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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 4:44:33 AM   
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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 5:20:01 AM   
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How I choose to address Leon is My business
How I choose to speak is also My business
How I live is My reality NOT Leons hence His
words belittling MY WORLD will be ATTACKED.
How and what I do with those in My Home are
My facts not His and His opinion of My Real Life
is the slant not My rebuttle to His biased crap.
The links I provide anyone whom desires to learn
more about GOR both the right and left side can
follow any link that I provided. I do not hold back
that which is differing from My views or ways simply
because I have determinded that it is all trash as Leon
here has. I give value to anyone whom desires to have
an opinion or way of GOR that is theres and has a link
to it that provides any to learn all the sides of GOR and
not just Leons side of it. If You left it up to Leon to learn
of GOR You would not even have a need to read a GOR
BOOK by His words. Most of the links are not My
links I posted however We all here were asked for
information on what GOR We have and know and
that is what I provide, not simply My Own opinion of
GOR but everyones Opinion of it so that those seeking
can make Their Own choice of what part of GOR is
best for them. I dont make that determination for them
as Leon does.The links are however All a part of sumones GOR.
OH yea Leon I Own every book of GOR in every
publication and in every language and FYI even
the books words are not the same with in so what
a person quotes all depends on what publication
they have and what year it was published and what
language it came from. But I would think You wouldent
know such facts or would better understand why sum
Quotes are not worded preciesly as others in other books.
Even the Bible conters whats written in it based off of when
and where and what type of publication it was made in. DUH.
The problem with Leon IS it is either HIS GOR or
No GOR. This is not true and it is interesting that you would make
a statement only towards Me when there are more then just Me whom
are dissing others on this board. I give what I get, I am not one
whom starts any thing but I will damn sure try My damnest to finish
it I wonder why is it that the sub cannot see both sides of the belittlment
and only the side comming from the Woman... hmmmmm food for thought.
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1.Dread,i am truly sorry that You have nothing better to do.2. It truly makes You appear trifling by utilizing all Your energy trying to bait another person.3. Disagreement is fine but Your total lack of respect of any opinion that differs from Your own is appalling. 4.Someone can appear strong and knowledgeable without demeaning another.5. Antagonism shows a weakness.

1.sub you dont know Me.
1.you have no clue what I do in My day so dont temp to act like you do and make an ASSumed remark of such.
2.I use no energy to be on these boards and make My opinion nor do I bait people. Thats Leons specialty.
3.I think your missing just who it is that is not respecting any others Living.
3.I will not respect Anyone whom tempts to diss towards My personal life and attack it as Leon does, sorry.
4.I do not disrespect differing opinions only those opinions that bash Me personally. you dont like My words sub theres a lil red hand at the left corner of your page you can click and waaaa laaaaa no more seeing My words.
5.Learn the differance between an Antagonist and Humiliationist.
5. I have many weaknesses, I am after all Human but MY weaknesses does NOT take away from that which I Dominate. I dont have issues with My Domination here on the boards sub and I am not addressing Leon as a Dominant but as a Gorean standing up for Her Home He tempts to trash. Big Differance




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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 5:33:47 AM   
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unless you are speaking of the bible (or other religions holy books), no work of fiction was meant to direct your life.
IF the world of GOR was a real place then you could justifiably say this is the way it is supposed to be. Since it is not, it is a work of fiction, the product of a mans imagination.


The Gor books to the Gorean are the equal of the Bible to a Christian or any other Book that directs people to a way of chooseing to live.
Gor was written as a place that does not exsist
Heaven and Hell was written as a place that does not exsist
Gor was written by a Man
the Bible was written by a Man
Gor was based off of real life Hystory for much of its base
the Bible was based off of real life Hystory for much of its base
Gor holds many things not of earth
The Bible holds many things not of earth

I could go on and on with just these few facts but do I really need to?
For every person whom chooses to live a life based off of a BOOK
ANY BOOK that is their choice and it can and is done in many cultures
many societies and follows many MANY different BOOKS and words
written by Man. JMO To tempt to say My Book is of any less value then yours is biased.
To say that I cannot choose to live My life based off of what I have Lived
or read is complete and total hogwash.. Thats like saying that I am not
a real person here and now speaking and writing.

