Tavane
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To Akasha: People vary infinitely, and it appears you don't enjoy pampering from your slave, and/or perhaps he doesn't enjoy it. I do think many women find it a bit too feminine for someone they enjoy as a man. Obviously as a matter of time, it would be much faster to have your slave do your nails/hair than to go to a salon, but going to a salon itself is very enjoyable for many women, especially if you have friends there, and everyone needs some time away from the person they live with. I'd help my girlfriend frost her hair, not as a submissive thing, but just because she wanted me to, and I can remember her yelling at me when I'd pull her hair through these holes in this cap, if I pulled too hard on her hair. Once she had some left, and put some on my hair, and we both liked it, and for years thereafter I would have my hair lightened at a beauty school, so I know what it's like to sit in a salon while a girl works on your hair for a while, and then to sit under a dryer, and then have her comb it out and stuff, and I loved it. A few times the students actually asked me if I wanted them to curl it, and naturally I did, but said no. We all have somewhat irrational limits. Obviously a guy who looks like a girl, and goes in every two months or so to have his hair lightened, likes being girly, but it was hard for me to go that final step in a place full of students and clients, and to have it curled, though I did have my hair washed and set in rollers twice at a different beauty school, and it was incredibly exciting. (And also very submissive, since you are "under her control" as soon as she starts washing your hair, and she is feminizing you, and there is nothing you can do about it). It was just too embarrassing, so I only did it a couple of times.
In a normal 40 hours per week working situation, I would think most mistresses would have plenty of time for pampering, and so would the slave. I would think he'd be finished with the after dinner dishes by 7:00 or so, even if she wanted really nice meals every night, and if she enjoys watching TV and reading, he can pamper her for hours; so I think it's a matter of most women not really enjoying that from a slave, and would prefer that such things be done for them by women, rather than the slave that she prefers as a masculine male. As I said, I don't think many mistresses would be interested in the type of slave I'd enjoy being. It's too feminine for them, regardless of how you are dressed, but as a slave, I regard that stuff as the best stuff, since you are touching and bonding and talking, in a very submissive scenario. I love tactile stimulation, and fell in love with one girl friend while we'd give each other back rubs while watching TV and listening to music and talking. I can't get enough ot it, either giving it or getting it, and could happily spend each evening doing my mistress's nails, her hair, and massaging her feet and legs or whatever for hours. If she wanted to engage in her own kinks, that would be up to her, so long as I could deal with them. I know it sounds boring, but the pleasure is irresistible, and I'd much rather be pampering her for hours each evening while we talked and/or watched TV, than just to talk/watch TV. It's not fatiguing work. It's pure pleasure, but I think too feminine for most women, who also enjoy the conversation and other aspects of salons.
You seem very busy, but most people do work 40 hour jobs, and have several hours in the evening to relax. Major housecleaning and laundry can be done on weekends.
MissAnimus: I don't regard schoolteacher as feminine, and many male nurses exist, but hairdressers and secretaries are still very feminine jobs. Being an attorney, I'd be a great legal secretary for some female attorney. I sometimes think that if I had grown up in this era, with support groups and places like this, I would have become a hairdresser or a secretary, knowing I could be in a feminine job, working with and subordinate to women all day long, for the rest of my life, and if I was a hairdresser, doing their hair. That was just unheard of when I was young, but I would have been very happy from the intrinsic submissive and feminine pleasure I'd receive from that type of occupation, and would have loved becoming superb in my job, to please the women. When you are young, you don't realize this is going to rule your life forever, and I thought I was the only person in the world who had such desires.
I fought everything> My mother wished I was a girl, and would often tell me what a pretty girl I'd be, and sometimes would try to get me interested in girl things, but I rebelled against that, especially since I knew I wanted to be a girl so badly, and was afraid of it.
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