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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 2:30:41 PM

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LOLOL. nice..

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 2:34:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff
Main Entry:
mal·ice
Pronunciation:
\ˈma-ləs\
Function:
noun
Etymology:
Middle English, from Anglo-French, from Latin malitia, from malus bad
Date:
14th century
1 : desire to cause pain, injury, or distress to another 2 : intent to commit an unlawful act or cause harm without legal justification or excuse I hope this helps Jeff

Malice (noun) synonym MALICE, MALEVOLENCE, ILL WILL, SPITE, MALIGNITY, SPLEEN, GRUDGE means the desire to see another experience pain, injury, or distress. MALICE implies a deep-seated often unexplainable desire to see another suffer.

Love that word and its definition. Used to use it as a "scene" name. *shrugs*

To stay on topic. To the OP. Thanks for the warning. Im sure plenty of newcomers will sleep better at night after reading your words of warning and wisdom.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 2:34:24 PM

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Should i start selling tickets?

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 2:39:50 PM

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I hope there's jello and/or mud wrestling!

and goat swallowing!

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 2:43:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: CruelDesires

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff
Main Entry:
mal·ice
Pronunciation:
\ˈma-ləs\
Function:
noun
Etymology:
Middle English, from Anglo-French, from Latin malitia, from malus bad
Date:
14th century
1 : desire to cause pain, injury, or distress to another 2 : intent to commit an unlawful act or cause harm without legal justification or excuse I hope this helps Jeff

Malice (noun) synonym MALICE, MALEVOLENCE, ILL WILL, SPITE, MALIGNITY, SPLEEN, GRUDGE means the desire to see another experience pain, injury, or distress. MALICE implies a deep-seated often unexplainable desire to see another suffer.

Love that word and its definition. Used to use it as a "scene" name. *shrugs*

To stay on topic. To the OP. Thanks for the warning. Im sure plenty of newcomers will sleep better at night after reading your words of warning and wisdom.

C-D

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Malice can imply all sorts of things, depending on how you define its qualifiers. I'm not going to get into a discussion about semantics or etymology for that matter since it can go on and on. I was expressing my opinion on this matter like so many others have.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 2:50:17 PM

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 3:02:11 PM

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1) More evidence that the culture of the hetero scene enforces and encourages the infantilization of fem subs. Rather than actually holding them to the basic standards of sense and behavior expected from adults, we lower them to mindless infants.

2) How do we know his intentions are good? Plenty of wolves in sheeps clothing out there. How do we know he isn't laying bait, saying all the "right words" just to get someone to start trusting him?

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 3:05:05 PM

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Nah, I've watched it in action before. Not worth the effort.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 3:10:40 PM

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How do we know his intentions are good? Plenty of wolves in sheeps clothing out there. How do we know he isn't laying bait, saying all the "right words" just to get someone to start trusting him?

Bingo!! The op wasn't getting enough perving on his profile so it was time for a "Look at me..what a good guy am I" thread...

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 3:12:01 PM

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Many of the responses that this post has garnered seem downright malicious. I understand many of you have a problem with the tone of his post but for it to have gathered around 200 responses, most of which seem to be nonconstructive criticism, is just incredible.

Ha.....what you read here is mild compared to some replies towards asinine posters.
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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 3:13:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

1) More evidence that the culture of the hetero scene enforces and encourages the infantilization of fem subs. Rather than actually holding them to the basic standards of sense and behavior expected from adults, we lower them to mindless infants.

2) How do we know his intentions are good? Plenty of wolves in sheeps clothing out there. How do we know he isn't laying bait, saying all the "right words" just to get someone to start trusting him?

Bingo!!

If you know it can harm you and you still choose to go forward, then the possible outcomes are your own responsibilty. Which we all do everyday.

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ORIGINAL: subbysubsubsub
It's entirely possible that in the moment, new subs can get so emerged in a scene that they forget that they don't HAVE TO submit to anything they don't want to.

My personl view on that is perhaps they shouldn't be playing if they forget that they don't have to submit.

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 9/14/2008 3:14:20 PM >

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 3:15:18 PM

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Some of us just objected to him saying we shouldn't eat shit.

Whatever happened to "live and let kinky live"

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 3:19:12 PM

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Y'all enough already.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 5:14:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: subbysubsubsub

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Main Entry:
mal·ice
Pronunciation:
\ˈma-ləs\
Function:
noun
Etymology:
Middle English, from Anglo-French, from Latin malitia, from malus bad
Date:
14th century
1 : desire to cause pain, injury, or distress to another 2 : intent to commit an unlawful act or cause harm without legal justification or excuse I hope this helps Jeff

Thanks Jeffff. I hope this clears up any confusion, if any, some of you may have about the definition of the word. I was referring to the first definition-- that many of the posts seem written with the desire to cause distress to the OP based on how it was written.

you have got to be kidding.......

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 6:13:28 PM

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Enough y'all..... you've upset the goats.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pGioscgOKR4

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 6:19:13 PM

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If someone has GOT YOUR GOAT then it mean they have caused you to be annoyed. Perhaps that was the problem, someone got his goat!

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 6:39:21 PM

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those of you viewing me now from this thread...my photos wont be up till they approve the main one...as i changed it again...i change it up every now and then.

And that is one sexy smile!!!!

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 6:45:34 PM

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Ummmmmmmmmm did you MAKE the popcorn?

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 6:50:52 PM

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2) How do we know his intentions are good? Plenty of wolves in sheeps clothing out there. How do we know he isn't laying bait, saying all the "right words" just to get someone to start trusting him?

I could ask the other side of those questions. How do we know his intentions are bad? etc. It amazes me how people are so quick to attack when no one can be sure of his intentions. Like I said I understand that many aren't pleased with the tone of his post or his generalizations, but I'd like to give him the benefit of the doubt and think that his intentions were good.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 6:53:33 PM

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How do we know his intentions are good? Plenty of wolves in sheeps clothing out there. How do we know he isn't laying bait, saying all the "right words" just to get someone to start trusting him?

Bingo!! The op wasn't getting enough perving on his profile so it was time for a "Look at me..what a good guy am I" thread...

I hope this was sarcasm or one might find you guilty of the same sweeping assumptions and generalizations that the OP is accused of. Just a thought...

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