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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 5:56:28 AM   
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I'm sorry Dread, but your ways are mostly a fiction, not fact.


Again tempting to state that My real life is fiction is a insult Leon.
Mods I feel His words are going against the rules here and have crossed the line.

stateing that My sending folks to read about GOR in many different places only shows
My unbiased opinion of others GOR and I will continue to thow out as many links as
needed to let others see all the different sides of GOR and make their Own opinion of such
not based off of My Life or My Gor or words nor based off of Yours.
I never said that what links I provide are My Facts of GOR but GOR as others see it.
You are the one whom used the word FACT OF GOR they are not My words.

Maybe I should be feeling sorry for the ONE person whom contacted You about GOR as well Leon because They will never know any diversity with in it if they are to follow Your narrow minded one way or the highway train of thought towards GOR.

One more item of interest for the sub
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no work of fiction was meant to direct your life.

The Bible is a work of fiction that directs others lifes. JMO

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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 6:30:57 AM   
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The Gor books to the Gorean are the equal of the Bible to a Christian or any other Book that directs people to a way of chooseing to live.
Gor was written as a place that does not exsist
Heaven and Hell was written as a place that does not exsist
Gor was written by a Man
the Bible was written by a Man



Gor was written as a book by Man for others to enjoy, not to direct followers, nor not as a basis for living.
(This does not make this way of life any less meaningful).

The Bible was a book whose purpose was to guide others who wished to follow it.
(This does not make this way of life any less meaningful).

The Gor Books were written by a Man who has never said it was written by anyone other than Himself. He never claimed it to be a way of life.

The Bible was written by Men who claim that they are writing with direction from God, for those who wished to follow it.

The Bible may be in Your mind, a fictional book. Gor books may also be fiction in Your eyes, but you may choose to live the essence of it. But to claim they are written in the same way would be to deny the History & beauty of both (IMO).

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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 6:33:20 AM   
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I think you missed my point entirely Dread. I don't care if someone holds some opinion about how they live. You can have a house full of slaves in every color under the rainbow if you want to. I really could care less. What I do care about is when someone writes something like what I posted as if those are the "facts of Gor" as you call them, and attributes it to the books no less. Over the years, I have seen the effect of this. Someone new is going to read that web site that you sent them to and then act as if those are the "facts" and swear that they came straight out of the books. Why would they do that? Because the web site said it came out of the books, as I just showed you.

If you really view the Gor books as your bible, you should care a hell of a lot more about that than I do. I suspect that if I wrote something like:

Verily I say unto thee, to stand under the sun in a fine warm summer breeze with a cold brew in your hand and a naked wench at your feet is to know life at its best. - John 7:23

A christian is going to go "what?!?!", run quickly to their King James version to make sure that they aren't going insane, and then get really pissed off that I'm making up the bible as I go. The above might be how I'd like things to go, but to raise it to the level of "Gospel" by saying that it comes straight out of the "good book" is a little much, don't you think?

I have no doubt at all that your house resembles the house of Cernus in Ar, with yoiung virgin whilte silk girls running around, and other slaves in color coded silks that allow the slavers who are training them to identify their level of training on sight, if you say so.

There really is a lot to recommend this life once you get past the fantasy and start living, Dread. I wish you well.

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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 7:08:29 AM   
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Your assessment of me is not far off; I would not go so far as to call me misguided. I am reading from the source, and simply working to figure out the fantasy from the real life what I can get to work and what I can’t. Finding real life examples is not that easy as you have pointed out it’s a fairly closed group, than don’t like outsiders passing judgment on their way of life.


Then I agree with you. You aren't misguided. You are trying to do something that is really hard, and it is a process.

