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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 2:51:13 PM

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OP, you've never had your clit stimulated to the point where it was very uncomfortable, or even painful? Wow. Lucky you.

I love sucking cock. I wouldn't even consider depriving my slave of it, because that would mean depriving me of it.

Get yourself a dom like me. Don't settle for less.

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 2:53:02 PM

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It seems that the dominant partner is always asking (or demanding) oral sex from their partner. But never offering it. So is it safe that oral for the sub is pretty much out of the question unless it's specifically asked for? I hope the answer is no...because I really want to try getting oral one day. And without having to ask. But I've never heard of an instance where the Dom says "Lay down and open you legs, slut. I'm going to give your p*ssy such a licking."

OMG, you sooooo do not know my Master. He says basically just that on a really regular basis. He insists upon doing as He pleases and He loves going down on me. He informed me quite bluntly that it's not a "submissive" thing to do if He, as the dominant, does it. He doesn't just "offer" it, He does it anytime He damn well pleases and I just have to suffer and take it

. And did I mention that He's the absolute best at it ever?

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 2:55:01 PM

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He does it anytime He damn well pleases and I just have to suffer and take it.

You poor, poor girl.

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 2:56:56 PM

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He does it anytime He damn well pleases and I just have to suffer and take it.

You poor, poor girl.

Yeah, no kidding. There are those who say that you aren't a "weal, twue slave" without suffering. Well, this is me doing my part to suffer

. I'll make it through somehow, I suppose............luci

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:01:32 PM

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At first glance, my answer seems a bit sarcastic. However, just this one time, I was serious. It happened to me. Once.

Cali

He wasn't Hispanic, was he? I mean....they say that...

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:04:47 PM

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"OP, you've never had your clit stimulated to the point where it was very uncomfortable, or even painful? Wow. Lucky you."

I'm not there yet. Don't have the experience...yet :D. Just need my Daddy Dom! Yea...I want a Daddy...mmmm.

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:08:57 PM

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when it hurts to have your clit stimulated, it's horrible, at least I think so. I don't like feeling that kindof pain that's like a kick right in the twat

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:13:56 PM

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Do men go through it, too? I mean, can you give a man too much head?

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:17:22 PM

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Do men go through it, too? I mean, can you give a man too much head?

Immediately after orgasm sensativity goes way up... personally I highly appreciate additional attention at this point, but I'm sure there are men out there who may feel this to be 'overstimulation'. In the meantime, I'm willing to volunteer for this study...

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:19:49 PM

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Yeah that's the problem women have in general, when recieving oral. Most guys think they're so good at it, when they're so not. It can be easy for them to hurt you.

One reason why I was glad my Dom never gave me oral, when I was on the other side of the slash.

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:21:20 PM

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Do men go through it, too? I mean, can you give a man too much head?

He never call it "too much" but he has been chaffed and raw afterwards.

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:23:49 PM

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Man...I know what Imma try first once I find my Dom (gush)

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:26:27 PM

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Some men like doing it, others don't. If you want a partner who does this, then be sure to ask about it.
Me, I'd just as soon he didn't because eventually he can't resist biting. And I hate having my clit bit.

I have found that one good clip upside the head with a frypan usually discourages that whole biting thing ;)

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:31:35 PM

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ah you're a funny one! *hugs*

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:33:04 PM

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can I borrow your frying pan?

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:34:41 PM

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You'll try what he wants you to, Cutie. Unless you want to be the dom. That's fine too, just as long as you are upfront about it. Maybe you want to switch?

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:36:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: MsFlutter

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Some men like doing it, others don't. If you want a partner who does this, then be sure to ask about it.
Me, I'd just as soon he didn't because eventually he can't resist biting. And I hate having my clit bit.

I have found that one good clip upside the head with a frypan usually discourages that whole biting thing ;)

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And to rednicky , no oral is not a sign of submission... Doing what he wants/asks is. M

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:38:40 PM

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I guess I'll ask him if I could try it then. I'll have a nice Dom so he'll say yes.

(Pfft) imagine a Dom saying "You want to suck my dick until I can't come anymore? No! You don't get to suck my dick, EVER! And that's the last I'll hear of it!"

HA!

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 3:39:18 PM

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Oral (giving or receiving) is both a dominant activity and a submissive activity... If it is my authority that determines whether I give or receive oral, than it is a dominant act... if, in some permutation of the world, I were to accept someone else's command that I give or receive oral, then it would be a submissive act.

There is -no- action/verb that is inherently submissive or dominant except for "to submit" and "to dominate" and their ilk. Everything else is determined by who obtains and enforces the authority during the activity.

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/18/2009 4:08:31 PM

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My Master is very oral and enjoys using me that way very much and often, lucky slut that I am.

This is something I'd think you need to chat about before committing to someone. I have had a few doms tell me they don't do oral because they view it as submissive. I see no acts as inherently submissive or dominant, so this tended to highlight our differences in viewpoints.

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