photohound
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Joined: 9/19/2007 Status: offline
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If your going to start out a new relationship lying to someone you care for and love, then why bother being with the other person? I know these people are not going to tell you " yes go ahead and cheat" this lifestyle is about honesty and trust, if you can't do that in a vanilla relationship how can you even be in a lifestyle or even kink play that requires a even more deeper trust and honesty? Even if you are just looking to be tied up and spanked, you still have to be open and honest with the person doing it to you, for their safety and yours.I will have to agree, why marry someone if they are not a match for you and your interests, it is not fair and is rather deceitful.A good relationship contains honestly, trust, communications and loving someone WITHOUT conditions, if our new wife freaks out by what you tell her or you feel you may lose her because you are just being your self then maybe the relationship was not meant to be in the first place. Either tell her or do with out for the sake of maintaining a vanilla relationship,if you cheat, you WILL get caught sooner or later and think of the damage then.If you are happy in the relationship, no piece of ass is worth losing and hurting someone you love and care about.You may feel it is already too late, never too late, the damages and consequences will be worse as the relationship goes further, tell her now if she leaves, then you are free to find your kink play partner with out being a cheater.
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