MarcEsadrian
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ORIGINAL: Blaakmaan Has any Dominant/Master had any success with getting a sub/slave to perform a REALLY hard task--particularly, to stop smoking or to lose weight? If you have had success in either or both of those areas, would you please share with me what you did, and how you did it? If you're a sub or a slave, and your Dominant/Master was able to help you to stop smoking or to lose weight, could you share what he/she did, and how he/she did it? What is the greater force of persuasion: the chocolate cake in the refrigerator, the pack of cigarettes waiting at the convenience store down the street, or the Master? I'm aware this is a simplistic approach, but it is vitally relevant and speaks to the stark reality that only the addicted individual can make the ultimate decision to reject their addictions. Thus, it's a matter of how relevant your wishes are. If you want to command her body, command her mind foremost. You will see soon enough where you lie on the ladder of importance in this respect. Sometimes these exercises can be fairly revealing, I will add. As one who has experience in this area, I will say this: be very proactive in enforcing your regimen. Monitor closely and intimately. Have her account to you every day in private dialog. Administer positive reinforcement in conjunction with discipline and punishment, when needed. Use this overall mantle as her rock to cling to as she suffers withdrawals and bouts of uncertainty. As the old substance supports wither and die away, you move in to take their place. Be consistent and structured, but don't loose empathy as well. I'm not going to share the finer details of what I have done, as I don't believe they should be freely given out to someone who lacks the imagination or resolve to come up with them on his own, and besides, I don't think offering a "formula" of specific acts or rules would help much anyway; each situation, just like each person, is different, and needs to be handled as such.
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