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She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 10:26:11 AM

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There is a dominant woman who I have been seeing and she wishes to take it to the next level and have be as a chastity cuckold whore for her. I have never done this but have read online about it. Believing in the feame-lead/Female Superior relationship, I naturally believe that a male's rightful place is to serve the woman he has given himself and submitted to and as such, she should not have restrictions on her sexual fulfillment, especially in having to suffer from not having an adequate sized penis. No woman should suffer because of my small, tiny penis, this I believe, so I am open to the idea of being a cuck. But what is a bit troubling is how so many dominant woman expect, as this woman, that a cuck will reconcile himself to not just being inadequate in his penis, but to participate with her other lovers. Particularly, the idea of being a "fluffer" and there to perform oral on her as she is having intercourse with another man is something that while arousing in thought is something I am still uncertain. She claims that the men will always have condoms on and that it is safe, which I agree and that it will give her immense pleasure for me to submit this way. Basically, she want me to pre-service her male lovers and have them and keep them hard for her. Despite my hesitation, she says I will be great at this. I have serviced her strapon before and didn't think I would get into it but now do and am good at it, but I am not sure of having man's penis in my mouth, even if it is covered with a condom. But then again, I am there to please her and love to do so. Just feeling a bit conflicted and hoping to hear from other dominants on their view on this and what it does for them. I think the only way I can reconcole myself fully to this is to get in the mind of a domme, as best I can, and realize what pleasure in doing this she derives. Apparently, it is something a lot of dominant women not want and love.

RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 10:35:52 AM

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You do not need to be in the mind of anyone but YOUR domme, whether the rest of us love it or hate it doesnt impact your service to her in the slightest.
I mean, if you get a few of us on here saying we hate the idea of cuckolding, are you going to tel her no?
If we love it, are you going to be more enthusiastic?
If we do it differently are you going to question her methods?

You are owned and obviously she has plans for you, those are the only ones that realy matter. Not the opinions of a few of us online dominants who happen to take part in the same activities.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 11:48:40 AM

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I have to agree with DV here. What difference does it makes what people other than she and yourself think. Other Dominas are not her.

All that matters here is, can you live with her desires? If so, no problem. If not, can she live with you, without this? If so, again, no problem. If not, I'd say it's time for both of you to move on.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 1:58:12 PM

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If you face the ambivalence you describe, rather than asking dommes whether they enjoy cuckolding or not, I think you should seek comments from subs who have gone through this ambivalence and ask how they processed their experience.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 2:32:52 PM

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Good point, Sea.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 3:17:18 PM

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Sea makes a good point. As another very tiny sub i have had similiar feelings and wrote a email to tinydick12 offering friendship and hopfully some support. It turns out we live near eachother and i hope i can be of some support. The end result i hope will be that as he realises it is her wish for him to please her men he will learn to not only comply but embrace the opportunity as an extention of the ways he can please.
repectfully brian

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 6:08:27 PM

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I think there is more to this story. It's not Friday and yet I smell fish.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 7:55:37 PM

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perhaps fishing for all the domes in the world to tellhim howmuch he should comply?

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 8:20:16 PM

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I don't think this is a real question. It sounds like someone looking for humiliation online and something to jerk off to. I could be wrong, but I don't think so.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 8:22:38 PM

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Oh come on folks.

This is a "gimme wank material" thread.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 8:23:17 PM

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Hi.

What your Mistress wants is what she should get. She's the boss, your the slave. But if your uncomfortable being near a guy's penis because your not gay then you should tell her this. A good Mistress will understand and take into consideration your limits and together you can reach a compromise. (This doesn't apply to bisexual men who are looking for a woman's approval that it's ok for him to have sex with men.)

