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Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:18:15 AM

talmar

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Do you enjoy slapping your subs or bottoms in the face as a form of humiliation & pain? Subs & bottoms do you enjoy this activity or is it a hard limit for you?

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:22:01 AM

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Speaking from the submissive side:

If it is something that makes my partner happy, then yes, I am happy :) And never have I had to ask 'please no bruises on the face'. But then, I like things to be a bit rough, and face slapping falls into that category for me.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:25:30 AM

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have not yet found the need to slap a sub in the face

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:28:04 AM

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having had this as a means of reaction from My mother growing up, I will never and have never slapped a subs face, I find it too demeaning--this for Me is a hard limit--

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:29:18 AM

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that is something i, personally, wouldn't stand for. i may not have any experience in real life activities...but being slapped in the face only tends to upset me greatly.

just my .02 worth

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:29:51 AM

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Yes, Ive had it done to me, only once. Even though it was in the middle of a hot scene, I can definately say I was shocked. And it takes a lot to shock me. Thats the whole thing about a slap in the face, at least non sexually. No one ever sees it comming. For me it feels like there is something very personal that goes into slapping. Its the perfect mix of insult and pain for me. And when I dont know when my cheeks are red from being slapped or from blushing, that really is a yummy feeling

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:32:11 AM

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I have only on occasion been lightly slapped on the face. It was not done for pain or humiliation, but more as an action to emphasize something. Yes, i did enjoy.

As far as a heavy slap goes, that would be a limit.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:33:44 AM

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if i were ever slapped during a scene...then the scene would be over...it would ruin any mood that might be brought on by a scene. IMHO

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:34:26 AM

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I've been slapped on the face (never to the point of bruising). It's always a surprise if/when it happens. I like the shock value of it.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:37:31 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: foxglove716

Yes, Ive had it done to me, only once. Even though it was in the middle of a hot scene, I can definately say I was shocked. And it takes a lot to shock me. Thats the whole thing about a slap in the face, at least non sexually. No one ever sees it comming. For me it feels like there is something very personal that goes into slapping. Its the perfect mix of insult and pain for me. And when I dont know when my cheeks are red from being slapped or from blushing, that really is a yummy feeling

though I am not actually replying to foxglove here lol, I wanted to use her reply as an example.

I have been with those who were extremely sadistic to the point that degradation and humilation are part of who they are. Walking in the door, slapping my face and telling me to strip and bend over...its extremly degrading and humilating...but at the same time, it is something that excites me. So, we both get what we want out of it

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:39:58 AM

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In the past I have really enjoy slapping a submissive partner in the face, particularly in the position of me seated on his chest looking down on him. Mix it in with breath play and that is an intoxicating combination for me as a top.

I have never been slapped in the face, but it is not a hard limit. It would depend on the context I imagine.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:41:45 AM

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This is one of my favourite activities but in my experience it's hard to find a Top who is (a) willing to do it and (b) enjoys it as much as I do. So mostly, I go without LOL

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:44:07 AM

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I am a person as a Top that as done face slapping... never to the point of bruising... and more for shock value than a repetative action in a scene. I get off on the shock of it most of all... and do enjoy it. But, it is not something that is common in my play.... don't want my girls to become desensitized to it's effects *G*.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:47:10 AM

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I have never been slapped in the face so I honestly cannot comment on how I would react to it- if I would like it or not - whether it would be a hard limit or not. Sitting here right now thinking it wouldn't be some thing I would like - but then again there has been so many!! things I never thought I would like and found out I do. Who knows maybe some day it will happen then I'll know for sure.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:48:18 AM

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what happens when the sub doesn't like it and feels emotionally hurt or upset over this action...do You coninue, do You stop?

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:50:45 AM

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quote:

Do you enjoy slapping your subs or bottoms in the face as a form of humiliation & pain?

Talmar

I don't find that I actually enjoy it as much as I find it effective for one particlularly difficult sub. If I didn't have to do it to her, I would not, but some subs are more difficult than others.

I still have much to learn so if someone has ideas, please pass them on to me.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:50:46 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelGA

what happens when the sub doesn't like it and feels emotionally hurt or upset over this action...do You coninue, do You stop?

The first time it happened with me, I was very upset...could not understand why he did it...no he did not stop...but it was discussed after...and it was something that I knew was within him before hand...so I knew that the possibility was there of it happening...but never have I ever felt unloved, or uncared for WHILE it was happening.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:54:01 AM

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Face slapping is very intense for me and gets me to a certain headspace very quickly. As long as the dom can handle the intensity and the headspace, it works wonderfully.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:58:51 AM

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growing up as an abused child, that is a very hard limit for me. many times when i was growing up i either went to school with bruises or a black eye or was kept home "sick" because the bruises were too prominant to the point i couldn't see out of one or both eyes....so, you can see my main concern over this issue.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 9:00:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

I am a person as a Top that as done face slapping... never to the point of bruising... and more for shock value than a repetative action in a scene. I get off on the shock of it most of all... and do enjoy it. But, it is not something that is common in my play.... don't want my girls to become desensitized to it's effects *G*.

Hmmmm... now I know why it is rarely done *g*

The few times that he has slapped me in the face, it has only excited me more. As IrishMist said, I like things rough.

Before actually having it done the first time, I thought I would find it extremely humiliating and degrading and it was a definite "NO" on my list of things to try. Then when he did it, there was shock and then the intensity level of my arousal increased dramatically. My favorite time was when he grabbed me by the hair with one hand, slapped my face with the other and growled "Scream bitch." I screamed *g*

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