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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 6:17:02 PM

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Personally, if my best friend looked like that.. I'd stop it.. I know her well and that would mean something is wrong.. but with my best friend, we would have analyzed it to death and talked it out sixteen million different ways...

and we would have worked out what actually means STOP... and talked before she went home...

the scenario as you describe.. .. uhmmm.. well, it impacts me negatively... but its your friend.. I'm sure we're not the same

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 6:43:25 PM

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OK, She called to say she was sorry for acting like a little bitch, She also said, she was mad at me for not letting in on the fun.
Believe it or not, she wants to do it again.
Diane

I'm sorry, but this sounds remarkably like another recent poster who beat her sub past his breaking point, so much so that he couldn't work the next day...and then after being reamed here in the forums came back to tell us how much being punished for something he didn't do made him feel oh so much more submissive.
I still need to consider this one though.
I'm still not sure how I feel about it.
Although I was very sure about the other.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 6:53:41 PM

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I don't 90% of the crap posted here so, I wouldn't know anything about their problems nor do I care.

Diane..

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 6:56:36 PM

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She asked me if I would do it.

I was doing my best friends new B/F with a strapon lastnight infront of her after I tied her to a chair. She was ok with it at first. Then she had this VERY jealous look on her face and that made me even more turned on so, humped his ass harder and harder. I didn't want to stop. By this time I could tell she was getting mad. I made her sit there for about an hour while I had my way with his ass before I untied her. Then she called me a bitch.

Edit; He was tied up too.

Am I a bitch?

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 7:06:04 PM

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She lives 2 blocks away so, they walked home...

Diane

after being rode hard in the ass for over an hour, i'm surprised he could move much less walk.
unless he was really loose. or used to it.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 9:19:11 PM

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Well, Diane, I wouldn't use the term bitch, but that's because I don't tend to use the word often.

What I would say would be that I think we are different types, you and I. Venus had it right about three pages ago. It's a reverse cuck scene, and it's certainly not the first time anyone's heard of it.

Now, anybody with cuck (either direct or reverse) experience will tell you that for the cuck, emotional distress is very much a portion of what they want out of the experience. They want that humiliation. They want to feel helpless. They want to feel like something is being denied them/taken away from them.

Here's where we're different. I probably would have agreed to the tying. I'm not so sure I would have agreed to the gag without a hand or foot signal of some sort. This was her first experience with this, so there was no way for her to know if she really could handle it or not. There should have been a way for her to stop the scene if it were too much for her on a emotional level, especially when she saw how much he was enjoying it. (I just love it when they push back on a strap-on, Myself. Very yummy, and probably the best part of the story.)

Cuckholding, just like any other technique which involves the emotional or mental state, must be done with caution. I certainly would have incorporated aftercare. Not just immediately after the scene, but a day after follow up.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 9:49:49 PM

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Your profile states that you are dominant...You should change it....

Diane

Question answered.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 10:09:27 PM

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Hmmm.. was thinking it was a fake post too... but some good points were made and i always wondered about the dynamics of cuck'ing so~
shrugs*
Does being a Bitch make everything you do ok? I mean, because your a Bitch and entitled to be thoughtless.. ? Real Bitches are accountable. Much more effective.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 10:18:11 PM

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I am sorry but I disagree. It is the Dominants responsibility to gage the comfort level of the submissive. You said you could tell she was upset and still you kept going. you should have been asking if she were ok with you continuing but you didnt do this. You call her your best friend? Yes you must be a bitch and a self centered one at that. I never thought dominance was supposed to have such lack of integrity. You probably lost a friend. Was it worth it?

This. I agree with this. My thoughts exactly. This is either obviously a really fake story(c'mon, there was a fake phone call mid-thread), or the person involved is abusive and untrustworthy.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/2/2008 10:24:51 PM

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Two women intimate with one man will raise boundary questions. Beware the ugly head of jealously.

Bitch or no, you were pushing limits.

Arguably the whole point of bondage is for the top to set the limits and the boundaries.

Seems to me your neighbors found this out.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/3/2008 4:42:34 AM

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They asked for this and you gave it to them. Bitch? Nope you were doing what most dominant women would have done, soaked up that energy that was going on in the room and taken them to places they've probably never gone before. I'm sure she was sitting there wishing that it was HER in your place reaming his ass with that strapon.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/3/2008 4:46:50 AM

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Was Bitch the safe word?

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/3/2008 4:55:03 AM

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Well, there's a lot of things going on there I think and a simple answer would not do.

Your friends should have been careful of what they wished for, that's for sure. They got themselves into trouble. Perhaps they didn't think it through. It went wrong and they need to own their part of the problem.

But I must say I find it very irresponsible of you to keep going when you saw your friend was getting seriously upset. What's the difference between what you did and not respecting a sub's safe word??? And she's supposed to be your best friend?

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/3/2008 5:16:47 AM

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Most of the time being a Bitch is a good thing...My middle name is BITCH..

Diane

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/3/2008 5:31:48 AM

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I believe, as in my experience it often is, that the event was more intense than she had anticipated. Perhaps her boyfriend's reaction was not what she expected, causing her to react differently than she had thought she would. The mixture of overwhelming emotions, endorphines and adreneline often make me lose my mind. I require a cooling down period to let it sink in. Games of the mind are never what you imagine they will be.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/3/2008 8:01:33 AM

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Was Bitch the safe word?

Hahahahahahahahaha!!

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/3/2008 8:04:05 AM

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Shawn....totally agree with your last statement

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/3/2008 8:18:48 AM

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bitch isnt the right word for you, a dreamgirl fits better.

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/3/2008 10:30:29 AM

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Don't know if your a bitch as much as a bullshitter! An Hour, I don't do something fur for that long!

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RE: Am I a Dominant BITCH? - 4/3/2008 10:35:27 AM

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An Hour, I don't do something fur for that long!

I hate to burst your bubble, but it often takes me an hour just to start getting warmed up!! I'm sure I'm not the only one.
However, I'm used to getting into my space for days at a time.
And, I don't know if the post is true of not, but I know that there are probabaly several here that could play for an hour and much more, besides myself.

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