Dastan
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From: Barranquilla city, Colombia
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ORIGINAL: Apocalypso
I have to admit to the fact I'm finding the fact you just took a paragraph to tell me how "I'm not gay, you are!", with the obligatory Internet Tough Guy threats, incredibly funny. (Yeah, that doesn't make you look insecure in your masculinity at all). And it's really tempting to start trolling you on this point, just for the hilarity that would ensue. But it's not really the point.
Well, I am confused, because I really thought you meant it as that you were gay/bi and assumed we were....
Anyways, I don't have to be the Internet Tought Guy, I am tough and trust me, I didn't want to get tought the way i did nor do i wish it to anyone else, but I guess that sometiems people do need to learn the hard way and it's all good if it works for their benefit. And as for insecurities...well, I don't think you have to worry about mine or yours much.
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ORIGINAL: Apocalypso
I'd suggest you might be better placed actually looking at the point about how you're not treating women like human beings and ignoring them when they tell you anything you don't want to hear. That was kinda more important. It's also the one that's far more difficult for you to address. Because it actually means being honest with yourself and accepting that you're currently doing this for your fantasy and your needs. And actually accepting that maybe your current selfperception isn't in line with the reality of your attitudes.
Facing up to that is going to take a lot more courage than posturing about irrelevant sideissues. Hence the fact you've spent the entire thread avoiding directly addressing that point, not just from me, but repeatedly being made to you, often by women.
Hardest thing I have ever done this week: I got to see, instigated by a Mistress, a MaleDom FemaleSub video for 15 minutes. Gimmie a tazer and a freon spray again any time of the week, this hurt me more than a flaying with sandpaper, but I managed to take it. I didn't like it, but I managed to stop myself from hitting pause and lying to her saying I was watching the video or doing soemthing like that. Yay for me...
I still feel bad about it, although I am understanding one thing regarding the issue, as she explained to me some things but it's not like I am about to learn to swim when I am still learning to crawl, if you get my drift. At least now I won't go medieval on soem guy if I see a dungeon scene and not get the heads up for it to know it's just play-alike.
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ORIGINAL: Apocalypso
Protip: The comment made about you and Flogger was me trying to bait you, successfully so. (Well, ok, and playing to an audience in general. I never claimed to be a saint). The comment about you being a misogynist was made entirely genuinely and was not an insult. It's an honest description of how I see you currently. I don't think you see yourself as one. Fine. And I could be entirely wrong. But maybe you should actually face the issue face on instead of just writing it off without looking at it. Because I'm guessing you're somebody who wouldn't want to see yourself as somebody who runs away...
Trust me, I don't run away, and yes, I know you were trying to start a fight, but in my country, we don't run from them if we feel insulted or that it deserves the time, based on principle and convenience. Maybe it's the cause of having the longest guerrilla civil unrest in the world but it has also given us 60 years of being tough enough to rise above the rest of the continent in many ways, inside our souls. But I can understand that to your culture, things are different, you don't have your own internal war to go to, you don't have to live some things, so you got soft, and it's ok, no sin in being on the comfy end of the bench and leave the bed of nails to someone else to sit on.
And if you see me as Misogynistic and such, well, i don't really care, I can agree to disagree, it's not like I am the Inquisition, but I do have my right and will exercise, to draw a line int he sand and dare someone toc ross it and face the music, because I believe in what i do and feel and think like on the issue. It's a human right, and I am not taking it to the extreme of shooting or blowing up someone and myself for what I believe in, but I will fight you for it, or anyone else, justa s you'd do it for your own thoughts and way of life, so once that is said, I don't think you'd run away from it as I wouldn't, as I know for a fact myself and I am starting to see a bit of yourself, but I guess you don't believe so.
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First of all I would very rarely call someone outside to fight, as I generally don't believe in violence solving things,and in a situation where violence was called for, I certainly wouldn't be so childish as to call a person outside to fight,Iwould fight right where we were. The "Dungeon" in my signature line is a joke, it refers to the game Dungeons & Dragons. And in my 4000+ posts on here,I have never once bragged to anybody about how many girls I dommed. 
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