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Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:00:36 PM

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Some doms like to humiliate their subbie/slaves, and make them cry. I had an experienced with a dom where as when he started to try to put me down and I rebelled and turned the tables on the dom, he started to cry. So tell me subbies/slaves how would you handle this matter. Could you still respect your dom? How would this reflect on your relationship?

RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:02:05 PM

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it would tell me he is human.

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:03:25 PM

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It would also tell me that you might not be suited to a d/s relationship!

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:08:49 PM

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just because i turned the tables around on the dom, why would this not make me suitable for an d/s relationship??? because i made a dom cry?!?!?!

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:11:11 PM

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This is not something we would ever do to each other we love and respect each other to much to play a mind game like that.

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:15:22 PM

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i would never do that to Daddy - i have too much love and respect to ever humiliate Him

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:15:25 PM

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just because i turned the tables around on the dom, why would this not make me suitable for an d/s relationship??? because i made a dom cry?!?!?!

because of a verbal attack.

I am not saying i do not mouth off to Hubby (and he certainly would never dispute that),
but an attack brutal enough to make him cry and (as the title of this thread states) humiliates him shows a lack of respect to your Dom. If you feel HE showed a lack ofr respect to you as well, then it is time to reevaluate the relationship

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:17:29 PM

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If this wasn't negotiated then....

You broke your word
You betrayed someone's trust
You abused someone until they cried
I certainly wouldn't play with someone that is untrustworthy and wants to do me serious harm

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:20:29 PM

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On the other hand, there have been some real winners that think just because i have a collar they can verbally or physically abuse me. NOW those sorry pieces of meat got to see what mental domination is really all about. Yes I have made wanna-doms cry, but only when they started it....

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:20:48 PM

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In this regard, I wouldn't try to rebel or turn the tables on a dom because it's not something that I'm cut out for or have a desire to do. But if I saw a man I was involved with in tears over something of that nature, yes it would turn me off.

In your case, could it be that he enjoyed it, encouraged it, wanted it?? Maybe he likes both roles. Nothing wrong with that, just not my thing.

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:23:54 PM

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quote:

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Could you still respect your dom? How would this reflect on your relationship?

I would respect myself a hell of a lot less. If I was not interested in what he was doing I would like to think that I would have the maturity to tell him so rather than resort to what you did. How would it reflect on the relationship? that I wasnt ready for one and had some growing up to do.

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:29:36 PM

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I cannot even wrap my brain around this one. First, because He doesn't humilate me in ways that would bring me to tears. And I simply cannot fathom saying hurtful things to Him that could bring Him to tears. Just the thought of that hurts my heart.

To the OP, unless this was agreed upon in your relationship dynamic, why would you want to turn the tables on him in such a way?

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:35:47 PM

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No, it was never a negotiation at all to allow humiliation in our play or even in our lives. He went there because he was big daddy dom and I brought him back to reality. I will not allow or give a dom permission to humiliate me. To me when a man tries to humiliate a subbie/slaves and he is a males or a female it makes me wounder how was their relationship with their father (for the female mistress and mother for the doms). Is there some type of mental pay back they are doing when they want to humiliate a subbie/slave. Does anyone else feel this way?

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:42:15 PM

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The one thing I need to point out is that we where not in a play session. Some doms/mistresses just like to humiliate their subbies or slaves. It is the power for them, and I took away his power and he could only deal with it by breaking down and crying.

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 12:58:57 PM

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quote:

No, it was never a negotiation at all to allow humiliation in our play or even in our lives. He went there because he was big daddy dom and I brought him back to reality. I will not allow or give a dom permission to humiliate me. To me when a man tries to humiliate a subbie/slaves and he is a males or a female it makes me wounder how was their relationship with their father (for the female mistress and mother for the doms). Is there some type of mental pay back they are doing when they want to humiliate a subbie/slave. Does anyone else feel this way?

If I thought that was their motivation I wouldn't play with them.

So are you saying they were engaging in a non consensual kink with you and you retaliated in kind?

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:01:07 PM

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Yes, and some submissives feel the power exchange by being humiliated. It's a power exchange. Exchange of power.

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:01:37 PM

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humiliation is a two-way street...some folks you just can't humiliate, no matter how hard you try! this slave imagines Master to be one of those folks.

the thought of this slave attempting to "turn the tables" and humiliate Him, in or out of a scene, or how this slave would deal with the repurcussions of being sucessfull at such a thing is rather nauseating and hard to imagine.

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:03:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight

The one thing I need to point out is that we where not in a play session. Some doms/mistresses just like to humiliate their subbies or slaves. It is the power for them, and I took away his power and he could only deal with it by breaking down and crying.

And for some people its not a hat that is put on and taken off during sessions. The thing is if this was simply a being rude thing and you chose the eye for an eye method it sounds like you are both lacking respect for each other so why are you in the relationship?

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:04:26 PM

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We were not even in play. I did not make him happy about something and he went off, so the subbie in me exist to the left and the bitch in me came out on the right.Some doms feel that they can do what they want to do because they are big daddy doms.

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:04:55 PM

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This thread makes me sad. I'm going to read Lady Pact's thread again about the love she and her husband have.

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(A true Dom would never cry for any reason, especially not if a woman he cared about showed she didn't care about him.)

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