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RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. - 12/31/2008 10:22:41 PM   
DominaSmartass


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quote:

ORIGINAL: shesub

LOL Yes I saw my mentor's cock ... and this is what mis lead me ... He had/has a beautiful cock .. It stood very nicely ... so I did not realize that he might have an issue with it ...

But I learned that a hard cock does not mean it can be used to fuck ... I met a man with very similar circumstances but he had no problem talking about it ... he had high blood pressure ... so did my mentor ... took meds for it ... so did my mentor ... and so on ... I learned a bit about what my mentor might have been experiencing.

DominaSmartass  .... You bring up a good point though.

shesub




A little confused, since my reply was in response to the OP, but glad you found it helpful :)

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RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. - 1/2/2009 1:57:06 PM   
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First off seems to Me you are rather quite used and genuine enslavement ( apart from mere submission) is only partly about sePerhaps you see yourself as only a sex slave?

Enjoy your wonder-filled day

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RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. - 1/3/2009 4:52:27 PM   
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I am sorry that you feel foolish you are not I am currently having the same problem but mine is medical
with all the meds I take I can't preform as I should my girl and I have discussed it  I have since gone back to the doctor
and received some help  before this  she ask me why I told her it was the meds.  This didn't make her feel any better
so after a lot of talking for over a year  we tried many things we have sinced parted ways we are still good friends but I just could not fill all her needs . I don't know if it was for the best or not, but she seems happier now with someone else and I will find what I am looking for with someone else

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RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. - 1/3/2009 5:26:39 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedandnotused

This was a mistake...to come on here and post this question...has lead my Master to think that what He has told me, is not enough.
Today, i'm writing the report about our last weekend together...and know what that mentally and emotionally can do to me...and i know better than to do anything like this.
My Master has never hung up the phone on me...until right now. i could hear the disapointment, and even hurt in His voice...as well as how upset He is.
i have been foolish...very foolish...


owned,

nuts to your appraisal that you have been foolish and if you dare you may offer my comment to him.

You have a frustration and he has chosen not to address it with you other than to say he does not need to fuck you. You left out, and i have not read further than this post, the point of whether he fucks your mouth. If so then if there is a problem it is all on him and not you. I could offer a couple different senarios as to why that may be but it would only be conjecture.

Does he pay any attention to your clit, by tongue or fingers? Does he use his fingers to stroke that tight little star? If not girl, you really have a decision to make and I offer you good fortune.

CP

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RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. - 1/4/2009 5:19:53 PM   
M4STER


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quote:

but when we are together...He orders me to beg Him to fuck me...over and over and over again..and in His communication with me, verbal and written, He talks about it as if He is , indeed, fucking me.

He is fucking with your mind, this is a powerplay. If you can't accept, then tell him that you can't accept and leave him.

quote:

This was a mistake...to come on here and post this question... ... My Master has never hung up the phone on me...until right now. i could hear the disapointment, and even hurt in His voice...as well as how upset He is.
i have been foolish...very foolish...

You are panicking. I re-evaluate my relationships on a regular basis. If I am not satisfied, I make changes. Life is too short to feel unsatisfied for years. If I don't like the service I get from a slave, she's not worth my time. If I were you, I would look elsewhere. He is upset because he feels a loss of power, you have taken this to a higher level by publicly discussing it here and he is upset because of that. You are playing him now. Either this works for you and he changes his mind, or you will be unsatisfied for another year and then do something about it. So be smart and leave him if you are not satisfied.

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RE: my Master doesn't fuck me. - 1/5/2009 7:06:04 PM   
PrincessEllie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

And I ask the same thing as always.
Have you asked him?  Have you told him?

Mr. Darcyandthedark is right. We cannot say that since your Dom is a Dom he should know what you are feeling all the time. He is human first, and you have to tell him how you feel. Open communication is essential in all relationships, vanilla or otherwise. You have to tell him and keep no secrets for D/s to go off without a hitch.


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