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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/12/2008 4:08:52 PM

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I recently found out that my collar was a prelude to Daddy and I's engagment which I didn't realize untill a few months after he purposed to me.I don't wear my collar as I wear my engagement ring. Which means more to me than my collar since I never have to take it off.

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/14/2008 10:45:12 AM

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I recently found out that my collar was a prelude to Daddy and I's engagment which I didn't realize untill a few months after he purposed to me.I don't wear my collar as I wear my engagement ring. Which means more to me than my collar since I never have to take it off.

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/14/2008 12:48:58 PM

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so, out of curiosity, what do you do with the answers that you get to your questions? there was one on here last year who started threads like this, then posted the comments on his own website without our knowledge or permission...just wonderin........

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/14/2008 5:13:54 PM

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so, out of curiosity, what do you do with the answers that you get to your questions? there was one on here last year who started threads like this, then posted the comments on his own website without our knowledge or permission...just wonderin........

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i would consider that a serious breach of trust and anyone caugt doing it should be expelled from CM.
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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/14/2008 5:31:23 PM

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When I was married, the ring felt like merely a symbol. Now that I'm not married, and now that I have a submissive girl, I feel no need to buy her a collar. It's almost a silly symbolic gesture as far as I'm concerned, but I respect all who believe it's more than that and incorporate it into their experiences.

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/14/2008 9:32:58 PM

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so, out of curiosity, what do you do with the answers that you get to your questions? there was one on here last year who started threads like this, then posted the comments on his own website without our knowledge or permission...just wonderin........

lilsub,

i would consider that a serious breach of trust and anyone caugt doing it should be expelled from CM.
What is said here stays here.

CP

gotta agree with you there & that person is no longer with us...at least in that incarnation...so you just ask the questions because you really want to know how we all think? i'm the daughter of a scientist so i can identify with that....

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/14/2008 9:41:20 PM

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to me, it represents a man who took a wrong turn at the jewelry department and ended up in the pet department; to which he rationalized his behavior by giving me some cock and bull reason why i should value it so much

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/15/2008 3:45:50 AM

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When I was married, the ring felt like merely a symbol. Now that I'm not married, and now that I have a submissive girl, I feel no need to buy her a collar. It's almost a silly symbolic gesture as far as I'm concerned, but I respect all who believe it's more than that and incorporate it into their experiences.

Normal,

I understand your point, but have you discussed the isue with her?

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/15/2008 3:49:00 AM

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so you just ask the questions because you really want to know how we all think? i'm the daughter of a scientist so i can identify with that....

lilsub,

By Jove, I think you've got it! but the main thrust is to get folks thinking about the subject rather then my own personal edification.

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/15/2008 3:51:29 AM

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to me, it represents a man who took a wrong turn at the jewelry department and ended up in the pet department; to which he rationalized his behavior by giving me some cock and bull reason why i should value it so much <http://www.collarchat.com/image/s8.gif>

liloneds,

I then assume you think little of the concept.

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/15/2008 4:36:37 AM

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While I wear the collar I accepted from Him.... I am His..... simple really :-)

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/15/2008 10:57:32 AM

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While I wear the collar I accepted from Him.... I am His..... simple really :-)

summers,

Well if it does not make you feel better, then I bet it makes him feel better.

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/15/2008 3:24:25 PM

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Collars have meant various things when I have worn them.

From a handy place to store a Dring for bondage, something to clip my hands to/hang me from a ceiling by/lead me about the place by/etc, to a sign of "this one is owned, don't touch".

The "collar" I wear now was given to me by a friend, and means only that we are friends, nothing more. It's... refreshing, to wear friendship around my neck.

Once, recently, I had a collar clipped round my neck by someone who was using it as more than a handy Dring, it brought up a lot of older issues I wasn't ready for, and need to work through before we try doing *that* again.

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/15/2008 5:30:58 PM

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The "collar" I wear now was given to me by a friend, and means only that we are friends, nothing more. It's... refreshing, to wear friendship around my neck.

Ivy,

You have presented a new one.......... a friendship collar!! How does that work?

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/17/2008 12:01:58 PM

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Hi
i serve my Master in rt for 2 years without a collar. He knows he has my heart, soul and mind. When i first got into Ds, i thought something was freakish about me to not be collared. Even when married for 29 years to my late hubby, i seldom wore my wedding band. Being collar is not for us and we do well that way. Glad to see i might not be the only one who feels this way.

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ocen,

True, a Collar is not for all, especiallwhen the cicle of close friends is small, the collar exists in the mind.

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/17/2008 4:03:09 PM

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i believe that the actual gist of a collar would vary from couple to couple. i know for us that when i receive my collar from my master that i am his, body, soul and mind.

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/18/2008 5:49:57 AM

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i believe that the actual gist of a collar would vary from couple to couple. i know for us that when i receive my collar from my master that i am his, body, soul and mind.

puppy,

Methinks that you have touched on the universal application of the concept!

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/18/2008 9:37:35 AM

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*eyeroll*

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/18/2008 9:45:43 AM

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to me, it represents a man who took a wrong turn at the jewelry department and ended up in the pet department; to which he rationalized his behavior by giving me some cock and bull reason why i should value it so much

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RE: The actual gist of a Collar? - 7/18/2008 11:56:09 AM

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The "collar" I wear now was given to me by a friend, and means only that we are friends, nothing more. It's... refreshing, to wear friendship around my neck.

Ivy,

You have presented a new one.......... a friendship collar!! How does that work?

CP

Well, I guess it's a sign of our friendship, and that we are friends. Nothing particularly fancy about it.

In terms of what he calls me, I'm "his sub" as opposed to "his girlfriend" or "his wife". But, we're friends, who have a purely platonic relationship, I just need a label, apparently :)

As a point of clarification, he didn't give the necklace (which is what it is) to me as a collar per se, it just sort of turned into one over time, and we're both comfy with that.

I've never spent a long time analysing it before.

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