mixielicous
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Joined: 4/6/2006 From: Boston area, Massachusetts Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: mixielicous Well, seeing as how I have to talk to myself like that to get off *alone* I dont really consider it an edge. *nods* But isn't it a little different when it's someone else? Like, more emotional I think, possibly. Ok, so before I was aware of BDSM as something more than bondage and scratching, back when the whole lifestyle was not in the picture, when I had an abusive ex who ended our relationship with rape, if he talked to me like that during the end of the relationship when the abuse started, yes, that could have had the potential to hurt me emotionally. But then again, if he was coercing me into sex and then called me a fat pig, I would most likely have kicked him in the balls. I would say in a dungeon where the Dom may not know your history or emotional triggers and yellow lights it could be edge play because if you say the wrong thing to the wrong girl, you can easily send her over the edge. I guess this would also transcend into fresh BDSM relationships, or scene-theme only meets. For two people who are fostering a relationship though, healthily and at a regulated pace, verbal humiliation will most likely not rear its fat whore head until the right time.
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