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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 2:43:43 PM   
MistressVnus


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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 2:51:29 PM   
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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 2:52:40 PM   
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he's the bitch, right?


Hahahhaah!!  Excellent!!



Thank you, thank you. And here I thought true artists were not appreciated in their own lifetime...;-)

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 2:54:34 PM   
midgetmafiosa


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Status: offline 		Sounds like she got what she asked for and didn't like it. Tough cookies. Meh, I wouldn't feel too bad about it.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:01:56 PM   
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She asked me if I would do it.

I was doing my best friends new B/F with a strapon lastnight infront of her after I tied her to a chair.



Additionally, in a more perfect world, I would introduce you to my wife and you both would become best of friends. ;-)

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:05:42 PM   
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Sounds like she got what she asked for and didn't like it. Tough cookies. Meh, I wouldn't feel too bad about it.


I would agree with this statement.  What is the old saw? "Be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it."

I do wonder what the poor male sub had to hear on the drive home.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:08:20 PM   
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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:13:35 PM   
lusciouslips19


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Status: offline 		I am sorry but I disagree. It is the Dominants responsibility to gage the comfort level of the submissive. You said you could tell she was upset and still you kept going. you should have been asking if she were ok with you continuing but you didnt do this. You call her your best friend? Yes you must be a bitch and a self centered one at that. I never thought dominance was supposed to have such lack of integrity. You probably lost a friend. Was it worth it?

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:20:12 PM   
DianeB269


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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:21:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

You don't know me or her...I'll bet you she calls me in a few days.


Diane


let's hope you are right and you did the right thing. Time will tell. You asked for opiniuons. I only gave my take from the information you offered.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:24:15 PM   
mzbehavin


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Status: offline 		That is why i'm not a Domme, nor a sadist, nor a bitch (ok, beyond pms) Because i absolutely do not have the heart to hurt people...So im actually not even qualified to answer this!!

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:25:19 PM   
mzbehavin


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Status: offline 		ps. Hurt, Emotionally... Physically i can swing a pretty good flogger when needed... grins*

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:25:36 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		I would have stopped.  Yes, they both agreed, maybe he liked it... but your confused friend did not.  You knew that.  You forced your will, your opinion, your agenda and took what you wanted and might have hurt another person you called friend.  How would you like it if you were with a friend and trying something new and you didn't like it and your friend continued to hurt you emotionally or physically?

It was your opinion that she needed to suffer your enjoyment so that you could prove a point.  Forced points... go how far?

I wouldn't go so far as to call you a bitch... but I do wonder what kind of friend you are.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:45:40 PM   
lusciouslips19


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Status: offline 		Have you offered some emotional aftercare? The Dom's with integrity that I played with casually before I met Sirall called me for follow up or e-mailed me. They checked in to see where I was emotionally and how I felt physically. If I was physically bruised they checked in to see how I was healing, if it was emotionally intense they called to see how my emotions and psyche was doing. Have you done either of these things?

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:50:13 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		Your profile states that you are dominant...You should change it....


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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:51:35 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		No and I 'm not going to call her. She knew what she was getting into before the session started.


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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:54:21 PM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		I don't really get it. Why didn't you ask when you realised that your best friend was having a seriously negative reaction to you screwing her new boyfriend in the ass? Was it to prove something?I really don't understand the motive behind why you continued. It seems that you must be wondering if you overstepped since you did begin this thread asking about it.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 3:55:41 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		If a woman went out on a date and agreed to have sex and at some point did not like it and wanted to stop... wanted to say no and the man did not stop... what would we consider that to be?

You asked for our opinion... we gave it based on what you said... you didn't like that and now go defensive and on the attack.  Nice.

I always respected you and your post... until now.

Dominant does not mean... I take what I want, when I want with no accountablity.  I also wonder if there was any aftercare given. 

This is no skin off my nose... not my friend... not my anything except an opinion you asked for on a public board.  So basically it sounds like you didn't want our opinions, but were what... bragging?

I hope your friend does call and all is well.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 4:01:56 PM   
DianeB269


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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 4:03:05 PM   
lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

No and I 'm not going to call her. She knew what she was getting into before the session started.


Diane


I find that statement rediculous. You dont provide aftercare because your subs knew what they were getting into? You dont care about the well being or protection of your submissives physical or mental health? Scary


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