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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Glad it worked out well and all the Cassandras were wrong about this.

But somehow the idea of being "respectful" at a gang bang makes we wonder.  Did they bow and say "please" and "thank you"?  I kinda thought gang bangs were about fucking the girl's brains out.

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ORIGINAL: SweetNika

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ORIGINAL: MissSCD

When was the last time you were in a gang bang?  Also, she is a new comer.  She is not ready for this in my opinion.
Thank you for caring about women.  I sure would not want you on my jury when it went to trial as rape.
Tell it to the judge. 
 
Regards, MissSCD

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ORIGINAL: SltlyBrokenAngel

Wow.... MissSCD.... wouldn't it be legitimate to say that some women enjoy this type of play? And who decided that it is degrading to women?  Was there a women of the world meeting when this was decided on that I missed?
Its all in perception - and to judge this on one scene that went wrong isn't really fair.
Furthermore, I don't recall talking about rape IF she decides that this is something that she wants to participate in then she is consenting to the event and consenting to have sex with these men.... that's not rape.  

Who are you, or me or anyone to judge if she is ready for this? Only her and her only can truly know that. I have been in a gang bang and I did not find it degrading as I said I found it empowering. As I said before this may not be YOUR kink but it is the kink of quite a few men and women.
 
You are comparing apples and rocks, yes rocks when you compare a consensual gang bang and a rape.  There is NOTHING consensual about rape and she appears to be conscenting to this gang bang.
 
Nika

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ORIGINAL: hisdarlinsweetie

Wow MissScd...While it is good that you know yourself well enough to leave a situation which you are uncomfortable with, you are making wild, grossly inaccurate assumptions about me (and probably others who have engaged in gangbangs).  I was not raped in any form during this gangbang.  My Sir would never have allowed that to happen.  He asked me if I wanted to cancel numerous times leading up to last night.  He screened and chose (wisely) the participants.  He was present during the entire thing, monitoring if I was ok.  All the men knew that it would be over immediately if any of my Sir's rules were not abided to.  And during the gangbang, it was just fucking, sprinkled with some intimate exchanges between my Sir and I.  I was used throughly, not as a piece of meat, but as a gorgeous, sensual, pleasing girl of my Sir.  My Sir set that tone and the men followed. 
I was never sexually or physically abused as a child.  I don't want to be raped (as I assume no one really does).  I want to be able to explore my life, including my sexuality, with my Sir.  Because it's fun and challenging, and most importantly because I adore him with every molecule of my being.

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ORIGINAL: MissSCD

hisdarlinssweetie:
 
Let me ask you this question.  If you had said no to your Master regarding this sceen, do you think you would still have a Master?
 
That is called abuse. .  Ask your Master to email me here.  I would like to discuss it with him
 
Call it what you wish, but we call it gang rape.   It is sick in my opinion.  I think you were forced and did not realize it because you had fear that you would lose your Master. 

I started as a sub.  I trained for a year as a sub.  I then trained as a Domme by a Domme in a dungeon setting where open sexual experiments were allowed.   We don't go there anymore.  

I could go on about how I would feel about myself in this situation, but you are in denial.

Regards, MissSCD
 

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ORIGINAL: hisdarlinsweetie

Wow MissScd...While it is good that you know yourself well enough to leave a situation which you are uncomfortable with, you are making wild, grossly inaccurate assumptions about me (and probably others who have engaged in gangbangs).  I was not raped in any form during this gangbang.  My Sir would never have allowed that to happen.  He asked me if I wanted to cancel numerous times leading up to last night.  He screened and chose (wisely) the participants.  He was present during the entire thing, monitoring if I was ok.  All the men knew that it would be over immediately if any of my Sir's rules were not abided to.  And during the gangbang, it was just fucking, sprinkled with some intimate exchanges between my Sir and I.  I was used throughly, not as a piece of meat, but as a gorgeous, sensual, pleasing girl of my Sir.  My Sir set that tone and the men followed. 
I was never sexually or physically abused as a child.  I don't want to be raped (as I assume no one really does).  I want to be able to explore my life, including my sexuality, with my Sir.  Because it's fun and challenging, and most importantly because I adore him with every molecule of my being.

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ORIGINAL: hisdarlinsweetie

My Sir has set up a gangbang for next weekend.  I have never done anything like this and feel a little apprehensive.  He knows that I am a little scared and is very supportive.  He is not "making" me do this; but it was his idea and he has done all the work involved with setting it up (i.e. finding and then screening the participants, scheduling, etc.).  While the idea of it is intriguing, it is not something I would have chosen for myself.  He is inviting 7 with the thought that only 4 or 5 will show up.  He will be there, keeping me safe physically and emotionally.  Safe sex will be practiced. 
I would like to hear from subs who have done something like this.  I am especially interested in those who, like me, were a little apprehensive before it happened.  Thanks for all your responses.

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ORIGINAL: hisdarlinsweetie

*Update*
Last night, the afore mentioned gangbang took place.  I was a little nervous at first, but my Sir picked good men.  They were all very respectful and followed all the rules that my Sir had in place.  I felt lovely to be the object of desire to a roomful of men.  The biggest compliment was when one of the men told my Sir - she is very obedient.  You can train my girls any time.  :) 

My Sir had everything ready...he had thought of everything.  He made me feel cared for and intimate with him by holding my hand and whispering in my ear at times throughout.  He was checking to see if I was ok, but also he was telling me how proud he was of me and how beautiful and sexy I was and that he loved me.  For us, this was an exercise in trust.  It was a way of bringing us closer together.

Afterwards, he held me and kissed me and showered me.  Then he took me out to a very nice restaurant for dinner.  He continues to let me know how proud he is to have me... To him, there is no conflict between having me be the center of a gangbang and enjoying a gourmet meal and conversation with me.  He wants a girl who he can do anything and everything with.  And lucky for both of us, he found me a couple of years ago, so he's got that girl.  :)