ChainedExistence
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Joined: 2/5/2005 Status: offline
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There are any number of reasons...some may be valid and some may not: 1. There's a thought that at 18, this is just a passing fancy for you, a whim, a wild notion that may not last for long. I know many submissives/slaves wouldn't want to start up a relationship with someone who might be in this for the short run. I think this view comes from the fact that many of us came to "discover" this about ourselves over a period of years, and are somewhat "leery" of someone who apparently makes the decision about this quickly. 2. While there are wonderfully mature 18 year olds and some doggone goofy older folks, the fact is MOST people at least gain some life experiences with age. I thought I was mature at 18, but in hindsight I can easily see how much I had to learn, and how much I can STILL learn even now. Young people are enthusiastic to be sure, but often you can't tell them anything. Life has a way of making sure you learn, whether you want to or not. For example, why should it really matter to you if someone says you are too young for them? That just helps you get one step closer to someone for whom you are the perfect age. 3. There are many submissives/slaves looking for the "daddy" situation, and let's face it-it's hard to see someone as a daddy who is younger than yourself. 4. I know for me, I like knowing a man is somewhat "settled:" into his career, and his life. Not that I need a man to take care of me.,..but I at least want to know he can take care of himself. One thing you have is the luxury of time to find that someone who is right for you. Maybe we "oldies" are just jealous!
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