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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 4:49:54 PM

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How do we know the under thirty year olds, wanting money are actually women?

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 5:06:36 PM

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How do we know the under thirty year olds, wanting money are actually women?

Yeah, and I turn 50 on Sunday, so I'm hoping that'll screw up azjojoba's statistics. It won't change anything, though. I still wouldn't be interested in him.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 5:07:20 PM

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How do we know the under thirty year olds, wanting money are actually women?

There is no way to know just by their profile. That leaves sub men with a difficult question -- what if their pro domme is always fully dressed? I have seen some impersonators that are so good it would be hard to tell.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 5:15:44 PM

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Observer, it's not objectively true that most women on CM under the age of 30 "want money." You agreed with another poster who made that statement. It's not an "insult" to point out that your opinions are not based in reality.

Your experiences may be colored by the fact that non-pro women (and non-scammer profiles) choose not to answer your emails for whatever reason. If the only female profiles you are able to correspond with are ones that want money, that says something about your approach, not about the women who use the site.

Of course its not objectively true. But its common enough, where I could understand why guys get frustrated over it. I personally don't email people in the lifestyle crowd, because of the radical age difference between myself and them.

What I dont get is, when a guy posts something like this, he gets flamed from all sides. Yet, the women constantly complain how subs are only after sex or getting their fetishes met, and aren't responded to with the kind of derision. When a woman is bitter, its OK, but when a man is bitter, it's wrong that he feels that way, and that it must be his fault to boot.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 5:22:48 PM

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Maybe because it isn't our fault wankers email us... but being married, not getting any and complaining about it constantly while spewing facts as someone see's them is someone's own fault.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 5:28:35 PM

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When a woman is bitter, its OK, but when a man is bitter, it's wrong that he feels that way, and that it must be his fault to boot.

There's a difference between being bitter and being fed up. Most of the dominant women I know are fed up with all the do-me subs, but not bitter. A lot of the guys with very little to offer *do* sound bitter, and if they did something about their issues instead of whining about how unfair it is that no one wants their sorry arses, things might change for them.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 7:02:52 PM

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Yeah, and I turn 50 on Sunday, so I'm hoping that'll screw up azjojoba's statistics. It won't change anything, though. I still wouldn't be interested in him.

You would help to confirm my statistics. I see no hint in your profile that you are a pro -- which is typical of women in your age category. You sure look good though. Is your picture 10 or 15 years out of date?

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 7:07:36 PM

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Of course its not objectively true. But its common enough, where I could understand why guys get frustrated over it. I personally don't email people in the lifestyle crowd, because of the radical age difference between myself and them.

What I dont get is, when a guy posts something like this, he gets flamed from all sides. Yet, the women constantly complain how subs are only after sex or getting their fetishes met, and aren't responded to with the kind of derision. When a woman is bitter, its OK, but when a man is bitter, it's wrong that he feels that way, and that it must be his fault to boot.

I think the rule here is that guys that complain about having to pay a pro are bitter. Women who complain about men who are cheapskates are just stating the facts.

Therefore whenever men complain about something it's because they are bitter.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 7:12:56 PM

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You sure look good though. Is your picture 10 or 15 years out of date?

No. Whenever men make comments like this, they sound bitter.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 7:17:01 PM

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You sure look good though. Is your picture 10 or 15 years out of date?

No. Whenever men make comments like this, they sound bitter.

Actually I was asking Ventatrix, and bitterness has nothing to do with it. She is very gorgeous so I meant it as a compliment.

Are you jealous?

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 7:19:54 PM

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Are you jealous?

Yes. I have always wanted an avatar as cool as yours. But CM says I am too ugly to be allowed to post a pic.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 7:22:16 PM

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Actually azjojoba, your comment sounded pretty passive aggressive. And no... I am not jealous. You got the response you typically get because of how you acted and how you degraded women and even men on occassion. You have talked very badly about your wife on these boards and if women dislike you because of your lack of respect to the woman you are married to... so be it. But don't be surprised when other women evaluate you on that.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 7:33:02 PM

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Actually azjojoba, your comment sounded pretty passive aggressive. And no... I am not jealous. You got the response you typically get because of how you acted and how you degraded women and even men on occassion. You have talked very badly about your wife on these boards and if women dislike you because of your lack of respect to the woman you are married to... so be it. But don't be surprised when other women evaluate you on that.