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For the most part I will be talking about online role-play, and I would like your input as when online role-play can work real life, or why it can't help with real life. I think it’s highly important that we don't confuse online with real life, and also find out what might work for both.


There is a time when I woudl have told you that online role-play could be useful as an introduction. I'm not so sure anymore. If the people involved in the role-play are "playing themselves" meaning that they are trying, as honestly as they can, to react to the interaction as they believe they would if they were face to face, it can be a way to explore your own motivations and drives and figure out if a radically different way or life is "for you". I have rarely seen it happen that way, though. The slaves quickly learn what they have to type to be accepted, and so do the free people. After that, nothing useful goes on. In most places online the interaction tends to be all about the slaves, as well. Way too little emphasis is placed on men who are, as you are, trying to sort the shit from the shineola, talking to each other.

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I find this statement puzzling coming from you, as your not training her to please just anyone, but yourself, and I would hope you would know what to do with your own slave. And if you were to let your friends use her, would it not encourage them to learn what to do with her or a girl train to respond like her.


I certainly know what to do with one. I think that they are just about the finest thing before or since sliced bread. Other men who think like I do would certainly know what to do with the slave too. There just aren't that many of us. The particular girl that I spoke of didn't have the option of staying with me permanently. She has responsibilities several time zones away from me. I guess I would amend my statement to say that I wouldn't train such a girl again unless I was damn sure that she could stay with me, or at least stay around men like me.

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Let me go back to your history, I do not think you faced 40foot seas your first time out now did you. You worked your way up to it, testing your self each time, and each time you learned a little bit more about yourself, found you could push your limits a bit farther each time. was it that much different learning your life style?


Not only similar, GreyDragon, exactly the same. Don't be too concerned when someone like me reads something that you wrote and gives you shit about it. Do what you are doing right now; read it for what it's worth, push back when you think you're justified, and learn from the exchange. We're a rough bunch. Way too rough for polite company usually. Respect among us is hard won sometimes, but worth having once you get it.

I have a 40 foot sloop. It's an ocean racer that I converted for cruising myself. I'll try to post a pic soon.

I wish you well, GreyDragon.

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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 7:57:25 AM   
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We're a rough bunch. Way too rough for polite company usually

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sumthing We agree on

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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 8:24:42 AM   
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If you really view the Gor
books as your bible, you should
care a hell of a lot more about
that than I do.
What I
choose to care about in GOR is
for ME to determin not You nor
would I change how I have lived
damn near My Whole life because
of what You think I should do.
Did I say I viewed the Gor books
as a Bible? No
I used the Bible as only a Sample to
align what I was trying to show with their
Associations to being a book that sumone ,
anyone would follow to live a Lifestyle.
and using the Bible to show that with in any
book printed the words in it can vary depending
on where it came from. What sumone chooses to
take from the book or not should be their choice.
If You never give them the places to see the differing
views or information they cannot very well make a choice.
You tempt to take this right for them away by saying
that You know best. I dont agree with this mindset and
think everyone as adults should have the choice to
choose whats right or wrong for them. Any person
whom has a desire to read the books will Leon. Any
one whom chooses to simply follow what a site says
or chooses to put down their opinions to such is also
their choice online. How an adult chooses to roleplay
any life style they so choose or any lifestyle that they
desire to learn should have the option to choose what
they want to play and learn and dabble in. Many things
that you showed could be used and live and taken to
real life if and when anyone chose to. Who are You
to say if they did such is right or wrong? As I had asked
befor whom died and made You supreme being over what
each one of Us chooses to do and live and follow?
What I Live and What I beleive to Me
in GOR is just that, whats right for Me however I
think that everyones views of Their GOR is just that
as well and would not hold back sumthing from others
simply because I do not agree with whats with in Their
words. Thats for the other adult to choose not ME.
Yes many choose to learn, roleplay, and live GOR the
way I do, GREAT! Im sure there are others that do so
of Your GOR as well , GREAT! but if You think You will
be left standing if You told One person in real life that
what They live is a fantasy or not real when it is They
whom live it You are the one whom lives in a fantasy.
I would need a much greater argument then what You
have presented to stop giving general information of
all the ways that GOR is seen and protrayed , learned
and lived and read and experianced and enjoyed nor would
I for a moment judge what others have put together
as any thing less then My Gor simply because I do not
agree with it.Not even Your Gor. You do that in the mindset
that only Your Gor is correct and right and justified and the
rest of Our GOR is fake or less then and thats not true only
Your opinion that You tempt to push off as the only Right thing.
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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 8:25:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreyDragon1952
Its your Masters place to say how things work in His camp not his slave. don't even start that line, it won't fly. and if your Master can not be bothered to do it then its not that important to him hence you have nothing to say about it


