BoiJen
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer I've also asked the guys who read and comment here to talk about how they feel when they get told their "bitter" because of a comment or thread they've made or started. Now if it's just been this disproportionate number of posts recently on this forum that have lead me to a misconception of what's happening, I'd like to see the stuff that would point out what I'm missing. I'm not stating things are one way or another Sorry, Boijen, I thought I was clear in what I said about my own case, anyway. You said that I walked a fine line between 'being bitter and being cool' - but you didn't give any evidence. I told you then that it's important not to be prejudiced about you what you see as prejudices. That, to me, is what you're missing. To be more specific: I'm saying that you've got to demonstrate why you think people are being bitter with evidence - otherwise all you're doing is speaking with through your own prejudices. You did state your position on one side versus the other, there. For instance, could you now tell me, with evidence, how you come to believe that I "walk a fine line between 'being bitter and being cool' ? Beyond that I found it interesting that the OP didn't ask why male subs are bitter but instead started with the prejudiced decision/closed mind that it was entirely due to them being manipulative. Especially fascinating due to the responses received which overwhelmingly point to frustration. quote:
ORIGINAL: BoiJen S-types reading...if you have made the complaint before, what would a positive experience look like in regard to having this conversation ( and don't say..."them not expecting x, y, and z")? Are these Ladies really expecting too much from common motrals such as ourselves? I'm osrry if I wasn't specific enough in that original post to say "How does that make you feel?" Maybe my line of questioning wasn't direct enough for you...but CDN seemed to get the nature of the conversation...again I really value what he added to this cnversation in way of insight. Rather than criticising the thread and how things were worded...I'd really like to see other s-types respond in such an honest way about how they feel. That was kinda the point. Ladies talk about how they feel in these types of situations and s-types talk about how they feel in these types of situations...
< Message edited by BoiJen -- 12/1/2008 8:06:44 PM >
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