newflowers
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Though not all younger women want an older man, perhaps many do. I would say if you are having trouble attracting the type of woman you want, you should look to yourself first. While you may be manna from heaven, your profile reads like that of a whining child. A few tips - do not disparage others in your profile or in your journal - it is extremely unattractive and says NOTHING positive about you. The profile you have written says "i am a brat child used to getting my own way, why don't you come play with me? i know why, because those big bullies (read - "real" men of whom i am extremely jealous) have all the fun toys and all of the good playmates - are better men than i am. this makes you seem very insecure - not a good domly trait. -change your picture - you look very young to begin with - the photo looks like you are in your bedroom and your mommy is going to come in at any moment with milk and cookies. -in reality, even before getting to the whining part of the profile, you are 20 years old and have how much experience? dude, come on. Maybe you do, maybe you have taken classes and seminars and engaged with others, trained under the auspices of an expert, and what not - but where, you're not old enough to get into most places. if you are indeed experienced, then you should say exactly in what manners and ways and how many years. -i like older men, actually, i love older men and one of the best things about older men is their intelligence. what education do you have? what conversatin and philosophical points of view can you discuss? not what you've read in books, but that you know, that you have experienced? -it is one thing to proclaim dominance, another thing to be a dominant male. saying does not make it so. in what ways would a submissive be safe with you? the online thing - hmmm, if that's what you want - cool for you and there is probably someone who wants that too... but if you think cyber play with someone barely out of their teens gives you an edge on the beer belly grandpas, you are sorely mistaken. i believe that most people look at profiles and can only make a determination of interest based upon what you write and perhaps a photo if there is one. if you already know that you have stiff (pun intended viagra guys) competition, then you need to do an even better job of selling yourself. be direct, be truthful, be interesting. if you are the 20's dom with maturity and experience , make your profile (and your forum posts) reflect that. and i'm going to stop because i feel like a mom lecturing one of her children. newflowers
< Message edited by newflowers -- 1/18/2006 6:17:55 PM >
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