UR2Badored -> RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it as soon as they’ve been in it….. (8/7/2008 7:10:14 AM)
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Fast reply~ On topic If a "s" type looks to lasso a collar for a fast commitment, and a "D" type offers a collar for a quick lay or to play "simon sez" in a pinch, there is a problem with both parties involved with the scenerio and not just one when it fails. It has little to do with who ends it at that point. Neither has done the work to have a relationship or at least, convey or communicate their fleeting needs of giving or receiving the collar. Do I think it (collaring) can happen quickly for some people? Yes, I do. From my observations and experience, I tend to think the majority, however, should proceed with caution and reflect on personal history and needs. I know, in my case, I tend to contemplate things more slowly than others, and this is a personality quirk with me and has caused problems. With self reflection, I understand that I need to work on this.
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