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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 10/29/2009 11:21:37 AM   
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That is the nature of co-dependence.

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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 10/29/2009 8:36:37 PM   
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'Ever watch Bridezilla? '

LOL! I nearly shot pepsi out of my nose when I read that. True, very true

'Stop feeding the troll guys. This is a teenaged kid getting his ya yas here. None of this is real, and continuing to feed him just encourages him to keep going. Unless of course you are replying to him to get some entertainment out of it your ownself.'

I agree that this is the most likely possibility. However, i've personally seen people do alot worse for alot less, so it wouldn't suprise me in the least if it is true. If it is the woman is a certified nutjob and its best to get as far away from her as possible, lest she light him on fire in his sleep or something like that.

'Tormentise, I have a friend that lives in the US, he's a 'rough diamond' and out of an abusive marriage where his wife had affairs, would hit him and the moment he retaliated she would call 911 and have his arse hauled off to jail.'

Hear hear, that is alot more common than people think. I had an aunt that was just like that and she did end up trying that on my uncle. She figured it was a 'his word against mine and the judge is going to side with me because i'm a woman' kind of setup. What she didn't count on was me talking a friend of mine into loaning him the services of her high priced lawyer. The look on her face when she found out was priceless. Needless to say she dropped the charges.

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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 11/2/2009 2:37:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: xssve

if you don't have the strength at the moment to keep her in line for her own good... 



Oh, there is a strength he doesn't have all right.... he created this turd in May of 2008.

Cali





And by posting your input, does that make you a piece of shit as well?

According to the laws of physics, it takes more strength to hold onto something than to let it go. If our thoughts are indeed electrical impulses, then they qualify as matter as well. Keep someone in line against their will? Get fucking real......

Codependent huh? How is that any better or worse than anybody getting their jollies from this or any other online meat market?

I am the guy you ask to help you move when nobody else is willing to take the time. I am the guy that you can punch in the face because you hate me, yet I let it ride even though I can kick your ass up and down both sides of the street. Go drag someone else down to your level.

She was the only woman I ever thought more of than just a fuck. it takes a long time to get to know somebody, years, especially if that person is very deceptive and dishonest about their agenda, looking to use whomever they can use until they get figured out. It was a learning experience, basically reminding me of what i already knew, but was hoping she was the one exception, as there is an exception to every rule.

Why do I not have a profile? Because I will no longer consider getting serious with a woman that has a profile on any dating site, therefore it is not proper for me to have one, with the exception being a 20 year old Fillipina with a myspace, who eats jalapeno peppers like french fries! They say that the best way to let go of an old girlfriend is to grab a young one. I find that younger women are much less judgmental, have a willingness to learn instead of thinking they know it all, and carry much less baggage. So, when I see my ex'es tits and cunt all over the net after she once stated that she was not the kind to ever do that, instead of getting upset, I laugh, finding myself grateful to not be fucking that any more.

I hung on because something was missing, some kind of unfinished business. A song as it turns out. If something is building up inside of me, I'll go AWOL from work until I finish a new song. If I get fired, so be it. How many times has someone felt troubled and then finds a bit of solace in a song? So now, I have this new song, it sounds heartbreaking as all hell, but I'm not feeling it any more. The first thing everybody who has heard it say is, "Elvis." The heartbreak that inspired this song is erased by the fact that I have created this song, I laugh every time the melody and words roll through my mind. In almost thirty years of writing songs, I can remember only writing one cry baby, waah waah, heartbreak song, that is not my style, but this song is something special, it is the reason I endured. Next up, two months in my little cabin on a mountain to finish a song that might make a few enemies, but the red & white will like it!

Over 6,000 hits! Pretty impressive for the Ask A Submissive area. Sort of like watching a crappy soap opera because there's nothing better on. I'd bet the farm that every person who made a disparaging remark, wishing this would die, will bring it back to life by clicking on to read this, every fucking one of you! You are just as responsible for keeping this thread alive as I am Hmmm, let's see, oh yes, the being called a cunt thread? Personally, a woman that enjoys being berated under any circumstance turns me off. Luckily for me, there are women that do not approve of this word, and for all the rest of you... more power to you with whatever floats your boat. I am not fucking, or do I ever want to fuck you.

Many a married man has commented on "having to pick the battles." I have written a few responses to the last posts here, yet deleting them thinking that it isn't worth the effort and for what good purpose? But like that song that occasionally builds up inside of me, I fail to ignore it. Got two more cents to throw in? Almost 6,200 hits? Just this response alone will probably push it over 6,300 by the time all the lookie loos get done rubbernecking as if this is a bad freeway accident. You Doubting Thomas's may question the validity of the events described here, but the only one that matters is the one looking into that slighted mirror, failing to suffer the fools gladly as she plans her next Sept 4th trickery.

