SpaceForMore
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Hello everyone. I am new to these forums and also have zero real life experience in this way of life. I have been reading this thread, and enjoying it a lot. Many of the things cillydom speaks of resonates with me, and I thank you greatly, cillydom, for posting this. I think though there is a lot of disagreement in substance between the two camps that have emerged, a contributing factor has been cillydom's style and tone of voice as he makes his points. His posture is that of a lecturer, making his points in a declarative manner, though qualifying them often as saying this is him and his way, but also leaving the impression that this is how it should be. This impression is strengthened by his reluctance or unwillingness to debate issues in what appears to be a disinterest, or, perhaps, no offense but for lack of a better term, laziness, in replying to objections or counter points. I don't necessarily fault him for this because he may not wish to engage in debates, which may not be his thing, which, to me, is fine, he is free to make his points and move on to the next subject. He does not have to be lucky albatross or celeste, whose admirable reasoning power, and rigour in handling of issues, is delivered in a manner akin to one of a brain surgeon. He could be analogues to a scientist with a great imagination, an Albert Einstein who would come up with the insight of the theory of relativity, and leave the math of the proof to mathematicians. This style of cd's has not bothered me any, because i disregard his dismissive style and savor much of the treasure he delivers. For example, I did not find objectionable his description of the conflict between thinking-woman and submissive woman. I loved the drama he presented there, hated thinking woman, and loved submissive woman. It made perfect sense to me that the dom and the sub woman would collude and try to demolish thinking woman. I would similarly expect that people who would put their brain on hold in many situations so as to serve a master ("he knows best"), who without objection think of themselves as fuckTOYS on many occastions, and savor this, would identify themselves with the submissive woman and hate thinking woman. Also his discriptoin of one not wanting to be sadistic towards one's wife after they have been together a long time, after she has born him children, also made a lot of sense to me,.... Anyway, I am delighted to be here, and am learning a lot from all the thoughtful posts. Please continue the discussion, and CM, please don't stop. And oh-- this post is intended to reflect only the poster's view. Mileage may vary. If the reader of this post wishes to get this post in an email, please let me know, and I will email it to you. SFM
< Message edited by SpaceForMore -- 3/19/2006 6:57:52 PM >
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