It's not your place to say what another should or shouldn't do, based on how they ID themselves in a relationship that has a recognised power dynamic.

Everyone on this board is equal to everyone else. I am neither inferior or superior to anyone, and unless you're in a relationship with that particular person, it is not your place to judge how whether they should or should not reply.

Spending too much time in chat rooms can seriously skew a persons view of reality.

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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 8:41:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
The Gor books to the Gorean are the equal of the Bible to a Christian or any other Book that directs people to a way of chooseing to live.
Gor was written as a place that does not exsist
Heaven and Hell was written as a place that does not exsist
Gor was written by a Man
the Bible was written by a Man


First off, I'm not a religious man and am not trying to get into a religious debate here...but Dread...yer killin' me.

Gor was written as fiction...period. It spawned completely from the imagination of its author and was not written to be a rule and guide to live ones life. Your comment seems to indicate that if I chose to live my life based on "Horton Heard a Who" and declare myself to be a "HortonWhoean" doesn't make it a rule and guide to faith. Granted, I can be a HortonWhoean if I choose to be...I can bring others into the flock...I can create an entire structure where people are initiated and given titles within the grand world of Hortonwhoeanism. I have that right...just as you have the right to live your life however you see fit. But it doesn't mean that "Horton Heard a Who" was written to be used as a guide for life.
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Gor was based off of real life Hystory for much of its base
the Bible was based off of real life Hystory for much of its base


you are absolutely correct. The bible has several historical references. You can do some research and find that many of the people, the geography, the way of life are historically accurate. You can do research and find this to be true.

Hmm... Gor is historically accurate? Give me some references to research... so I can check facts.

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I could go on and on with just these few facts but do I really need to?


I think to find some actual facts ..facts that can be researched...facts that can be found in the non fiction section of a library that actually support your arguement would be very useful...yes. I believe that you need to, simply in order to support your argument.

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For every person whom chooses to live a life based off of a BOOK
ANY BOOK that is their choice and it can and is done in many cultures
many societies and follows many MANY different BOOKS and words
written by Man.


I couldnt agree more. Do what works for you and yours.

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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 8:53:37 AM   
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Dread: The Gor books to the Gorean are the equal of the Bible to a Christian or any other Book that directs people to a way of chooseing to live.

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Dread: Did I say I viewed the Gor books as a Bible? No


Well yes, Dread, actually you did, unless of course you don't count yourself as a Gorean.

I might as well talk to a rock. If you think that someone can post on a web site that some "fact of Gor" can be found on this page or that page of the books when that is just plain not so, and it's justified in your mind because it's "their opinion", you are indeed living on some planet that is foreign to me. If it really is "their opinion" that what they put on that website can be found on the pages of the books that they sited, then they are having delusions, and should stop making web sites and seek help. It's just plain mis-information Dread. It's a lie. A fabrication. They probably mean no harm, it's just that they've never read one of the books, and they copied what they have there from some other web site, who copied it from soneone else, and so on.

I will waste no more time on you Dread. If you post something that is patently false, I'll set the record straight. Beyond that, I just don't see any reason to engage with you further.

