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ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
Submissive:
He does not speak unless spoken to
He keeps his eyes lowered as a token of respect
He remains politely quiet unless conversation is initiated with him
He does not say anything to disagree
He waits for her to make the first move always and never even initiates casual flirtacious contact of any kind, ever.
He says very little and only answers questions, does not ask any of his own.

Most of these points don't really sound like someone who is presuming to be *your* submissive without due process- maybe they're just shy?

I still don't think it's right that you have to be assertive to be a good submissive. I bet the girl subbies don't have to put up with that nonsense

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ORIGINAL: Chi

In reference to your trip, to Florida, once again, both you and your Dom would be welcome.  

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ORIGINAL: Chi

Perhaps it is the swelling pulsating and throbbing in my loin when I look at them. Can that be why?

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ORIGINAL: Chi

"What else can I do," why did you have to ask the hard question first? Mommy always does that, like did you wash your hands, or did you put the seat back down? Always the stuff I forget to do. Sometimes women can be so damn picky, they even complain because they find water spots on wooden table I set my beer on. Once when I was in Texas the woman said she wanted to do it with the lights on, so I left the truck door open, then she complained about the mosquitoes. Women can be so damn picky.

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ORIGINAL: Chi

Twicehappy: Your ask, “Tell me, do you use the sugar shell to stir your coffee too?” Of course, why dirty the only spoon I have? But, if I am putting bourbon in the coffee I don’t use sugar, I just pour it into the gallon jug half and half, shake it once and thats enough to start my morning.  

”Important question now, just for Jewel; do you look good in a tool belt and nothing else?”
A tool belt, do I really have to wear a costume?

By nothing else, do you mean get nicked, I get nicked if I am getting in the pool but I always leave my hat and boots on.  A tool belt, that sounds like work may be involved; I am opposed to working, that’s why I am looking for a dominant female, someone to take care of that swelling throbbing and pulsating as in keeping my pipes drained and supply me with beer and gas money.

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ORIGINAL: Chi

while your knees are touching your ears and those moans and screams of pleasure burst from between your clinched teeth time after time after time. Oh waite, that would make Jewel, twice or more happy too.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

The problem comes in the continued relationship development, as chemistry is determined. If he shows no initiative and waits for the femdom to do it, he may find himself alone more than not.  She may pursue him eagerly and readily; or, she might be busy, distracted, or in the case of a forum like this one, slammed with approaches from other subs -- persistence, politely, is key.   The false perception, again, is that the woman will eagerly/readily/always take initiative out of the gate - and to not do so is a signal of lack of interest.  Moreso, the submissive is not interested or willing to make any moves - his preferred role is to just submit.  Again, before any protocol has been established.

From reading much of what you've posted in the past, I have to wonder if a certain amount of what you've been trying to convey isn't related to the fact that you tend to like to take the role of the huntress.  As such, it would seem quite logical to me that you'd prefer a man who would take the lead, exerting a degree of power and confidence up front in the initial stages of the relationship, all so you could take it away from him later as you began to take control when expressing your dominance!  

I'm curious if upon further reflection, you might conclude that for you what I've described might have some merit??

 under consideration by each other

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I have to wonder if a certain amount of what you've been trying to convey isn't related to the fact that you tend to like to take the role of the huntress.  As such, it would seem quite logical to me that you'd prefer a man who would take the lead, exerting a degree of power and confidence up front in the initial stages of the relationship, all so you could take it away from him later as you began to take control when expressing your dominance!