LaTigresse
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I was thinking about this thread and how to answer it. I think that the reality, our real lives, are much more flexible. Sometimes too flexible, therefor the answers of "ditch the person!" On one hand, if we go into a relationship with specific needs, then we sacrifice those needs, we are being dishonest. Mostly with ourselves. Ultimately a relationship that consistantly demands one person sacrifice their core self to make it work, will probably fail. Also, from a different perspective and hinted to above, one could also ask, is dominance that cheap? If a submissive goes into a relationship knowing the requirements and boundaries the dominant party expects from them, then that should not be set aside. Something to be picked back up when convenient. Crying foul when the dominant reminds them of the expections initially laid out. The expectations they mutually agreed to. I try to look at it from both sides, but it does come back to my own. If I have said from the beginning I expect X, I will always expect X, no excuses for lack of X, if you cannot do X then you should not consider belonging to me. And that slave/submissive agrees to that condition, knowing full well the importance of X to me, then once safely (in their mind) ensconced in my home, begins to ignore X, treat it as unimportant, then in my mind they are cheapening our agreement and my dominance.
< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 4/13/2009 9:16:02 AM >
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one! Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!
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