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 11:17:56 PM

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If you're smelling such a strong fish odor, then perhaps then you need to change your panties.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 11:20:47 PM

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Wrong. If I wanted to wank off, it wouldn't be in this, so don't project your obvious experiences at me or imaged fantasies I am presumed to be having.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/5/2008 11:39:59 PM

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I am sorry if I made this sound too one-dimensionally directed. I would welcome intelligent and insightful comments from anyone, irrespective of gender or orientation, be it dom/me or sub. This to me is honestly not a fantasy and I would have a very hard time to say the least to reconcile myself with this. I am 99% made-up in my mind where I stand on this and one things that really ticks me off is this bullshit belief that if you are a sub, this means that you *must* do whatever is *demanded* or *expected* of you, and if you do not, then, well, you must be part dom or not sincere or a "bottom" or whatever silly nominal made-up distinctions come along. I am not gay. I have nothing against anyone into this, and I can be a cuck. Just don't want to really be part of it. If she needs dick on the side, I am cool with this, but as for participating, that is just not my nature. I have had genuine feelings for her and we spoke about our mutual attraction beyond a D/s relationship. But now I see this as some sick twisted test of a potentially deep thing. There is more here to this, as she is coming from a relationship past that I feel is making her constantly testing guys faith in her and their devotion, and I feel this is just an extention of that. As for my nature, I am not submissive to anyone and would and have told a few dommes to go fuck off when they unquestionably prove to be the asswipe that they are. No magical title of "domme" or "mistress" endows you with automatic respect; you have to earn it too sweetheats. I don't need the stupid little multiple paddles next to my name to know who I am and what I want. So the genuinely short-sighted, stupid claims of me being a "slave" is just total bullshit. Being a sub (male or female for that matter) doesn't mean you have to submit to anything. Submission is an act of thought and devotion born of self-will. It is not slavery, a profound difference. The first, you have a choice; for the second, you have none and that is not submission.

As for why I want multiple perspectives, I would hope that was apparent. I want to know how people (from all sides) feel about this. I already more than alluded, I have my belief as to what is motivating this with her and honestly cannot see it as being anything else. If you have a kink in this kind of cuckoldry, then that is fine. But I find it hard to reconcile the claim that someone cares and respects you and would demand something that they know you are not into and evoke the "if you really love me" argument.

And least I sound angry to everyone, I am not. (I'm just so tired of this bullshit "oh Goddess/Mistress" shit and then these supposed dommes bitching about the feigned, depersonalized reponses they get. How can you possible take such nonsense seriously?) Both you and Harry and some others have said some things that serve as good food for thought and would welcome you views, especially as a sub.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/6/2008 12:04:29 AM

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Ok cupcake. Has your 'domme' seen this whiny, petulant side of you? It's not attractive...

Your post is exactly like the other million like it, if you had bothered to go poke around the forums instead of thinking you were special, you might have found them.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/6/2008 12:34:59 AM

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Ditto back at you kiddo... Thanks for sharing your 21 years of collective wisdom. :) But it's a bit hypocritical, when the peevish pot calls the kettle petulant, don't you think--if you do that is.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/6/2008 12:41:50 AM

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Yeah, that is what I was thinking: that I am special--but not anywhere near as special apparently as a genuine fucktard of an imbecile thinking a photo of her topless in a tub and torn jeans looking up apparently at a crack in the ceiling makes her a unique little snowflake when all she proves is a fake flake.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/6/2008 12:42:16 AM

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... nevermind.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/6/2008 12:46:57 AM

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Gosh, tiny. It's late here, and I'm online. Want to know why? I was in bed and a female CollarMe friend called me. We just finished talking. She's painting a piece of fetish art, and asked for any suggestions I had. We also talked about the best way to cook beets. I logged back in to look at the photo she sent me of the half-finished painting.

What are you doing at this time of night, besides vomiting slime on intelligent women? My guess is you are all alone, because no woman wants you in her life -- not because of the size of your dick, but because of your vile attitude.

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RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore - 7/6/2008 12:48:37 AM

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Lynnxz probably has more experience in BDSM related activities than you and I combined. I think you should check your attitude at the door, perhaps you will receive more replies you find useful that way. Otherwise, be prepared for the onslaught if anyone actually continues to find this topic worth posting to.

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