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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/22/2009 8:08:59 AM

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RedMagic1,
When I wish to look better in your eyes, I will be sure to let you know.
Though when you understand generalizations, perhaps then you may catch on to life.
Or I could pull a page out of your book and make vague threats.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/22/2009 8:49:18 AM

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Huh? This is getting bizarre.

Someone who doesn't care how other people perceive him isn't much of a dominant, frankly. To be in control, it is essential to be able to adjust the motion of others. Therefore, it is important to me to know how people react to things I say and do, as I want to lead them toward an objective, or at minimum, get them out of my way. If every time I opened my mouth, people said, "What an asshole," or, "He always talks in generalities, and can't seem to be specific in a helpful way," no one would take me seriously, and I would have no power over anyone's life.

This thread is about what people think about dommes who want generous men. Lots of people have posted, for many pages now. The only person who seems to be spoiling for a fight with multiple posters is you. If lots of people are taking issue with your posts, we might not all be wrong. I've known quite a few women who have done sex work for a living. Two weeks ago, I saw one of them get a PhD. I've also known women and men who have all kinds of different relationships to money. There are people from all over the world who post here, and they have specific life experience that contradicts your generalizations about "dommes who want generous men," and other generalizations of yours that seem rather off topic.

People will call BS if you post dopey things. They'll call BS if you don't sometimes, too. That's life. But it's a guarantee if you say things that are illogical or false, as you did in the last post I quoted.

I would be very happy to read anything you wrote that was based in concrete life experience, and relevant to the topic of the thread.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/22/2009 8:53:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: Fadingthought

RedMagic1,
When I wish to look better in your eyes, I will be sure to let you know.
Though when you understand generalizations, perhaps then you may catch on to life.
Or I could pull a page out of your book and make vague threats.

Quit being such a twerp. Red is one of the kindest gentlemen on these forums. If you are taking offense to something he has written, I guarantee it's not him, it's you.

I work for a living, I get paid for what I do, I am still the one running the show. Granted there is a fine line I run on with the owner, the key is to balance on that line.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/22/2009 9:01:55 AM

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I thought they wanted a man with a HUGE penis. That's not what "generous" means in the online world? Crap, now I wasted all of those cock shots.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/22/2009 9:09:56 AM

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Jeez get the heck out of other people's business huh. While it's not my cup of tea if some one wishes to pay for a pro D or S what business is it of anyone not involved. (no the coment was not targeted at any of those who have posted.) In the end what ever happened to mind your own business and let others handle thiers?

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/23/2009 2:38:54 AM

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Oh great, here we go, 'You aren't much of a dominant' argument.' Do you honestly care what people think about you over the internet? If that is how you gauge yourself in your private life, I'd suggest getting a life.
I gave my opinion on this thread, you and one other poster seem to have been offended and felt the need to personally attack me. To the effect of vague threats about how the internet is not anonymous and how you thought you knew about me.
I am not afraid to call you out on it.

But the irony of it all is that you seem think that I'm the one picking the fight.
Reread my posts if you doubt me, I've been very clear, I only said in my personal experience that my opinions hold true, I don't claim to know it all.
You are the one claiming that I'm not much of a dominant, meanwhile trying to claim that I'm the one looking for a fight.
Seriously, where have I claimed that anyone's experience is invalid or they are not a real dom(as you have just done).

I am expressing my viewpoint, you are the one claiming I'm a fake.

*yawn*

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Huh? This is getting bizarre.

Someone who doesn't care how other people perceive him isn't much of a dominant, frankly. To be in control, it is essential to be able to adjust the motion of others. Therefore, it is important to me to know how people react to things I say and do, as I want to lead them toward an objective, or at minimum, get them out of my way. If every time I opened my mouth, people said, "What an asshole," or, "He always talks in generalities, and can't seem to be specific in a helpful way," no one would take me seriously, and I would have no power over anyone's life.

This thread is about what people think about dommes who want generous men. Lots of people have posted, for many pages now. The only person who seems to be spoiling for a fight with multiple posters is you. If lots of people are taking issue with your posts, we might not all be wrong. I've known quite a few women who have done sex work for a living. Two weeks ago, I saw one of them get a PhD. I've also known women and men who have all kinds of different relationships to money. There are people from all over the world who post here, and they have specific life experience that contradicts your generalizations about "dommes who want generous men," and other generalizations of yours that seem rather off topic.

People will call BS if you post dopey things. They'll call BS if you don't sometimes, too. That's life. But it's a guarantee if you say things that are illogical or false, as you did in the last post I quoted.

I would be very happy to read anything you wrote that was based in concrete life experience, and relevant to the topic of the thread.

< Message edited by Fadingthought -- 5/23/2009 2:59:19 AM >

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 5/23/2009 5:38:14 AM

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What's wrong with liking generous men?
I love money, I love gifts, don't we all love to be spoiled from time to time?

BUT....it's not a requirement for the sub to give me money or gifts, I will NEVER ask for anything. If that person loves to spoil me, ok, nice extra for me. but I'm not for sale.
D/s is still about feelings and people, not about how much you can get for it.

(PS: English isn't my first language, so having troubles to express myself in the way I would want to, so if you read anything weird, np)

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 9/13/2009 9:58:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: Newsensation

Hi all. I've noticed that there are a lot of domme women on this site seeking submissive men who are "generous". I'm not talking about the professional dommes who advertise here, I'm looking more at the non pros. I'm just curious to see what others think about this?

I think P.T. Barnum was right. But it's their money, and if it makes them happy, more power to them.

I also think this is the internet, and people are drawn to make themselves known to those who might willingly part with a dollar or two.

I also think it's a valid kink, and what I think doesn't really matter in the end

Amen and pass the gravy!

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