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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 8:53:56 AM   
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jill....


GIRL YOU ROCK!!!!

Point is it is none of ANYONE's business what works in someone else's life.

Keep it UP!!!


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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 8:56:44 AM   
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Angel,

This girl's hat (and with Master's permission.. lol ... her silks) are off to you and your husband

THANK YOU FOR THE VOICE OF REASON!!!!!!!!!!!



With RESPECT,
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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 9:06:02 AM   
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GreY

When did you become in charge of all slaves and Masters?

Who appointed you to tell this girl anything?

It might help if you looked in the mirror and found out that
you are only in charge of those foolish enough to let you be.

This girl takes orders from one ......... checking the house,
the bills, the contracts, the name on the mail.... yep stormi was
right the first time, Master Bear is the one in charge of this girl.

So that means your word is not on the list of things to pay attention to.


DONE,
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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 9:17:30 AM   
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Yelling at a man in public isn't going to change his point of view much, except maybe the way that he views you. I am sure that doing it makes you feel good, and its obvious that you have little respect for what he is, or what you think he is. You might want to consider having a little more respect for what you are, however.

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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 9:40:35 AM   
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RE: Gorean slave silks - 8/12/2004 9:56:30 AM   
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I stated Leon that the Gor books and the Bible are the base to each Lifestyle
I never stated that I view the GOR books as The Bible. Thats You again tempt to force feed words in the way You would have them be read to You, but not how I wrote them.
I live on earth just llike You all tho You would wish I dident.
Peoples own takes on what they learn of anything is not a fabrication or a lie or mis information.
It is simply their Own take on such.
You seem to take issue that sumthing has evolved out of sumone elses opinion but even John
Norman said this was OK and He himself took offence when the sciene fairs refused Him entry into their places of venue just because He accepted the way that GOR has evolved for people in real life while the moral right tempts to sweltch such in every way and shape and form possible. If We cannot accept the progression of Our beliefs then what good are WE as people if We refuse to progress in what ever direction what We learn and live takes Us?
Again You continue to judge others words and ways including Mine as * wrong* They are not.

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I think to find some actual facts ..facts that can be researched...facts that can be found in the non fiction section of a library that actually support your arguement would be very useful...yes. I believe that you need to, simply in order to support your argument.
Ahh there is one thing I would like to say , There are a few Librarys that go against the Goverment and keep bibles on their shelfs and guess what area they can be found in? Being a shelver in One at One time in a College I found this quite amusing.
Illl post sum info here Thorns and You can take the basis and research the Author and His words and writings that tell of the information You seek. I personally have nothing to prove of My Words or Gor to any. Those whom desire to see facts to what I say may seek for Their selfs to see My Truths as I look at them. The Author Him self will tell You where His background for the books came from. Ill leave You wilth sum words of His towards His Own peers in 2001 for the start of Your search Thorns for even in these days and times there are those whom would tempt to only desire to accept GOR at face value and any tempt to expand on it is sqwashed at every turn by many for what ever reason and even the Writer dispised such. Enjoy the Ride~

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2001, my letter pertaining to the possible refusal of certain members of the programming
committee to countenance an intellectually open convention. My first letter was dated April 7,
2001, and the program-participant list was several times added to, and updated, after that time.
The following is my response to the note.

Thank you for your note of June 21, 2001.
Your note reads, in part, as follows:
Thank you for your interest in being a Program participant at the Millennium Philcon.
However, we are unable to accept your offer for this Worldcon.
However, we expect to be able to have a mass autographing session at the Worldcon.
Any writer in attendance will be welcome to come in and sign.


