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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 6:56:08 PM

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you have got to be kidding.......

Care to clarify?

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 7:00:05 PM

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How do we know his intentions are bad?

What kind of person enters a room and immediately makes a declaration that he knows what is best for everyone? I don't think "good" or "bad" is the way to think about things here. There's no way to judge internal motivation based on his OP. However, "full of himself" and "shallow" are accurate descriptions, based on his lack of social grace and the uninformative content of his post. Moreover, "fragile ego" and "it's all about him" are also accurate, which you can gather from his followup post that the goal of most people was to ruin his evening, rather than to set the record straight for anyone new who might be reading.

Bad advice is worse for new people than no advice at all. Remember: it's not the things you don't know that hurt you, it's the things you know that aren't true.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 7:18:08 PM

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And do not forget. . . Badly worded. I cannot take something written that bad SERIOUSLY. Hence all of joking that ensued.

And I likely have a typo in this post.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 7:21:23 PM

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I hate it when the spell check lets me down.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 7:25:28 PM

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The OP had a bit more than a mere spell-check problem, IMO.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 7:25:42 PM

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it's not the things you don't know that hurt you, it's the things you know that aren't true.

Not to mention the things you don't know aren't true.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 7:29:40 PM

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What kind of person enters a room and immediately makes a declaration that he knows what is best for everyone? I don't think "good" or "bad" is the way to think about things here. There's no way to judge internal motivation based on his OP.

What's bolded is a point already made in my previous post that was in response to LuckyAlbatross. No one can be sure of his intentions, which is why I prefer to give him the benefit of the doubt and assume that he had good intentions.

Now as far as the content of his post goes: sure there are some sweeping generalizations and grammatical errors that many posters have practically crucified him for. It almost seemed like mob mentality set in and people just couldn't control themselves.

But rather than offer constructive criticism, many (if not most) made personal attacks and statements that would make them guilty of the very thing they were accusing the OP of doing. It seemed very hypocritical.

I find that criticism not riddled with ad homimens are far more useful because they don't put the accusee on the defensive but address the issue at point.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 7:48:55 PM

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hummmmmmmmm... tough tittie?

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 8:01:11 PM

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So this forum has a defined tenor...and it is not hard to see. You just have to read a bit and it becomes amazingly clear that fools are not suffered lightly.

It's a frickin' BDSM forum...this isn't Hello Kitty Island Adventure.

The OP should have read the forum first and understood this, and then posted a "Hello" and been a little deferential as he worked to fit himself into the community. It is simple and very common human dynamics understood and practiced by millions worldwide.

Sorry this got you upset, but he walked right into it.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 8:03:58 PM

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You set yourself up, here. *scrolls through the flames*

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 8:04:11 PM

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If someone has GOT YOUR GOAT then it mean they have caused you to be annoyed. Perhaps that was the problem, someone got his goat!

You know, I think you're absolutely right. Not only did someone get his goat, they ate it, too. No wonder the OP is feeling so self-righteous. I'd feel the same way. You toucha my goat, I breaka you face.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 8:14:13 PM

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I have been a member of this site for a few years now but have just recently found myself drawn to the message boards. Like yourself this is my first post/reply, and for some odd reason picked this one to break my cherry, go figure. Now I could be wrong, it would not be the first time, or maybe I just read the wrong book but......I thought the first concern of a Dom was, blow job. Can she give a good blow job? What do her lips look like? and yes, Putting things in her mouth and throat. Maybe you should recheck your book? First page, first paragraph.

hahahahah...
Sounds like you've been talking to my Daddy!!!

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 8:17:49 PM

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I think I am gonna get into the " high end" goat business.

After all what self respecting dominant would shove just any old goat down his slaves throat?

The Best slaves, deserve the Finest goats

Jeff
(Purveyor of Fine Goats for over 70 years)

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 8:19:32 PM

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If someone has GOT YOUR GOAT then it mean they have caused you to be annoyed. Perhaps that was the problem, someone got his goat!

You know, I think you're absolutely right. Not only did someone get his goat, they ate it, too. No wonder the OP is feeling so self-righteous. I'd feel the same way. You toucha my goat, I breaka you face.

And they ate his sheep.

It explains his angst.

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 8:21:10 PM

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I think I am gonna get into the " high end" goat business.

After all what self respecting dominant would shove just any old goat down his slaves throat?

The Best slaves, deserve the Finest goats

Jeff
(Purveyor of Fine Goats for over 70 years)

Yep, nothing like a goat with a high end. Makes a change from your average sheep. Or was that not what you meant?

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 8:22:28 PM

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It's a frickin' BDSM forum...this isn't Hello Kitty Island Adventure.

OMG I need to steal that, can I please?

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 8:24:10 PM

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That is exactly what I was thinking, the op wanted profile perves and I would guess he suceeded.

C'mon people whats the saying

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How do we know his intentions are good? Plenty of wolves in sheeps clothing out there. How do we know he isn't laying bait, saying all the "right words" just to get someone to start trusting him?

Bingo!! The op wasn't getting enough perving on his profile so it was time for a "Look at me..what a good guy am I" thread...

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 8:27:19 PM

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I think I am gonna get into the " high end" goat business.

After all what self respecting dominant would shove just any old goat down his slaves throat?

The Best slaves, deserve the Finest goats

Jeff
(Purveyor of Fine Goats for over 70 years)

Yep, nothing like a goat with a high end. Makes a change from your average sheep. Or was that not what you meant?

whatever the market will bear.........:)

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 8:29:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim
It's a frickin' BDSM forum...this isn't Hello Kitty Island Adventure.

OMG I need to steal that, can I please?

Yes

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RE: Subs Be Aware - 9/14/2008 8:33:12 PM

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Otter is now the official snark-free welcoming committee

I knew the poor guy was just gonna get beat to death...just a little damage control...

Le sigh - if only it worked. People love to beat up on others for things like this. He'll survive, though - all part of the learning process. I do admire your attempt, though.

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