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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 7:31:46 PM   
nwcutie102


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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 7:38:36 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Jeez, nwcutie, this has nothing to do with how his sub reacts.  Suppose she decided to stay with him.  That wouldn't make it any less sleazy.  It wouldn't change the fact that no one in the world could ever trust him again.  You know damn well that people stay in relationships with liars and manipulators for far too long.  He is responsible for his own integrity no matter how emotionally healthy his sub is.

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 8:59:23 PM   
Owner4SexSlave


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Status: offline 		If "blackmail play" is not on the activity list, I would not do it.  Play is play and the real thing is the real thing.

Some people enjoy "Rape play" however there's a big difference between raping somebody and acting out a "Rape play" scene.  

If you decide you are gonna go through with blackmailing her, make certain you have thought about all the possible outcomes and effects it will have on yourself, her, her husband she's looking to divorce.   If there kids involved, you need to consider how this could possible effect them as well.   Think about the possible effects and consequences for your choices and actions.




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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 9:17:39 PM   
SixFootMaster


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lauren0221

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I hope she reads this and runs as fast as she can from you.
Does Hallmark make blackmail cards?


front of the card a cute little puppy........open it up and.

I know these times are hard for you
I know that sometimes you are blue
but if you don't go through with this
He will know you drank my piss

Love
Jeffwey



Best blackmail card ever!! Errr, but blackmail is WRONG.


Now kids, blackmail is wrong, mmmkay?


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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/28/2008 9:52:57 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		Well threatening someone to blackmail them to do what you want never works. Meaning, you are not doing it as play . Threatening someone with this kind of thing always ends in disaster. You need to rethink that.

< Message edited by sweetnurseBBW -- 2/28/2008 9:58:19 PM >

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 6:07:24 AM   
Phoenix2raven


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Status: offline 		Hopefully you are still reading this post and are really listening.This is not to be mean but it's to save her and you from some unimaginable pain.Get a grip on what Domination means. First of all what you're proposing is NOT Domination its domineering and abusive. If you have a conscious and you're not a complete sociopath/antisocial personality disorder then get some professional counseling.Then when you have been in counseling for at least a year and have figured out that the kind of thinking you have is very very wrong you may be ready for a vanilla relationship. Until then step away from the submissive Bad Dom no sub!
   

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 7:07:19 AM   
Justme696


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How do you play "blackmail"  and how do you stop?
Is it a fantasy? or do you really threaten your sub/slave"with something?

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 9:21:31 AM   
mnottertail


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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 9:28:26 AM   
RedMagic1


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ORIGINAL: Justme696
How do you play "blackmail"  and how do you stop?
Is it a fantasy? or do you really threaten your sub/slave"with something?

It's a real kink.  I've seen it as a subset of "financial domination," advertised by online Dommes only.  She "makes" the guy pose in various humiliating ways, and threatens to send the pics around unless he gives her a credit card that he pays the bills on.  It's worth pointing out, though, that this is a 100% consensual business relationship.


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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 9:45:28 AM   
Tantriqu


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Status: offline 		want2try1 or whatever he's calling himself now is no dom, just another bully and a coward, but also a blackmailer and a sociopath.  his lack of empathy makes him a danger, and since he wants people to applaud his sadism, hannibal lecter was less crazy.
his calling himself a dom gives BDSM a bad name. 


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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 9:46:46 AM   
MissHarlet


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Status: offline 		OHOH   I smell a thread pull coming .... I thought nameing names was a TOS violation

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 9:49:53 AM   
Owner4SexSlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: Justme696
How do you play "blackmail"  and how do you stop?
Is it a fantasy? or do you really threaten your sub/slave"with something?

It's a real kink.  I've seen it as a subset of "financial domination," advertised by online Dommes only.  She "makes" the guy pose in various humiliating ways, and threatens to send the pics around unless he gives her a credit card that he pays the bills on.  It's worth pointing out, though, that this is a 100% consensual business relationship.



OH Damn, I was going to pop on this thread today and give everybody an ultimatum that I wanted Aileen's naked ass caged and air frieghted to my doorstep by midnight tonight or else I'm gonna squeal on everybody here to their spouses, parents, UMs, and places of employment.   I have to do something with all these stacks of yellow folders I've been keeping on you guys.   LOL...

Oh yeah, make certain she's slathered up in baby oil really good too and I want a case full of Green M&M's while you all are at it.  

First person that ships me a case of Ben & Jerry's Chunky Monkey, I'll make your folder permantly disappear. 


 


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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 11:08:44 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I'd tape all the phone calls, save the text messages and chat logs, and go straight to my lawyer and have you arrested for blackmail. Maybe she would lose out in the meantime, but you would lose big time while being the sub of a 300lb guy called Tiny while doing 8 years in prison.

Is it worth it?

And if she does agree till the divorce agreement goes through, don't be surprised if the very next day you get arrested for this, right after she does a Lorena Bobbitt to you. And deservedly.

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 11:09:21 AM   
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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 11:11:37 AM   
Justme696


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

gimme some money or I will tell your mom what you just wrote.

TheBlackAdder


:(
I got excited by your language
(guess it works  lol)


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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 12:06:37 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Don't try to weasel your fuckin' way out of it, I know you got a checkbook around here somewhere, and you better figure out how you are gonna pay for the check I write, cause I am not a man of insignificant appetite......

Did you come?

LOLOLOLOLOL.
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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 1:34:11 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		 And all this time I thought I was the one giving BDSM a bad name. I will sleep the sleep of the Innocent tonight.

Jeff

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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 1:46:52 PM   
celticlord2112


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

And all this time I thought I was the one giving BDSM a bad name. I will sleep the sleep of the Innocent tonight.

Jeff


You mean the sleep of the "not guilty".....


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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 2:14:06 PM   
Jeffff


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RE: Would you consider this going too far? - 2/29/2008 3:53:03 PM   
Justme696


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Don't try to weasel your fuckin' way out of it, I know you got a checkbook around here somewhere, and you better figure out how you are gonna pay for the check I write, cause I am not a man of insignificant appetite......

Did you come?

LOLOLOLOLOL.
Ransom of Red Chief 


twice :P

it will be on the check..... haha


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