LaTigresse
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Using fast reply...... I still think that a lot of guys are not getting that, it isn't that the dominant women do not want to do kinky things, or a guarantee that they won't. What it is, is that they do not want that to be the MAIN FOCUS or reason for the service. They kinda like it to be their idea, their choice. I think this particular disconnect come most strongly in the difference between genders. While I have dealt with this same problem with people online that have female profiles, the odds have it that only a percentage of them are, in fact, female. I believe that men do tend to be more kink/sexually driven which is strongly tied to their submission and service. They want some sort of guaranteed payout for their efforts. In essence, they still want to be able to dominate the relationship. I will serve you however you want, as long as I get my kink on. There seems to be less grasp of the fact that they are dealing with women that are going to be in control. And unlike a large number of men, these women are going to be less willing to settle for anything less that what works for them. Even if it means being without a submissive. As Michael said, it may work for these guys while they are still young and hot looking, but add 20-30 years, and all that entails, it's not going to work anymore. Then they are going to be sitting behind a computer whining about being alone and professing their past experience at excellent service. The reality is their experience was as a kinky bottom, being eye candy for some hot young woman. If that woman was dominant, she has probably moved on to a man, or men, that really got it. Or, she just kept trading them in for younger, hotter, eye candy. Because like it or not, hetro dominant women are able to do that. If they want to.........
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one! Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!
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