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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/19/2009 11:18:46 AM

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I think that it is the dynamic between the people far more than the act that dictates if a thing is a D or s act. This reminds me of the debate about 'can someone be a Dominant and like to receive anal'. Uh, of course. Same thing here.
Not to mention, I think that a healthful level of fluidity about a person's sexuality and their solidity of self-preception is really an appealing thing.
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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/19/2009 11:30:26 AM

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I'e never viewed a Dom giving oral sex as a submissive act. Using my body sexually is just one of the ways He has control.

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/19/2009 11:32:45 AM

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I think it could have differnt meanings depending on how he grips the back of your head

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/19/2009 3:55:03 PM

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I think it's a magical instance of Dom control over the sub. I love to have my slave lose his head over a good session of oral. I think it's just a prejudice that the D part doesn't perform oral sex on the s part, yet I accept that it's a matter of personal taste (I like it

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/19/2009 4:31:44 PM

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Oh for God's sake. Any Dom who absolutely refuses to do oral on their slave just because it seems "unDomly" to them is too insecure in their leadership, and needs to return to Dom School, imo.

Oral is not a submissive act, since it is the Dom who decides when to do it, regardless of how often His/Her slave wishes to receive it.

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RE: Is oral a sign of submission? - 1/20/2009 6:21:06 AM

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Look at it this way:

* When she does me, it's a submissive act.

* When I do her, it's a dominant act.

Does that answer the question?

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