Aslanemperor
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Joined: 4/17/2005 Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Monkeyontuesday Re: "A submissive is respectful to her Dom. A submissive obeys her Dom, and if she has a difference in opinion, will speak this in a respectful way." If a man refuses to be respectful to me, he therefore forfeits his respect FROM me... Then I rip him to pieces and tell him not to let the door hit him on the way out. "A submissive keeps her body available for her Dom " I disagree with this as well. I'm a full time student and full time worker in a restaurant. I work weekends. That means I walk for 40 hours in three days, usually without a break. If I have, say, reading due my "Dom" doesn't think is important, I'm still not stopping what I'm doing to pleasure him. Nor, if after a 16 hour shift, he feels like "playing" and I need to be at work in 8 hours will I participate. I tend to be a bit jaded after putting myself in bad situations and getting the "short end of the stick", but with or without that person, I still have MY life and I need to take care of myself. I guess that makes me bratty and a fake submissive. Well, you are yet another who doesn't read the whole post. It's funny how you conveniently left out the next part to that "A sub keeps her body available" post. You know, the part where I said that a good Dom should know when is not a good time to request this. A good Dom knows that when a submissive is exhausted and getting ready to be even more exhausted, he's going to have to wait. In this case, he has duties actually. A Dom is meant to be an emotional and mental support. If you have class and need someone to study with, that's your Dom's job. He is supposed to teach and help you learn. If you have worked hard, it's your Dom's job to help you to relax and to put you in a position where you will be refreshed. If you are stressed and need someone to vent to, this is where your Dom's responsibility comes in. BDSM is a two sided coin. The sub serves her Dom, and the Dom supports and in a way serves the sub. It's not all about "I'm mister Big Dom, and you're gonna gimme gimme gimme, or I'll kick you out!". Now, on the other hand, If I just got home after working for 18 hours(I do this 3 times a week), and have to get up in the morning, and after a hard day of work, I want a blow job, my submissive isn't going to complain that She's overworked after cleaning the house. However, Some of these subs on this site think that a sub shouldn't have to clean house either. They expect room and board for a few nights of sex per week. ~Aslanemperor
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