Oh, so I say something nice and therefore I'm exhibiting "passive aggressive" behavior. Why is it so offensive to compliment a woman on her good looks? Another thing -- could you lay off on my marital situation?

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 7:46:06 PM

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Well, there is a need for it and guys who can buy for stuff should be able to buy what they want....

its like a different version of going on a date, but kinky style I guess......

If they actually do end up doing some kinky stuff / sex acts / turn on's, I think its less about the money and more about a date that went more and more sexual......
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Considering that, I might consider going Pro-Dom..... lol.....although I would have a string-ant screening process......Do you like oil on your skin? Any STD's I should be concerned about? LET's GET IT ON!?

If you want to give me money, please let me know, so I can tell you were to send it.........(not where the sun don't shine, I like my money in the sun)

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 7:49:32 PM

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Yeah, and I turn 50 on Sunday, so I'm hoping that'll screw up azjojoba's statistics. It won't change anything, though. I still wouldn't be interested in him.

You would help to confirm my statistics. I see no hint in your profile that you are a pro -- which is typical of women in your age category. You sure look good though. Is your picture 10 or 15 years out of date?

Well, that depends largely on what you mean by "out of date." The third photo of me was taken in September 2007 at the Folsom Street Fair; the other two photos were taken earlier in 2007. I am delaying putting up new photos, as I'm in the middle of a makeover. My hair is now shoulder length, blondish-red, and I've lost 16 pounds this year and still going. No point putting up new photos when they won't look like me in a few weeks. And, yes, as I approach 50, I'm delighted that my face is virtually unlined and I've never had a lick of plastic surgery. In fact, I've never been in the hospital for anything; I even still have my tonsils. Must be all that whisky I drink.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 8:40:54 PM

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Well, that depends largely on what you mean by "out of date." The third photo of me was taken in September 2007 at the Folsom Street Fair; the other two photos were taken earlier in 2007.

I was a little off. I was going to guess the pics were from 1995. LOL!

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I am delaying putting up new photos, as I'm in the middle of a makeover. My hair is now shoulder length, blondish-red, and I've lost 16 pounds this year and still going. No point putting up new photos when they won't look like me in a few weeks. And, yes, as I approach 50, I'm delighted that my face is virtually unlined and I've never had a lick of plastic surgery. In fact, I've never been in the hospital for anything; I even still have my tonsils. Must be all that whisky I drink.

I drink beer and whiskey but it hasn't helped. he!he!

Thank you so much for taking my compliments so graciously!

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 8:53:33 PM

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But CM says I am too ugly to be allowed to post a pic.

If it makes you feel better, Red, they told me that too.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 9:02:25 PM

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It's a market. Sub het men are in gross oversupply, while there is great demand for attractive young women. Why would you expect her to sell herself below market? Either raise your game or lower your expectations.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 9:28:02 PM

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It's a market. Sub het men are in gross oversupply, while there is great demand for attractive young women. Why would you expect her to sell herself below market? Either raise your game or lower your expectations.

Yep, I touched on this truth before in my COMMON FANTASIES THREAD, but didn't say it as succinctly.

The problem is that women had to go to work in WW2, and then after working, were then pushed back into households, and were like, but wait, we were just being paid to work.....

This was an American/Canadian issue, and thus we get the women's movement, etc....

If we are all about equality, We probably should have women having to sign up for the draft also, along with men. Otherwise, probably should not let them vote in America.

Then, you don't have individuals fighting, you have fighting families just like in Israel. Everyone goes to war. Both men and women stand side by side in the fight.....

This seems more fair and smarter to me. Lets me get laid without having to pay for it at the local sex parlor.....my wife is with me......gun in hand.....

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/13/2009 10:00:50 PM

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It's funny you mention "gun in hand". My husband and I were planning to go run a couple clips through our 9mms and zero in his SKS this weekend. Nothing like a little bonding.

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