A friend of mine once said, "Women are like buses, if you miss one, another will come by in ten minutes." I was willing to stick by her as she grew old, fat, and ugly, but after a steady diet of young, sweet meat, my feelings for her have gone stale as her failure to submit to my desires and feed my appetite of creating a happy song have gone unnourished. I tried my best to paint a pretty picture of our future, but as noted in the chorus of my new song "Faded Illustrations," my rainbow has disappeared and the colors have all faded. I know we would have made it, if she had stayed and tried. I know that I will someday love again!

Oh, and in response to that last post, I heard one message that said, "If you speak English, please stay on the line, if not, call back after you learn."

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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 11/2/2009 4:56:58 AM   
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Have it your way.

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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 11/2/2009 4:59:52 AM   
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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 11/5/2009 4:39:13 PM   
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Try this one on for size.

Antisocial Personality Disorder

Etiology

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This disorder was previously known as both psychopathic and Sociopathic personality disorder. Like most personality disorders, there are many factors that may contribute to the development of symptoms. Because the symptoms are long lasting, the idea that symptoms begin to emerge in childhood or at least adolescence is well accepted. The negative consequences of such symptoms, however, may not show themselves until adulthood.

Research has shown that a large percentage of individuals with this disorder have recognizable behaviors prior to age 15. These behaviors include difficulty with authority, legal altercations, cruelty to animals, fire setting, and a dislike or anger toward authority. This disorder is diagnosed much more frequently in males.

Symptoms

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The symptoms of antisocial personality disorder include a longstanding pattern (after the age of 15) of disregard for the rights of others. There is a failure to conform to society's norms and expectations that often results in numerous arrests or legal involvement as well as a history of deceitfulness where the individual attempts to con people or use trickery for personal profit. Impulsiveness if often present, including angry outbursts, failure to consider consequences of behaviors, irritability, and/or physical assaults.

Some argue that a major component of this disorder is the reduced ability to feel empathy for other people. This inability to see the hurts, concerns, and other feelings of people often results in a disregard for these aspects of human interaction. Finally, irresponsible behavior often accompanies this disorder as well as a lack of remorse for wrongdoings.

Treatment

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Treatment for this disorder is very rarely sought. There is a limited amount of insight into the symptoms, and the negative consequences are often blamed on society. In this sense, treatment options are limited. Some research has found long term insight oriented therapy to be effective, but getting the individual to commit to this treatment is a major obstacle.

Prognosis

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Prognosis is not very good because of two contributing factors. First, because the disorder is characterized by a failure to conform to society's norms, people with this disorder are often incarcerated because of criminal behavior. Secondly, a lack of insight into the disorder is very common. People with antisocial personality disorder typically see the world as having the problems, not him or herself, and therefore rarely seek treatment. If progress is made, it is typically over an extended period of time.



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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 11/5/2009 5:01:16 PM   
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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 11/7/2009 2:19:35 PM   
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Is it OK to have wedding interrupted by alien invasion, and Dom taken away on spaceship?

This whole scenario smacks of being made up.

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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 11/8/2009 4:32:54 PM   
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Maybe there are those that believe that this entire scenario has been fabricated because of not ever allowing one's self to explore avenues of emotion that would allow for such an occurrence.

I am a physical, chemical, emotional human being, and that is not a bad thing. It only becomes a limitation if I continue to access those same emotions and same attitudes on a daily basis and go nowhere in the evolution and change of my life. How can I say that I have lived fully every day by simply experiencing the same emotions that I am addicted to every day? That would be saying that "I have to reconfirm who I am," and my personality is that "I must go here and do this and go there and do that."

A master is one that perceives the day as an opportunity in time to create avenues of reality and emotions that are unborn, so that the day becomes a fertilization of infinite tomorrows.

Why did I allow this to happen? The answer is to create a new reality, and a new emotion that was yet to be experienced in my life, and hers. You may choose not to believe it all happened, and I could care less what you believe as you will only believe what you wish to believe. Because you did not witness any of these events, you choose to believe that they did not happen, and it is your negativity, and/or narrow mind that causes you to call me a liar while disputing the authenticity of these events actually happening with a negative manner.

As an example, I can cut thirty cords of spruce and fir pecker poles a day. There are those who have spent most of their lives working in the woods that will say, "impossible," and wouldn't believe it even if they stood there and watched me because they, for whatever reason, could not do it themselves, therefore, nobody else can either. And there are those that heard me play a guitar years ago, listened to me for years without my having knowledge of any music theory whatsoever, other than one note could be higher or lower than another. These people remarked that giving up playing would be in my best interests for if I hadn't figured it out by then , I would not ever learn. Those same people are in shock when they hear me today, because their reality conflicts with mine. Even some of those that have accepted that , yes, I learned how to play pretty good, are often bewildered at some of the stuff I come up with.