It will be noted, in connection with the first paragraph above, that it was not made clear
why the "acceptors and rejecters" were "unable" to accept my offer of participation. I thought
they were in charge of programming. Without being sanguine to edit another's discourse, I think,
perhaps, they might have said something like "we refuse to let you participate" or, perhaps,
"because of political pressures, from certain authors and/or fans, we feel it might our
jeopardize our position in a personality network, to have an open convention."
I was sorry to be unpleasant, but how else could one possibly have construed such a lame and
implausible remark.
With respect to the second paragraph, their offer was empty, and insulting. For example, as
my name did not appear on the list of program participants none of my fans would know that I
would be there, and, accordingly, would not bring any books to sign. It is hard for me to
suppose that this detail escaped the notice of the "acceptors and rejecters."
The grounds for my exclusion were clearly not logistic or professional. For example, I wrote
to the committee months before the convention, arid their membership list had been updated, with
new additions, several times since that time. That rules out the rationalization of not enough
chairs in the hotel, or such. Similarly, the grounds for my exclusion could not plausibly be
professional. Had I not sold enough millions of books? For example, I have had several million
books published in the genre of science fiction, have a worldwide fandom, am available in
several languages, and have had two movies made which were putatively based on my work. I think
there are very few, if any, authors, much as we love them all, who had objectively made more of
a contribution to the genre in the past fifty years.
To be sure, one could always define 'contribution' in a certain way in order to make things
come out in a certain way, a way in which one would like them to come out.
Whereas it is always unpleasant to be the victim of discrimination, to be misunderstood,
denounced, slandered, libeled, and such, as I have often been, there is really more at stake
here than discriminating against a particular author, or authors, in order to have a politically
correct convention, and one that will appease and please certain insecure and narrow-minded
individuals who want to keep science fiction a one-restaurant town. What is at stake here is
more than, say, one author, and whether he is a bastard or not, and so on; what is at stake is
the integrity and openness of a genre of literature; is it to be free, or not; is dialogue to be
permitted, or not; is restriction, exclusion, and censorship to characterize the genre, or not?
There was an attempt on the part of an author, whose name I omit, as I don't think the
reflection on his moral character would do him, or anyone, much good, some years ago, to keep me
from the San Antonio World Science Convention. But he did not get his way. Unfortunately for him
he was dealing with Texans, folks from the Lone Star State, and they believe in freedom, perhaps
having won it in war. One prizes such things. But it seems that the same values did not obtain
in Philadelphia this year.
The acceptors and rejecters had every right, of course, to close their convention, to yield
to the censors and haters, but it disappoints me that they did so. It is not good for the genre,
and I do not think it is really good, morally, for them to have done so. After all, they will be
what they do.
I made it clear in my correspondence with the "committee" that I was perfectly willing,
incidentally, in public debate, or in an independent lecture, to explain and defend my views,
my position, on a large number of topics. For example, I am a libertarian, and not an
establishment neosocialist, and I would have been happy to discuss the demonstrated
shortcomings and dangers of statist positions. I would have been happy to talk about social
dynamics, statism, collectivism, authoritarianism, the altruist-collectivistic morality, to
talk about the incentive problem, the totalitarian problem, the information problem, the values
of a free market, the utility of invisible-hand processes, and such. Similarly I made it clear
that I was ready to explain and defend the right of consenting human beings to apply to sexual
relationships the delights of fantasy and the joys of the liberated imagination. Sex, as Ayn
Rand tried to convince the prudes and bigots of her day, and seemingly failed, is not low,
degrading, evil, and such. There are more possibilities for sex than five minutes in the dark
twice a week. I thought that perhaps some of the puritans and censors, excluders, hypocrites,
slanderers, and liars, would have cared to discuss these issues publicly, before an open-minded,
attentive audience, rather than hide, hoping to keep the members of the science-fiction
community ignorant of a large variety of interesting alternatives to their own unquestioned
dogmatisms and complacent bigotries But I was wrong.
I informed the committee that they cannot really keep censorship, blacklisting, and such,
secret. I told them that if they ran a closed convention, one denying dialogue and the
