MstrssPassion
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Joined: 1/1/2004 From: West Palm Beach, FL Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Belladonna82 Well i just wanted others opinions......i know where i stand but good gosh why are there so many wanna be all-knowing jerks out there? bella Because people give them this kind of power/ego boost to be these all-knowing holders of truth & knowledge. So many people are running around with an attempt to find out or preach one true ways,how do you live/do this & my ways can be traced back to the origins of all of this. **(complete speculation here) So many people jump into this now because they see kinky pics online & begin to dabble. Somewhere in the dabbling, these people may actually awaken this part of their being but by that time they have created such an over-inflated online persona they would never admit that they themselves are still figuring things out. I feel that because people jump in with search engines & learning from other people's experiences & theories they completely forget about their own instincts, desires & feelings.** There was a time not so long ago when these internet sites didn't exist, Amazon didn't have a library filled with kink related material & it was far more difficult to find others that felt these same yearnings we ourselves feel. quote:
SadistDave: I'm guessing that this is a result of people who can't separate fantasy from reality. Nor do they have the consideration to respect that we are not all the same & that there is no one true way to have a D/s relationship. The Dominants, Masters, Daddies, Tops, etc have the right to design & carry out any type of rules or behaviors that they would like to have there sub/slave surrender to... every sub, slave, bottom, etc has the right to surrender to these diverse ways dominants design. What they do not have the right to do is pass judgment on others & say you doing it all wrong because I/we don't do it that way. quote:
Padriag: Are submissives allowed opinions... take a look at this thread, you have them whether you're allowed or not... everyone does. Just try to make it an educated one people will want to listen to and I think you'll do alright. Smart words. If you are going to offer opinions, be informed & be careful about the manner in which you offer these opinions & to whom you share your opinions with. Some people will strongly defend their own & will attempt to crush yours by any means they can.
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MstrssPassion
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