her dearly. Even if she doesn't, your game could cost her financially. I am very close to the same situation as the sub in your post, and even if my STBX didn't know all, I would be filing a complaint and pressing charges in a heartbeat. 

Get a clue, get a conscience and figure out how to create opportunity based on your own merit.  You are beneath contempt.



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