When one takes an insult and analyzes it's origination, it is easy enough to discover why and how that insult materialized. Don't get me wrong, I have thrown my fair share of insults at others, and that fact does not make me proud, but rather inspires a desire for atonement . My berating of another translates into my being an aberration, which might have been a reality at one time and only continues being my reality if I allow it to do so. Hurling an insult drags me down to the levels of others, a level at which I do not wish to belong. So talk all the crap that you wish as this is just might be the only place anybody will, with you, gather agreement with, which might explain why you are here in the first place.

< Message edited by Alphascendant -- 11/8/2009 4:34:31 PM >

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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 11/8/2009 5:16:12 PM   
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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 11/8/2009 5:24:52 PM   
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I have no idea what the guy's last post meant, it seemed sort of rambling (I jumped to the last sentence and that one has me particularly baffled).  So I have two questions:

1.  Is he still with the criminally violent sub?
2.  If not, why is he still obsessing about her after a year and a half?


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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 11/8/2009 6:37:01 PM   
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Actually, I couldn't get past the first sentence of teh OPs last post.  I figured it was likely to be more justification (read: excuses) why he did what he did and didnt do what he didnt do.

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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 11/8/2009 8:47:31 PM   
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A person's mental state can become dominated by pain such that everything that person perceives is colored by that pain, and sometimes every way that person reacts and everything that person does becomes all about that person's pain. That pain becomes an addiction because nobody has ever come along and given that person sufficient, intelligent knowledge about that person's beautiful self, and how that beauty works from the inside out. Why the addiction? Because that person has had nothing better, has dreamed nothing better because nobody has ever taught that person to dream better. Many of the same principles that apply to the dreams we have while sleeping can also be applied to those we have when we are awake. I often contemplate whether or not the dreams we have when we sleep are actually closer to reality than what happens when we are awake, or whether there is any difference at all. Until the absolute power of the mind is revealed, nobody will ever know.


Addictions all appear to share the property of slowing the formation of healthy, new brain cells, but that process can be reversed once the addiction has been stopped. If one doesn't see the traps, one has to go through all of the negative ordeals until they see the trap, because if it is not seen, it is the only teaching mechanism and the only way of coming upon understanding something new. The universe brings these things to our door and there is learning from them for us if we are willing to reflect upon them and think beyond our rigid mindset. Science can confirm much of what our thoughts can do to us and how they can make our bodies weak, effectively destroying us and even destroy things around us. Thoughts create our realities until something or somebody comes along to alter those beliefs and form a new reality. Whether or not you are able to make a connection between the relevance of this post with any of the previous is not my problem. Quite possibly, the problem any of you have with any of my writing is probably expiring energy that you could use to solve other problems that you most certainly must endure, which is most likely the reason those problems exist, because of your inclination to point out what is wrong with others than to look at what is wrong with yourself. Again, that is also not my problem.

It has been noted here that this forum has become a playground for the CVS and I, yet, for whatever twisted reason, it is a playground for all who log in. Your reasons for being here are not of any more importance than mine. So big effen deal if I still might be faintly concerned or curious about what she might be thinking, and that this might be the only avenue for me to possibly get a point across to her. Being even faintly concerned for her would still be at least one hundred times more than being concerned about what anybody else here is thinking. Again, your reason for posting anything, anywhere here is of no greater importance than mine. The CVS attempted to manipulate my behavior without first scrutinizing her own. She used to bitch about the seat in my truck having a spring exposed. It's odd that almost four years of her complaining didn't get that spring fixed, but two minutes of thinking about the next woman that would sit in that truck did, because until her, nobody ever got in my truck from the driver's side. Even the person who signs my payroll check learned that telling me what he would like to have done gets better results than telling me what I have to do. Other than dying and paying taxes, nobody has to do anything against their will.

You can attempt to contemn and discredit with contempt anything and everything that has been written here, yet here you are back for more. So, who's fault is that, who's the weak one now? Truth is stranger than fiction, and what was Twain's reasoning for this? "Because fiction is obliged to stick to possibilities; Truth isn't." Sure, any of you can reason that there is something wrong with my brain, as if yours was somehow more advanced and operationally functional than mine. That might be your reality, but it is far from mine.

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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 11/8/2009 10:47:10 PM   
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Greedy?  Did he answer the questions?  If so, can I have the Cliffs Notes version?

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RE: Criminally Violent Sub - 11/12/2009 9:23:50 AM   
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This is not submission and dominance-this is nuts!

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