appearance of views not congenial to a current establishment, that that will be clear.
I would not want such a stain on my honor, but I suppose one man's stain is another's
convention ribbon of self-preening rectitude.
Science fiction should not be limited to the "over-and-over stuff." There should be room,
too, for the "never-before stuff." Someday perhaps the Berlin wall of science fiction will be
brought down. But I do not think it will come down in the near future. In my view science
fiction has driven on the left side of the road long enough. She has been a one-restaurant town,
with only item on the bill of political fare long enough. Why has science fiction, standard
science fiction, a ghetto existence, and small audiences? Guess. There is a population out
there which might well be interested in hearing what science fiction has to say, if it thought
it had anything to say.
Science fiction's future deserves more than to be a literary backwater despised by serious
critics, and held in contempt by the average intellectual; it deserves more than to be a vehicle
for an endless potlatch of prizes.
One thing I think the programming committee should clearly understand, and I am not sure it
did, is that there are many people in science fiction, and a number of them are very well-known
and famous people, who do believe in free speech and an open marketplace for ideas. They are
not afraid of such things. Indeed, they believe such things are essential for an open genre,
and, indeed, for an open society. Not everyone finds discrimination, censorship, and such,
acceptable. Whereas exclusion may please the thought police of science fiction, it does not,
I state for a fact, please everyone in the genre. Whose good opinion did the program committee
desire? That seems clear. It had a choice. I am disappointed at the choice it made.
Incidentally, I was amused to see that the programming committee was supposedly interested
in strengthening its serious or literary side. I have a Ph.D. from a major Ivy League University
in philosophy, and have appeared on panels having to do with Verne, Stapledon, Wells, Asimov,
Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, Cordwainer Smith, Murray Leinster, Ayn Rand, and others. I also proposed
a panel, rejected without explanation, having to do with the science fiction of Poe and
Hawthorne. I suppose that is not literary enough.
I am not the only individual, of course, who found the programming inexplicable except on
grounds of buddy-buddy politics, and ideological nepotism. On the other hand, of those excluded,
I suspect I have a pretty good business and literary argument. If millions of sales in the genre,
and such, are not good enough to earn a place on even one panel, while dozens of individuals
who are unknown, or practically unknown, appear on several panels, something, if not rotten in
Denmark, is certainly surprising somewhere. It is my hope that this convention will not be an
ill omen for the future of science fiction. She deserves better.
I have attended five World Science Fiction Conventions. The last one, ironically conducted
in the very city in which the Declaration of Independence was signed, which must be an
embarrassment for anyone with any historical sense, was the first in which I was denied
permission to participate. What are we to gather here, that the first four conventions were
wrong? That science fiction is to remain tile province of a political backwater, an enclave of
uncritical, smug, effusively emoting, self-righteous leftist Bourbons who after a hundred
million deaths and the collapse of civilizations have learned nothing and forgotten nothing,
that it is to be forever the sanctuary of the "religious left," the captive of proponents of a
historically refuted, bankrupt ideology? She deserves better.
Monothink is not the salvation of science fiction; it is its death knell as an
intellectually stimulating branch of literature. Science fiction could be so much, and it is
confined to so little.
I do not need this genre, but I love it. Indeed, I must love it, to have put up for years
with the abusive, predictable crap of the politically blinkered ideological Pavlovians, the
psychologically insecure, the emotionally immature, the morally benighted, and the sexually
retarded, of which science fiction has more than her share.
I will close on a personal note, which is trivial, but interesting. I wanted to purchase one
of Tom Kidd's wonderful prints at the convention, but I did not do so, for a simple reason—every
time I would look at it on the wall, I would be reminded of Discrimination con.
My wife put it very nicely: "In Philadelphia the Liberty Bell does not ring."

I wish you well,

John Norman

http://www.nyrsf.com/Issue_83.html

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Anyone who has been to a family reunion and stared around in horror thinking "holy shit! these people really claim to be related to me?" knows about how I feel about this particular thread.

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Leonidas,
i feel that way most of the time at my family reunions rofl.


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